In the baby's field of vision, the mother's face appears the most times, so most babies are more dependent on their mothers. Some children don't get close to their fathers because they seldom see them and don't trust them enough. So at this time, the new mother should appear in the baby's field of vision with her mother as much as possible, so that he can gradually get familiar with your face. You can try to meet the needs of some babies under the guidance of your mother. After a long time, the baby will also have a sense of trust in his father, which is the basis for the father and the baby to cultivate their feelings.
Take care of the baby's life.
After the baby is born, the most troublesome thing is to change diapers. Trying to get the husband to change the baby's diaper can also be a good opportunity to strengthen the relationship between father and son. In addition to changing diapers, try to feed your baby, but the expectant mother should try the temperature on her hands after milking, and at the same time, hold her baby up and feed it, and don't let it lie down and drink milk. If the child is still breastfeeding and the baby is sleepy after drinking milk, the prospective fathers can put the baby to sleep. After the baby is used to his father's arms, it is easier to accept his father's comfort when he is awake.
Smile at him.
A mother establishes a parent-child relationship with her baby through eye contact and facial expressions, and so can you. When the baby is about 2 months old, he may be able to repay you with a smile!
Touch him
Touching your baby will make you feel closer to him, and the baby will like it, and will respond to your concern more actively in the future. Pay attention to be gentle at the beginning. Some babies may be restless, so you should be prepared.
Breastfeeding a baby
Breastfeeding your baby can provide you with valuable parent-child time. When the baby is 6 weeks old and breast-feeding is regular, you can feed the baby with the breast milk squeezed out by your wife, which will also give her a chance to rest! Before that, you can give your wife a glass of water and eat something while she is breastfeeding.
Communicate with the baby more.
Any stimulus, including movements and sounds, can be used as a way to communicate with babies. After hearing what adults say, babies will have the need to communicate with adults, and this need is the motivation for babies to learn languages. The father's different voice from the mother's often excites the baby. Over time, she will feel intimate with this sound, and thus feel intimate with the person who makes this sound.
Four benefits of baby and dad's game
Benefit 1: Strengthen the tall image of dad.
Dad's height has only been heard, and now I deeply realize that it is the first time for a baby in a parent-child game. The image of dad suddenly became higher in the baby's mind.
Benefit 2: Cultivate a masculine baby.
Whether a mother is good or not, gentleness is gentleness, but she always lacks a strong and brave male character. If a boy wants to be a masculine man in the future, I'm afraid it's up to his father to teach him personally in the parent-child game.
Benefit 3: Reduce the burden on mom.
Mom is very busy at home and abroad. It is rare for her to have a father to replace her, and it also gives her space and time to rest, so that she can save her strength, educate her baby in a better state and run a warm family.
Benefit 4: Good for dad.
Some people say that the best entertainment is to play like a child, and that is the real relaxation. Therefore, as a father who works hard in the workplace, he can relax his nervous mood and reduce the pressure brought by work by playing parent-child games with his baby. Let me share my baby's literacy experience with you again. I have been reading with my baby since he was 3 years old, but my child doesn't like books that can't be moved. Later, I began to look for animation education materials, and used many kinds of early education applications before and after. Advertisements are frequent, and children start to charge if they don't know the learning effect until they find that cats are small. Handsome, academic, from China; Words, application, can accumulate literacy, form good reading habits, and quickly adapt to young convergence.