You can flatly refuse and explain why you don't want to. It's not good for a child to leave his mother, and as a mother, you can't leave your child.

If you can give her such a promise, say to her mother-in-law: "Although I can't promise you this request, I will take my children to see you during the holiday! So you can tell your child about his father's childhood. "

Tell the mother-in-law that based on the child's growth, from birth to his growth, including breastfeeding, feeding, nurseries, schools and so on. Parents' company is the most beneficial to children's growth along the way, and no one can replace their parents' company.

Children who grow up with their mothers will get the healthiest growth and development, both physically and psychologically. Therefore, it is best to have you with the children.

People often say: seedlings don't grow long. When children grow up day by day, they will soon face the problems of nurseries and schools, which involves children's early education, preschool education and schools. Therefore, it is very beneficial for children to be brought up by their mothers. You can also tell your mother-in-law that you can let your child go to her mother-in-law's house several times regularly, but you must not stay at her mother-in-law's house for too long.