A few days ago, I saw such a small video in a circle of friends: a treasure mother asked the baby to call mom and dad. To be honest, seeing this situation also reminds me of my children's babbling when they were young.

It is true that Dabao is inexperienced in all aspects after he was born in my family, so if there is any gap with his peers, the children will feel very worried.

As you asked above, how old is a child who speaks normally? He is worried about his language problems. In fact, taking care of Dabao has troubled me for a long time. Some treasure moms say that children talk late and their IQ is not high, which also worries me.

But in the end, my children are not as low IQ as they say, but their academic performance is not good. Therefore, we can think that Jingjing's talking in the morning and evening is only a developmental problem and has nothing to do with IQ.

After all, IQ is inherited by parents themselves, plus acquired education. So, let's go back to the question of speaking.

We didn't know that your child's speech was normal. Under what circumstances is it normal? But we can understand the performance of children of different ages in the process of language growth. After some research, it can be found that children can only communicate with their parents through simple crying or their own baby language.

After more than six months, children may imitate others. And from 8 months to one year old, it is possible to call mom and dad.

After that, the children will learn more and communicate with their mothers. So if a child utters a syllable normally, it may be eight or nine months.

If your child can talk and play, you don't have to worry too much, which may indicate that the child is developing slowly. In this process, we can also consider these ways to carry out some mitigation.

1, easier communication with children

If you can talk to children more, then they will inevitably have the desire to talk and work harder in the process of imitation.

2. expose children to different environments.

For children, there will be a desire to express themselves in different environments. Therefore, if conditions permit, you can take your child out for a walk, let him contact different people and learn how others communicate, which will also stimulate his inner desires.

According to my personal experience, there is no necessary connection between speaking time and IQ, because children's development is individual differences, and each child's speaking time is different. However, according to relevant theory and practice, if a child can't speak the most basic parents at the age of one and a half and can't speak short sentences at the age of two and a half, it is necessary to check whether there are language development obstacles.

When I gave birth to Dabao, I couldn't sit well in the second month, and I have been seeing a doctor for some time. At that time, it was not popular to read many parenting books during pregnancy, so I didn't understand many things.

At the time of birth, the hospital checked that the child was developing normally. I think the child can grow up slowly. No problem, it's just a matter of time.

But as far as language development is concerned, he unconsciously voiced his parents when he was seven or eight months old. We don't think there is any problem with organ development, so don't worry, but he feels much worse than the little boy who is only 10 days old downstairs.

When he was one and a half years old, he didn't consciously call us mom and dad. He will look at us when he needs us, and he will jump into my arms for a sense of security, but he will not consciously call us mom.

That little boy can talk a lot, but my family will only call him mom and dad, brother, and brother is not called brother, so he is very good.

With that boy, everyone thinks he is much worse.

A year and a half later, grandma came from her hometown to take him. Grandma is lonely, so she talks to him every day. There are many dialects. He talked a lot, but he couldn't hear clearly. He asked me to be a translator.

I was sent to a small class at the age of two and a half, and the teacher asked me if I had just come from my hometown.

The teacher reflected that he was easy to accept in class and couldn't understand what he wanted to express, but he could feel it. As long as he has been taught once, he is eager to express himself.

After the age of 3, his language entered a period of rapid development, with clear expression and clear logic. At present, in grade 6, he likes acting, speaking and debating best. The teachers who have taught him all say that he is very clever. He can learn things as soon as he learns them, but it is not practical enough.

And that little boy, in terms of expression and learning, is worse than him.

Therefore, there is no necessary connection between speaking and children's IQ sooner or later.

If there is no problem with the development of language organs, hearing organs and tongue, then the time of speaking has a great relationship with the language environment.

Also compare my Dabao with that boy of the same age.

That boy's house is where we sell steamed buns downstairs. Because of business, his grandparents, parents and uncle have been six people.

Because he sells things, he contacts many people every day, and people around him have been talking about it.

There are only three people in my family. My husband and I are preparing lessons on the computer, reading materials and talking less. He and I both belong to the kind of people who don't like to talk very much, especially to very young children. I didn't consciously talk to him all the time to stimulate his language development.

After his one-and-a-half-year-old grandmother came, he knew a lot more words, but because she spoke dialect, her pronunciation was not accurate. When the old man is old, some words can be repeated many times unconsciously, which inadvertently stimulates his language development.

Just like learning our mother tongue. Why does every child have a different accent after speaking? Because his pronunciation is different in the surrounding language environment, he is also stimulated differently.

Students are afraid of learning English. I have never been abroad, but everyone who has been there knows that if you want to speak English, you will soon learn to speak English in a lot of English-speaking environments abroad.

We have experience in Bauer. After Bauer was born, there were grandparents, parents and brothers in our family. Grandpa took him downstairs every day. Therefore, Bauer is only one year old now, but she will unconsciously pronounce many syllables. For example, if you say goodbye to your brother every morning, he will subconsciously say something like goodbye with his actions.

Language environment and language stimulation will affect children's speaking time to some extent.

According to common standards, mothers can observe whether children repeat their parents' syllables for 7 months or 8 months. Between 8 months and 12 months, will there be some conscious expression when necessary? When an adult teaches something, he will quickly understand and react.

For example, my second treasure, he eats bread, you say a word to his mother first, then point your finger at his mouth, and he puts the bread in your mouth.

When he wants his mother to hug him, if he is a grandparent, he will obviously cry for his mother. My brother said it was a bit like crying consciously.

My brother drinks sometimes. When he sees the bottle, he will take it and put it in my hand, which means to help him open it.

I didn't list the goals that must be achieved in a specific month, because each child's same development may be one or two months late, so mothers don't have to worry, and compare them with the standards of specific months.

If some children develop late, such as my family's Dabao, a normal one-and-a-half-year-old child should be able to pronounce basic mom and dad sounds, not consciously, but surely. If not, pay attention to observation. If there is no obvious improvement in language at the age of 2, but other behaviors are normal, you can wait patiently. After two and a half years old, you can go to the hospital for an examination to see the development of tongue, hearing and language organs. There is a problem at the age of three, and you can diagnose whether it is stunted.

By the age of 3, children can clearly express their needs, and children's songs taught by teachers can be learned quickly.

I have just analyzed the problems that children may encounter in language development, so parents can try the following methods when cultivating their children to speak.

(1) Try to speak slowly and repeatedly. We adults are used to speaking, and everyone can understand, but children are different. He can only accept the simplest syllables in his early days.

When talking to your child, be patient, slow down and repeat the syllables you want him to learn.

(2) Provide children with an environment to speak. Children speak slowly, which has a lot to do with the environment. If the old man takes care of the children and only likes watching TV and giving them a bunch of toys, or the whole room is quiet, the children will learn the language slowly without external stimulation.

In fact, children learn languages very quickly. You can show them with actions, talk to them when you have time, and stimulate their language acceptance system.

(3) Take him to a crowded place. A friend of mine told me that she loved to take her children to the vegetable market when she was a child, because the vegetable market was right in front of her house.

People of any status have to buy food and cook, where you can meet all kinds of people. Seeing more, the child is courageous and has a strong desire to express. Her daughter has strong language skills since she was a child. This university has won many awards. She went to the Netherlands as an exchange student and graduated to the United States for postgraduate study. She is an excellent girl with both face value and talent.

The same is true of the child selling steamed buns that I introduced earlier. This language developed earlier than other languages because there are many people around it.

Hello, according to your simple description; Generally speaking, speaking sooner or later has little to do with intelligence development, which belongs to the normal trend of baby's language function development. The development of each baby's language function is different in the morning and evening. Relatively speaking, female babies may develop earlier, and normal male babies take about half a year to 1 year. If the child's language development function develops late, it is recommended to take the child to a professional child growth and development department to evaluate the child's language function and judge the current situation.

Nowadays, many parents pay special attention to children's speech problems, and think that children's late speech means that children are not smart and have low IQ. Is there any scientific basis for this idea? Does the IQ of talking to children matter sooner or later? In response to this question, let's first look at how old the child is and whether he speaks normally.

1. The child will make some quiet sounds in about 3 months.

Around February, July and August, children will say some overlapping words, such as "father" and "mother", and begin to imitate adults.

3. Children 1 can speak some words and sentences when they are one and a half years old.

4. When the child 1 is half to two years old, he can say some simple daily sentences, which is in the period of language explosion.

The average child can finish some daily conversations after he is 3 years old, and he can also master the local dialect and have mature language expression.

Generally speaking, children's language development follows the above five laws. Speaking time is closely related to children's living environment and family education methods, and has nothing to do with IQ. They can only speak early, their brains are well developed, their imitation ability is enhanced, and they learn to speak faster, but it also depends on whether the family gives their children a certain language atmosphere to stimulate their brain development and let them speak earlier than their peers.

1. Encourage children to talk more and teach patiently.

2. Read more picture books, listen to children's songs and increase your vocabulary.

You can buy an early education machine to stimulate children's interest in learning languages.

4. Take children to crowded places, meet new people and things, stimulate children's brain development and increase cognition.

5. Children can watch some cartoons appropriately and imitate the voices of animated characters, which is beneficial to children's language development.

Xiao Dongdong has just celebrated his second birthday, and his eyes are getting bigger. Outsiders saw it and said it was a beautiful child. Dongdong is lively, likes to run around the house and have fun, but in his mother's eyes, Xiaodong seems to develop a little late. Other children of Xiao Dongdong's age can already say the whole sentence normally, but Xiao Dongdong can only babble to his parents until now, and when he speaks, he pops out one word at a time. Dongdong's mother thinks her child has mental problems. She talked to her husband about it, but he said that Einstein, a great scientist, could not speak very well when he was 3 years old. The child is only 2 years old, so we can't jump to conclusions.