? 1. Safety attachment. Many times, Xiaopi was anxious for me to play with her, but I had to go to class again. I squatted down and looked into her eyes and said to her, let's discuss it, Xiao Guai. Mom is going to class. You play with your grandparents first, and your mother will accompany you after class, okay? She listened to my words, nodded sensibly and said yes. Then he waved goodbye to me and started playing with grandpa himself.
? 2. Eat. I bought a baby dining chair when I was about one year old. I basically eat in the dining chair, eat with adults, don't have to feed her, and basically don't delay our dinner. At first, the spoon was difficult to control, and it was easy to spill. She needed my help. Later, it got better and better, and I was basically able to eat independently at the age of one and a half. I am not picky about food, such as porridge, steamed bread, noodles and rice. I can basically eat all kinds of vegetables and many kinds of fruits. My body is great and delicious.
? Injured. If you fall or bump, just cry for a while. I will hold her, comfort my little girl and ask her where it hurts and where it hurts. Then hug her and kiss her, saying that mom's kiss won't hurt so much. She will also be asked to point out where she touched, and she will say, did you hurt the chair (floor)? Let's rub it. If grandparents cry with their children in their arms and try to strike the table or the ground while comforting, they will also stop and tell the children the correct way. Generally, children will calm down quickly and touch the table or the ground they just touched. I will also tell my little daughter to watch the road and be careful in the future. It hurts when you fall.
? 4. Take a bath. I never resist taking a bath, except for a few times when Bao Dad took the baby to the swimming pool alone. He hasn't been here for a long time, and his aunt who resisted taking a shower cried two or three times. I like to take a bath at other times, and I am very happy every time. Usually, I wash my face, brush my teeth and wash my feet. I don't have to work hard and I am very happy.
? 5. study. There are many books bought at home, and there are also many lovely books. There are books everywhere on the bookshelf, on the table and at the bedside. She often picks up books for adults to read to her, especially before going to bed. Sometimes a person sits on the ground, picks up a book, babbles and pretends to be reading a book, which is particularly cute. So, I'm not worried about her reading and literacy skills. As long as her interest in reading is established, the rest will be gradually guided. The most important thing is not to destroy interest, and try to keep children interested and curious.
? Go to sleep. Many mothers say that I don't get enough sleep after giving birth, and sometimes my back hurts, so I really don't feel anything. At night, the child wakes up, eats milk and then sleeps, without crying or making trouble. Weaning for more than a year, only eat once in the middle of the night. Sometimes when I get up and feed my children milk powder, as long as Bao Dad is at home, he is basically responsible. Later, I ate too much during the day, drank milk powder before going to bed at night and slept until dawn. There will be a lunch break from/kloc-0 to 3 o'clock in the afternoon, and the work and rest habits have been good.
? 7. Help. After learning how to raise children, I understand that letting children do something can improve their self-confidence and sense of value, and parents should also learn to let go. I often invite her to help me sweep the floor, clean the table, move the stool, get food and so on. , also provide some help, try to encourage her to do it independently. Every time she finishes, she will express her gratitude, yes, and praise, but more thanks. Gratitude can enhance children's self-esteem. Xiaopi is happy to help me with things now, such as delivering express, moving garbage and peeling eggs ... The children are busy and happy.
? 8. share it. When she was very young, she would be asked to share delicious food with others, and we would all accept it and praise it. She gradually developed a habit and was happy to share it with others. Give her bananas to eat, let her take one to her grandmother first, and then come back and ask me for it soon. She shouted, grandpa, grandpa, give another one. She happily ran to send it to grandpa, and then ate it herself. Once, I peeled bananas for my grandmother. My grandmother was very moved and always praised her for being sensible.
? 9. Express needs. Xiao guai doesn't speak early. Now I'm almost ten months old, and I can basically say a word or a reduplication. I'm very busy, and I really don't have much time to talk to my children. I need to reflect on this. But it doesn't affect her expression. Hungry, thirsty, painful, itchy and uncomfortable, she will say that she will not cry all the time. Sometimes I cry and answer my questions.
? 10. admit it. Sometimes when I do something wrong, such as slapping myself hard, I will tell her with a serious expression: Little girl, you are wrong. Mom is in pain and can't hit anyone. If you want to play with your mother, you should touch her gently, and her mother will be very happy. I taught her to say, I'm sorry, she always said Paige, and then she smiled again. Accidentally grabbed an adult's face, she would gently touch it, and sometimes she would lie down and kiss and comfort you, making you laugh and cry. Teacher Liu said that there is nothing wrong with children, their cognition and behavior have not yet arrived, and mistakes are just the process of their learning and growth. )
? 1 1. When you go out to meet grandparents, uncles and aunts, brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters usually take the initiative to say hello. MengMeng's appearance is particularly attractive, and he will wave goodbye when leaving. Dogs, cats and birds will say hello when they see them. Once I took her to class alone, so I went to my friend's house and asked her to take it for me. She played with her friend's children soon after she came, and it didn't affect my class.
? 12. Self control. The mobster wants to eat or something. If she doesn't have to eat or want something, I usually don't satisfy her right away. I will tell her that I have eaten today, and I can only eat once a day, and I can't eat any more. Or, the baby wants to drink yogurt. Shall we drink it after dinner? Mom put it on the table and give it to you later. Now it's time to eat. Peggy Piggy sometimes tells her that we only watch one episode. Oh, watching too much is bad for our eyes. Well, she raised her little index finger and said one. Most of the time, she will follow my advice and won't make trouble all the time. In this interaction, children's self-control has been improved.
? 13. For example. I don't know when to start praising her. For children, it is technically a bit difficult. After studying for a month, it still doesn't work, and the little finger is not easy to control. About one year old, six or seven months old, she suddenly tried to succeed and learned to like it. When I do well, I will praise myself. I also praised my father for cooking delicious, my brother for dancing well ... I learned to praise, and I know how to appreciate and praise others in praise. I am very happy, too.
? 14. Thanks. I taught my children to say thank you very early. Mom gave you food. What are you going to say? Thank you for hearing the baby's milk voice and angry answer. My heart melted. Before long, she got used to thanking others when they gave her something or helped her. Hearing that everyone praised her for being sensible and polite, she became more and more grateful and strengthened the habit of saying thank you.
? Summarize this item 14 temporarily. My ideas and methods of educating children come from four sources:
? 1. After studying the course of practical psychology, my mood gradually stabilized. Only when a mother is happy and not anxious can she give her children a sense of security.
? 2. Attended a mother education course in Luo Shuhui. Learning how to educate children from Director Liu really benefited my family and me.
? 3. Read, grow in reading, and expand your thinking and cognition. I also learned more good educational ideas. I also set up a reading punch group with my good friends and insisted on reading together.
? 4. Listening to reading in Fan Deng, I bought a reading member from Fan Deng on April 23rd last year, and I have been listening to Fan Deng for one year. This year, I listened to nearly 100 books, which gave me a lot of nutrition and encouragement imperceptibly. Especially teaching children some classic books. Not only did I listen to it many times, but I also bought a physical book to read. There are really a lot of gains and growth.
? Finally, express your feelings about raising children: respect children, don't force them to do anything, and discuss more. Give the child unconditional love, let the child know that mom and dad love her whenever and wherever, don't scold the child, and help her (inspire her) to find a solution when the child does something wrong. Parents are children's first teachers, children are copies of their parents, and children grow up watching their parents' backs. Therefore, we should realize that what needs to be improved and changed most is not children, but parents, who have a positive attitude, love life, remain humble and study for life. Parents should set a good example for their children, and children will naturally not become bad. As long as the concept and method are right, raising children is really a very relaxed and happy thing. I'm grateful, mobster. Because of her, I am more willing to learn and change. She made me understand how wonderful it is to grow up with children. Little darling, my lovely daughter, my mother is willing to accompany you slowly. I also thank my family and friends for their concern and care.
Attached with particularly practical parenting books:
You are the best toy for children.
Positive discipline
Regardless of the courage of teaching
Learn from preschool experts and develop children's potential.
The secret of childhood