Some time ago, a person went to see his favorite writer, crossed three districts, and changed the subway twice in the middle, which was actually a pleasant life charm. I often think that if life has to have a bus card to go to every city, then the only thing I have to do is to go to every place in every city, stop for a minute, have a glass of water, dress up, chat with strangers, and then take a photo casually, take a walk and have a look.

Therefore, every minute, no matter which city or corner you are in, you should be more confident and gentle with the people who want to see you.

A long time ago, you were too timid and lonely to walk long distances. When I grow up, curiosity overcomes fear and loneliness, and my mental age pretends to be mature. The colorful world has become less protected, and it takes two people to get close, so I want to stay alone and see the unique scenery that the world once needed to look up.

In fact, the older people are, the more they will understand with their psychological age. Therefore, children who leave home often report good news instead of bad news. The first time you have a bad temper at school, you will understand your mistakes. For the first time, you will learn to restrain yourself, learn not to shed tears in crowded places and say nothing about grievances.

Parents at home are still on the phone, worried that he or she is outside, that is, afraid of being wronged outside. A long time ago, I was impatient with my parents. Over time, this verbosity is like a good medicine when I am sick. I felt very lost when I didn't hear it.

Only then do you understand that all kinds of life have given birth to thick and gentle double cocoons at the bottom of your heart, so that you can steer completely by yourself in the next big wind and waves.

A few days ago, I worked as a teaching assistant in an early education center. Most of the babies I took were only two or three years old. I spent two months cultivating "three hearts": care, patience and perseverance.

I will help the babies take photos of their daily activities, write a daily diary for each baby, cut out and pack the teaching materials and appliances they need in class, translate them in English class, guide them to draw pictures, tell a few short stories occasionally, have fun, feed and sleep regularly every day, and take care of every bit of their lives.

I used to think that the unchanging life was not good at all, it was boring, like a very enterprising and self-indulgent life state. Later, I learned that my views have always been too sensitive and one-sided. Two months is enough time for me to understand and see what role I played in the growth of these babies.

I can coax the crying baby in three or two sentences among this group of babies who have been away for a long time. I can sit next to the baby who doesn't like to sleep during the nap and pull his hair to make the baby fall asleep quickly. I will sing the song "Work" with the babies, take them in neat rows downstairs for activities and exercises, and patiently tell them which behaviors are wrong and which behaviors are right. If they do something wrong, they should say "I'm sorry" first.

After school in the afternoon, every time the foreign teacher sings the song Bye-bye, she will say, OK, see you tomorrow, little friend. These babies will flock to school, hug their thighs, beat their backs and pat their hair ... most of them are wrapped in their arms by the generous shoulders of foreign teachers, and that moment every day is the warmest, gentlest and most powerful moment for me.

When you are with children, you will find yourself unconsciously becoming a naive ghost. It will be very interesting to watch the weather, speak English and do actions every day. You will subconsciously make faces to tease your homesick and crying baby.

You always say that shoulders bear the weight of children's hearts.

So, honey, you have to be gentle enough to support their innocence.

Have you ever met a person who seems to be working hard, but the result is not satisfactory. He thinks that the whole world will make way for you, but the whole world is the one who is sorry for you.

Arvin said that she was probably like that, but we are all like that.

Since March, Gao Jiawen and I have been preparing for CET-4 and CET-6 together. Except for class time, we have been trying to recite real questions in the library, and sometimes we get dizzy and bored, but no one has ever said give up. When the scores came out, I thought our efforts and intentions would be worthy of our achievements. Unfortunately, we all fell badly. Not only did you fail in the exam, but even your progress was not obvious.

Later, Awen and I began to learn how to find ways to correct the mistake of "emphasizing quantity over quality". We thought more and paid more attention to it. We agreed to call again next time.

I dare not give a definite answer. We will get a satisfactory result in the next exam, but I know we all have the courage to look at the problem and be gentle with ourselves. This courage and gentleness have experienced stumbling again and again.

At some stage in life, we become gentle enough. This tenderness is mixed in front of the person we like, the person Wan Li misses, an experience in life journey, and the courage to rise up and chase after repeated hesitation.

So you see, the older you get, the gentler you get.