Young babies and normalized children will show deep love for the environment when facing the surrounding environment.
For the surrounding environment, children have similar hunger. The child is looking for something that can nourish his spirit, and he finds these spiritual nourishment in his activities.
If a child does not live in a suitable environment, he will always be in a weak and isolated state, and his spiritual life will not be developed. Such a child will become unpredictable, annoying, lacking in wisdom and will become an independent person.
A child's natural instinct sticks out like an octopus's tentacles, grabbing and destroying what he hopes to get quickly. A possessiveness urges a child to hold on to things firmly, and he will protect them as if he were his own life.
Those strong children protect their property by repelling other children who also want to possess them. Some children often quarrel because they want the same thing.
In real life, children are often attached to material things, which is why they are eager to ask for help from external things. This desire penetrates deeply into children's minds, so that people think it is part of children's nature.
Silent children will also turn their attention to those worthless things. But they are not good at arguing and generally don't confront others, so they have these things in different ways. They prefer to hide and accumulate things to make people think they are collectors.
If someone tries to take away the things collected by children, they will try their best to protect them.
For an abnormal child, he feels good about himself when he is surrounded by an adult who can dominate everything.
Such a child understands that if he can move with the ability of an adult, his strength will become strong. So, he began to use adults to help him do something he couldn't do, so that he could get more "gains" than through personal efforts.
The child's willfulness has become a disaster for adults. Adults suddenly realized that they were wrong. He said, "I have spoiled my children."
Even an obedient child, he has a way to conquer adults. Such a child finally conquered adults through pleading, tears, melancholy eyes and even his natural charm.
In an adult's mind, there is a mysterious driving force that dominates his words and deeds. Instead, he shows his distrust of the child, thinking that the child has nothing and that the child is "defective." Therefore, adults must mend things for their children and correct their wrong behavior.
In the face of a weak child, adults regard him as their own accessory and treat him in their own way. Some personality characteristics of adults can be displayed in front of children without any worries.
In the family, the greed and tyranny of adults constantly hurt children's self-esteem under the disguise of authority. For example, when adults see children holding a glass of water, they are afraid that the glass will be broken. At this time, driven by greed, he regarded the cup as a treasure and forcibly took it away from the child.
In fact, if a guest accidentally breaks a cup, he will immediately say that the cup is worthless and he will not take what happened to heart.
Therefore, the child must have a persistent sense of frustration and is the only person who is considered unreliable. In this way, the child will regard himself as an incompetent person and think that he is not as valuable as what adults forbid him to touch.
A child must form his own behavior habits, but never let him show a continuous behavior process.
When the child is at work, a friend of his mother comes to visit, and his mother will interrupt his work and take him to meet the guests. When children are playing games, adults think it's time to take a walk, so they will interrupt him, dress him and take him out.
Sometimes, adults not only don't stop children's activities, but also keep saying to him, "You don't want this, even if you just try, it doesn't make sense to you." If an adult is rude, he will even say to the child, "This is really a silly child. Don't you know you can't do it? "
This behavior of adults not only hinders the normal work of children, interrupts the continuity of his behavior, but also makes children feel insulted. Therefore, children think that not only their actions are worthless, but also they are clumsy and incompetent. This belief of children is the root of depression and lack of self-confidence.
A child's heart has formed an obstacle called "inferiority complex". This obstacle may take root in the child's mind and make him feel inferior to others. In the face of criticism or difficulties, choose to retreat, hesitate and be timid when making decisions, cry often, and so on.