There is such a running experiment. In a school, all the students of a grade are organized to stand side by side on the playground and then ask six questions:

1 Have your parents received college education or above?

Your parents invited 1 to tutor you.

3. Your parents reported your specialty and kept it at a certain level?

Did your parents take you abroad to see the outside world?

Your parents promised to help you study abroad in the future?

Since childhood, are you the pride of your parents, who praised you in front of relatives and friends?

Each event is 5 meters ahead.

As a result, some people have walked 30 meters, and some people are still in the same place.

Then everyone started to run to the finish line at the same time, and only the top 20 students were rewarded.

The final result can be imagined. The students in front must have a much better chance of winning. After all, they are so far ahead, and the students behind them have to make greater efforts and keep catching up, but it is difficult to get into the top 20.

This experiment is a bit like our life.

It is said that children should not lose at the starting line. In fact, the starting line is not on the same line, which is unfair.

If the parents at home have good conditions, the children will receive various early education classes, learn all kinds of pre-school knowledge and cultivate their specialties.

Parents at home have high academic qualifications, high cultural level, scientific methods of educating children, and all kinds of good qualities have been cultivated.

Most parents have average conditions. Many people work for two people and have no time to take care of them. Children are left to grandparents and parents-in-law.

Many of their educational methods are out of date. In their time, it was enough to eat and wear warm clothes and not get sick. So many old people will spoil and spoil their children.

This is not bad. If the conditions are worse, families have to make great efforts to eat and wear warm clothes, and children have to help with their work or even drop out of school. Compulsory education may not be completed.

How can such a huge starting line gap be caught up so easily?

If life is like growing up and running a race, there is nothing wrong with being ahead for a while. As long as you keep running hard, you will catch up.

Everyone knows that the tortoise and the hare race. If the rabbit falls asleep, the tortoise can catch up with it.

But the reality is that you are working hard, and people with better conditions are working hard, even harder than you. The circles around him are working hard.

For example, I went to a key primary school, then to a key middle school, and then to a key university.

What about you? Ordinary primary school, ordinary middle school, and finally admitted to an ordinary university.

The advantages in the early stage will grow bigger and bigger like snowballing.

Therefore, it will be said that the strong will be strong and the strong will take it all.

There is little chance that you can surpass it. It depends more on luck. Just like winning the lottery, how many people have such luck?

All right, let's lie flat. It's hopeless anyway. Why do you work so hard?

The answer is definitely no!

Because you know the reality clearly, then you also know your own gap clearly, so you must give up some unrealistic ideas.

For example, I want to be a very rich person, what kind of life I want, what kind of car I want to drive and what kind of house I want to live in.

Your ability is here, the conditions are here, and the gap is here. Don't try to run to the top 20 to win that prize.

You should be down-to-earth and try to surpass the people who are not far from you.

This is promising.

If you surpass him and then put your goals in front of you, you will surpass them one by one.

No one knows how far we can go before the finish line.

But at least your efforts are meaningful, and you have surpassed many people.

So at the beginning of your child's life, did the starting line advance a lot?

Will he be much better than you in the future?

If he continues to work hard and surpass many people before him, will his descendants be better?

You see, many people are doing this.

If the family is in the countryside, parents will settle down and struggle in the county.

For those who live in the county, their parents settle down and struggle in the city.

Those in the city go to the provincial capital, those in the provincial capital go to Beishangguang, and many others go abroad.

This is the progress from generation to generation.

It conforms to the characteristics of China people and is the hope for the next generation.

This may be the meaning that we need to work harder now, let the children relax and let them walk on the starting line of life.

Therefore, let the children not lose at the starting line, and more importantly, we strive to surpass the previous few people.

In this way, life is not only a long-distance race, but also a relay race.

I hope it will be passed down from generation to generation, stronger and better from generation to generation.