In today's society, the cost of a couple entering the marriage hall is really too high. According to the conventional calculation, before getting married, you need to buy a house, a car, prepare a bride price or dowry, prepare a wedding banquet and take wedding photos. Every item needs money.
After marriage, the young couple have to live on their own, and their daily expenses such as rice, oil and salt need to be borne by themselves. Relatives of both sides will follow suit and give their parents the necessary filial piety on New Year's Day.
After the wife is pregnant, she needs to buy nutrition, have a pregnancy check-up and have a baby. After the child is born, he needs to buy milk powder, diapers, children's clothes and toys. If the child is sick, he should take him to see a doctor.
When children grow up, they should enroll in early education classes and interest classes to pay for education from kindergarten to university.
This is just the cost of a family with one child. With the liberalization of the national birth policy, many couples will have a second child and a third child, and the money they need will increase exponentially.
For young people, it is in the primary stage of career development, and the accumulation of wealth has just begun. The wealth base is very weak, and some even are "moonlight clan". It's hard to support yourself, let alone bear such a huge cost of getting married and having children.
Therefore, many young people will be scared off by the high cost of marriage and childbirth and dare not get married. With the development of society, great changes have taken place in the marriage and love thoughts of a new generation of young people. They like to pursue independence and freedom, and don't want to be bound, let alone bound by others.
Qian Zhongshu once said: "Marriage is like a besieged city. People outside want to go in and people inside want to come out. "
Many young people are hesitant. They haven't had enough fun and enjoyed the world. They don't want to be bound by the "besieged city" of marriage early, nor do they want to give up the whole "forest" for a "tree".
So many young people don't want to get married, and want to live a few more years as "single aristocrats".
In addition, some young people's parents have bad feelings or divorce. Influenced by their family background, they don't believe in love and marriage, have instinctive resistance to marriage, and prefer to be unmarried.