4 months ~ 1 year: mainly visual stimulation.
1 ~2 years old: Understand and practice all kinds of basic living habits+basic cognitive training.
2 years old to now: mainly to stimulate children's interest+establish various rules+cultivate life ability and study habits.
I am a comrade who loves reading. My parents have allowed me to buy the books I want since I was a child, without any restrictions. Good reading time has always been a very good childhood memory for me.
After my son was born, I began to toss about all kinds of parenting classics (it seems a little late). My first introduction to picture book theory was Song Juzhi's Seeds of Happiness, and I embarked on the road of picture books.
The picture books I introduced include all kinds of grounded books and some familiar picture books. . .
Next, I will introduce my picture book and the method of parent-child reading by age:
2.4 months ~ 1 year-old: a full set of true fruit visual wall charts+early education big names+cloth books+little rabbit Mimi.
Full set of true fruit visual wall charts-visual stimulation for baby
Black and white pictures are the best choice for visual stimulation of newborns. At this time, children only have black and white in their eyes, and the perception of color system has not yet developed.
So use simple graphics for visual stimulation, chessboard, bull's-eye, waves, these are the classic pictures that the baby is interested in.
The Big Card of Early Education-Cognitive+Auditory Stimulation
Big pictures of fruits, animals, etc. Show with bright colors, intuitive picture content and catchy children's songs.
Anyone who has had parenting experience during this period knows that babies don't like to lie down and like to be held vertically. In this way, their perspective will be wider, and moving objects will give them freshness. But their spines are not well developed, so it is better to hold them sideways. Therefore, I put the cards one by one and hung them on the walls of the living room and bedroom.
When holding a child, raise an arm so that he can see these numbers intuitively. There is also a win-win situation. Adults sit on the sofa and let the children lie on their legs. He can see the graphics intuitively, and the parents recite the children's songs on the cards to him.
I still remember the children's song on the little penguin card-"The little penguin lives in the South Pole, with a black skirt and a white shirt. It's really impressive to shake it." When my son went to the aquarium, he was interested in few fish creatures. After staying in the Penguin Pavilion for a long time and playing for a long time, I may have a subconscious impression in my mind.
Cloth Book+Little Rabbit Mifei-Entering the World of Picture Books
Children can sit up and start playing with cloth books, which won't tear. My son is a rabbit, so I started with all kinds of stories about the rabbit, telling him stories about his grandparents, playing with the stars, celebrating his birthday and so on.
/kloc-the stage before 0/year-old is basically a variety of chanting machines with children in their arms. Look at the pictures, listen to the sounds and touch the limbs.
Second, 1 ~2 years old and a half life habits and cognitive ability training
"David Can't"-the cultivation of behavior habits, personally like this set of books.
David is an energetic child with a potato-like head, a pair of unruly eyes, a triangular nose and sharp teeth. He is curious about everything and wants to try everything. Paint the walls, break bowls and vases, run around barefoot, take a bath and play with water, and knock everything jingle. ...
"No" is the sentence that David hears the most, and it is also the sentence that many children hear the most. Because of the same experience, my son will laugh when he sees David doing these "no" things. He gives the impression that he is kind and funny and easy to * * *.
In many such scenes, parents can guide their children to think about why David has so many "no's" and what is the solution to the problem.
"Crash Series"-Cultivation of Living Habits
This series is a book flip. Mainly around living habits. Tell the story through the three positive images of hippo, pig and mouse VS the negative image of crocodile.
Very interesting. My son was very addicted for a while. How to wipe your ass after shit, brush your teeth up and down, say hello when you meet, how to take a shower and so on.
"Little Ball Listening to Folk Music"-Picture Book +CD, the Opening of Language Ability
I will listen to this nursery rhyme for him from 10 months. Almost 2 years old, from babbling to slowly stepping on the last word of a sentence, singing a children's song smoothly.
Every time I listen, I sing with him and let him look at my mouth and say it together. Sometimes he will record his own children's songs to him, and he will laugh his head off and be very happy.
Itsumi Taro's book, such as the yellow one ... is a butterfly! "Gifts outside the window" —— Color cognition and curiosity cultivation
Itsumi Taro's books are very interesting. The above two books are cave books. For example, the yellow one is a butterfly, with the little boy catching the butterfly as the main line. There is a butterfly-shaped hole in each book, and the color of the next page in the hole is yellow. But every time I turn to the next page, I find that the yellow in the hole is actually oranges, eggs, flowers, hens and so on.
Every time I talk about this book, my son will say "This is not a butterfly" before asking me questions, hahaha. ...
Who is behind me? -Perception of direction
This book explains the spatial position very well. Every page will have an animal, and the partial body of another animal will appear in one direction of the animal. In the process of guessing animals, children will gradually know the concepts of up, down, left and right.
Car DuDu Series-Boys' Passion for Cars, Introduction to Popular Science
4.2-3 years old (up to now): stimulate children's interest+establish various rules+cultivate life ability and study habits.
At this stage, children's sense of self-independence begins to sprout, and with their own ideas and opinions, "conflicts" with their parents will begin to increase because of the improvement of independence.
So during this period, I let him take care of himself first (the basic ability of taking care of himself is ok), and on this basis, I pay attention to establishing some rules, and he can choose independently within the scope of the rules.
The most important thing is to improve his emotional control ability. When parents and children have different ideas, how can we reach an understanding?
Thomas train-emotional training
Three-year-old children give me the obvious feeling that my temper is rising. When they are not satisfied, they still don't know how to control their emotions or how to deal with them. They like to vent their dissatisfaction by shouting.
Because my son loves train toys, the cars at home are basically Thomas, James, Messi and Edward.
So I bought a set of Thomas' books on emotional cultivation. For example, Thomas should not be bad-tempered. The story begins with Thomas' bad temper, and then tells the consequences of his bad temper.
The most interesting thing is that in the second half of the book, children are asked to find scenes in life where they will lose their temper and what they will do when they lose their temper. Games such as sticking stars, sticking red flags and cutting train masks can help children understand when they will lose their temper and what to do when they lose their temper.
Babe bear series-all kinds of emotional cultivation, living habits and rules
This set of books expresses all aspects of life through various life scenes of a family of five bears. Every bear in it has its own shortcomings and advantages. For example, whose fault is the bear quarreling after the vase is broken? The father will solve the problem and tell the children to solve the problem from action.
Storytelling lays the foundation for future reading, and reading lays the foundation for future thinking ability. Therefore, when telling a story, the process of telling and the way of guiding are also very important.
1, cultivate "listening ability": after saying a sentence, let the child repeat it or let him tell stories to other parents.
2. Exercise thinking ability: ask what and why, and pay attention to the expression of logical relations such as causality.
3, reverse thinking: will provide appropriate "if ...", let children reverse thinking.
What is what-popular science books.
The child is old enough to ask why. There is a saying in the blue ocean that is deeply imprinted in my heart. Children will seriously answer when they ask "what" and patiently answer when they ask "why". When he was a teenager, he would say a lot of "why".
So I hope he can keep his curiosity about the world and his parents can give him a good response.
My son likes cars very much and is very interested in the garage, so I bought him this set of books, which contain all kinds of why answers suitable for young children, mainly focusing on phenomena, and have not yet reached the stage of explaining the mechanism.
Modern children should cultivate more popular science knowledge. Besides reading to him and visiting the garage, I also took him to places like the train museum to stimulate his interest.
The story of the zodiac and Zhan Tong's "Snail and Ant, Fox and Crow, Pigs Eat Watermelon"-an understanding of traditional culture.
Many of the picture books I am reading now are foreign, Japanese, American (I don't like Korean) and so on. My childhood memories are all comic books of China, so I want to expose my children to some picture books of China. So there are these China picture books related to traditional cultural stories.
Children like the story of slugs and ants very much. It's autumn now, and he asked me several times when I was walking. Is Guoguo going to starve to death? Because it only sings in summer, unlike ants who store food for winter in summer, hahaha. ...
Some domestic publishing houses, I prefer English children's books, dandelions, and a pop blue picture library.
There are also some books, such as:
Serena rushed forward and answered, "Where am I from?"
My Dad-My dad doesn't spend much time with me, so I also want to erect a great image of my father through picture books. It seems that this foreign father is hard to attract attention.
Uncle Gan went to swim the river-the painting style is unique, but the children don't like it.
Finally, to sum up, there are not many books for children, but they should be suitable; There are not many methods and tricks. The key is to be able to penetrate the contents of the book into life from beginning to end.
Virgo mother's testimony is for sharing and recording.