It's just that many people care too much about the beginning. Prenatal education for unborn children, early education at birth, children's various interest classes, children's training, the connection between children and children ... euphemistically called: win at the starting line!
No, as soon as the results of junior high school entrance examination are announced, whether students can get an "A" in the entrance examination will be put on the agenda. In order to get the first place in the senior high school entrance examination, some parents are in a state of anxiety.
The "advanced subject" of the senior high school entrance examination consists of the total score of native place 100 and the total score of physical education 60. Only when the total score is around 13O can you get an "A". The total score of Xiao Yong Sheng Di is 156, which is equivalent to 78 points. In order to get an A, this Sheng Di must score above 50 points in sports. Fortunately, Xiao Yong has always been good at sports and is expected to get an "A", so he doesn't worry, but his mother is afraid.
Now, near the final exam, Xiao Yong has endless homework every day, usually around eleven o'clock in the evening. But his mother stared at the sports that might get an A, and let him exercise, run or play ball late into the night every day until the clock turned.
In this way, Xiao Yong struggles with fatigue every day, and his learning effect is greatly reduced. Just imagine, even if he gets an "A" in this early subject all day, how much role he can play in the senior high school entrance examination, after all, it is not the same as an "A" in a major subject. After all, there are five "A's" waiting for him in grade three. How can you turn a blind eye?
I think parents should pay attention to their children's learning, but they don't have to have complete control. If they explore too much, the children's initiative in learning will be given to their parents. Especially for the acquired effect, you can't and don't need to deliberately change it. Just like Xiao Yong got at least a "B" in this place, it won't affect her promotion.
Seeing that Xiao Yong is in the third grade, we should focus on other cultural subjects. Only by taking care of the whole can we make all-round progress. Putting all your eggs in one basket tends to lose sight of one thing and another.
There is such an example among former students. Parents go all out to help their children prepare for sports, and even pay thousands of tuition fees in advance for "special training for famous sports teachers", hoping to help their children get the "first A". As a result, "famous sports teachers" have disappeared. In the end, students didn't work hard on other subjects, and they didn't even get a B in five cultural courses in the junior high school entrance examination.
Everyone has to experience their own growth. What parents do is to guide, support and urge them correctly, stimulate their internal driving force in action, and let them consciously assume the responsibility of growth. If you worry too much, or use manipulation instead, you are depriving your child of the right to grow up.
In addition, there are no two identical leaves in the world, and every life is irreplaceable. Parents don't always have to compare other people's children with their own. They just need to compare with themselves. If they study hard every day, they are growing and making progress. They should be grateful and encouraged. After all, their children will not follow the same life path as other children.
Life is like a trip to Wan Li, and an academic exam is just a small step. The key is to focus on the future, strive to take every step, take this step well, plan the next step, don't hesitate, go forward! Because the best scenery is always in the next journey, there is no best, only better!