First, you are unmarried, and he is not married.

1, misunderstanding and separation

If everyone is separated by misunderstanding, you might as well go directly to him and tell her what you think and see if there is any chance for everyone to be together.

2, because it is not suitable for separation.

If you are separated because of personality disharmony, inconsistent values, parents' obstruction, etc., even if you miss him very much, don't contact him, which will only entangle you and waste your time.

Second, married.

1, if he gets married

Even if you miss it again, forget it, because there can be no ending.

2. If you get married.

You need to be responsible for your existing family and marriage, and you can only miss it silently in your heart.

Third, if you get rid of missing?

1, transfer method

Travel, the scenery of the journey can distract you and relax you; Find something to do for yourself and concentrate on it, such as reading and drawing, so that you can get busy and your mind won't be cranky.

Step 2 exercise

Exercise, such as running and yoga, makes you sweat and vent. After exercise, the whole body is exhausted, so you can have a good sleep and forget the pain for the time being.

Step 3 find new relationships

In a new relationship, enjoying the process of loving and being loved can make you forget the past gradually.

4. Time

I remember that after my first love failed, I was miserable every day. I missed my boyfriend every so often and worried that he would find a new relationship. But time is the best medicine. Half a year later, he came to me, and I didn't feel anything.

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