Communication: Try to communicate well with your parents, tell them what you really think about this relationship, tell them what you know about your boyfriend and the feelings between you. You can also let your boyfriend communicate with your parents and let them know his thoughts and sincerity, as well as his commitment and concern for you.
Respect your parents: Although your relationship with your boyfriend is important, it is also important to respect your parents. Try to listen to their ideas and suggestions and respect their decisions. Communicate with them as rationally as possible and let them know that you can handle this relationship maturely.
Self-reflection: You need to carefully consider the reasons why your parents are worried and opposed, and try to look at this problem from their perspective. Ask yourself what this relationship means to you and whether you are willing to take the corresponding risks.
Rational consideration: in addition to feelings, you need to consider the future of you and your boyfriend. Do you have the same goals and plans? Do you have the ability and confidence to face all difficulties and challenges? Thinking about the future rationally can help you make better decisions.
In a word, this is a very complicated problem, which requires you to think carefully and seek the opinions and help of people around you. The final decision is your own. You should be responsible for your own decision and respect the thoughts of your family.
A person who has been there finally tells you that choosing a boyfriend is like investing, depending on whether he has his own unique ideas and practical ability. Can't find a cake, the kind with ideas but no practical ability. I had nothing at that time, and my family was as poor as the countryside. But now I have a house and a car, no worse than anyone else. There are not a few rural people who have the same experience as me, and I don't have to think too much about my future life. Mainly depends on character and ability.
Similarly, your parents' consideration is also the opinion of those who have experienced it, and it is also for your future. After all, if your family conditions are better, you won't get tired of some details in your future life.