1, the economic pressure is increasing.
Nowadays, children begin to receive education from birth, and all kinds of early education training classes and interest classes are very expensive. As far as kindergartens are concerned, they range from 1,000 yuan a month to several thousand yuan a month. It costs at least100000 yuan to finish kindergarten, which is double for families with two children and a heavy burden for ordinary families.
2. The education problem is difficult to solve.
If two families have the same conditions, one family has one child and the other has two children, it is conceivable that the education that the children of the first family can get from childhood is the best, which is much better than that of the family with two children. No matter whether children go to kindergarten or primary school, families with many children will control and explain.
3. The problem of children's marriage cannot be ignored.
Now everyone is pursuing equality between men and women. Both boys and girls need to have their own financial backing as the foundation to find their equal status in marriage, otherwise both boys and girls will be looked down upon by the other party because of economic problems or lack of matching people. Therefore, our parents need to prepare multiple wedding funds for multiple children, which is very stressful for a family.
4. Family conflicts will increase.
In a family with children, parents can give all their love to their children. However, in a family with many children, it is actually difficult for a family to have a bowl of water. It may also lead to disharmony in family relations and a series of family conflicts and disputes because of children's different personalities. Of course, many problems are caused by family economic disputes. After all, the economic base determines the superstructure.
So for me, it is ok to choose to have children. If I have two or even three children, I can't accept it, because the pressure of life is too great, which will have a great impact on me and my family, which is not what I want.