When I was playing with Yuanbao in the community, my mother and grandmother often asked me if I had taken my children to early education classes. I said no, I always carry it. Some precious mothers will repeatedly tell me that it is good to attend early education classes, which is good for children's development. But once I go in and ask her what the benefits are, I often can't tell why.

To be honest, I agree with the importance of early education. As the father of a 1 1 year-old daughter and a 2-year-old son, I often reflect on what children should pay attention to in their early education.

I think as a parent, we should focus on the following aspects of training and education in the process of children's growth.

First, cultivate children's self-discipline quality. This quality, I think, is the most far-reaching influence on children's growth among all qualities and abilities, especially self-discipline. Many adults have this problem. If the goals and plans are set for a period of time, they will gradually relax and give up for various reasons, and the final result is nothing. The fundamental reason lies in the lack of self-discipline awareness and ability. This gap leads to the development of life.

In fact, it goes without saying that many people have heard the story of Eddie Peng Yuyan Yuyan. For him, self-discipline is the most favorable guarantee for his growth.

Second, cultivate children's self-confidence and self-love. Many parents are used to treating their children's faults and temporary mistakes by beating and cursing and using cold language and violence during their children's growth. This way can easily hit children's self-confidence, which will seriously lead to children gradually giving up on themselves. This kind of consequence is something that every parent of ours doesn't want to see.

Therefore, in the process of children's growth, how to help children establish the necessary self-confidence and self-love consciousness is particularly important for parents. When children face setbacks and new things, how to encourage them to challenge, appease negative emotions and frustration, and how to help them correctly realize the importance, uniqueness and uniqueness of themselves and live a completely clean life are all very important.

Third, cultivate children's qualities of love, tolerance and gratitude. Love, tolerance and gratitude are the basis of all virtues, and they are also the basis for building trust and affection with relatives, friends, teachers, classmates and colleagues around us. Both mother and father should show such characteristics from themselves in their daily life and communication with their children. Educating children to be grateful for the upbringing of their parents, the education of teachers, the courtesy of pedestrians and vehicles, the help of friends, the care and care of relatives, the tolerance of unintentional mistakes of others, and the love of nature and life all require parents to calm down, slow down, experience the beauty of life and pass these positive energies on to their children.

Fourth, cultivate children's quality of obeying rules. Modern society is a system based on rules. As the saying goes, "No rules, no Fiona Fang". Children don't have any concept of rules at the initial stage, but among the main guardians, mothers and grandparents often pay more attention to their children's physical development and lack effective cognition and input in psychological development and rule training. Because of this, parents need to pay more attention to the cultivation of rule awareness.

In daily life with Yuanbao, Yuanbao's father sends him to kindergarten every morning. When you cross the road, you will tell him what a traffic light is, and the rules for stopping at a red light and going at a green light. When he gets home, he will take off his shoes and put them in the designated position in the shoe cabinet. He should wash his hands before eating, throw the garbage into the trash can, close the drawer after opening, greet the teacher when he sees him, hug and worship him when he says goodbye, and put the cup on the table after drinking water. There are rules and principles in many subtle places in daily life. I will instill these awareness into my children through personal actions, words and deeds, and repeated language communication, so I am glad that compared with many children of the same age, our Yuanbao has a much stronger sense of rules.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) can cultivate children's independent ability. There are many interfering factors in the process of children's growth, especially when children are young. Many old people and mothers always like to breastfeed their children, help them put on clothes and shoes, and do many things for them, which makes them lose the opportunity to explore and exercise themselves. More importantly, children will gradually lose their interest and desire to practice in this process. Anyway, my parents will help me do it, so why study? Over time, it will form a serious dependence psychology and lose the will to be independent. Once it enters the society in the future, its viability becomes a problem.

As parents, especially fathers, they need to be more cruel in dealing with many things about the cultivation of children's independent ability. We must pay attention to providing children with training opportunities to help them develop their independent ability.

Sixth, cultivate children to be honest and trustworthy. Honesty is the basis for a person to walk in society. At the moment when the integrity system is becoming more and more perfect, it will become more and more difficult for a person without integrity to survive, and this risk is unconscious and conceptual for children.

When children face some mistakes and mistakes, they are easy to lie because they are afraid of being scolded. If we can't correct and guide them in time and indulge their behavior, it is easy for them to form the habit of lying and breaking their promises. As parents, in the face of this problem, on the one hand, we should not blindly scold, on the other hand, we should guide and reward children's honest behavior in some positive ways, share and exchange some dishonest cases with children in time, and cultivate their correct concept of honesty.

Seven, cultivate children's learning ability and interest "the book has its own golden house, the book has its own Yan Ruyu". For those who read and know books, this sentence is a wise saying. However, the habit of learning and the accumulation of knowledge cannot be achieved overnight. Cultivating the habit of reading from an early age is a very important parenting job. From childhood card books, childhood books, picture books to children's books, books at every stage can help children learn a lot of knowledge, build their understanding of the world, cultivate their curiosity and cultivate their ability to find answers to questions, which will be very important for their future life development.

In addition, every child has his own unique talent, whether it is sports or art, or in some special fields. As parents, it is the responsibility to provide children with as many opportunities as possible to try, to explore and discover their own interests, and to find fun, self-discovery and successful experiences from their interests. Such feelings can help children get more satisfaction on the long road of life.

Eight, cultivate children's optimism and ability to withstand setbacks (adversity quotient) There will be many failures and setbacks in life. For many children nowadays, they are surrounded by the doting and praise of their parents and the elderly for a long time. Once you encounter big setbacks, you will easily have big problems and become negative and pessimistic. This kind of ups and downs is something we must avoid.

As parents, we should pay special attention to cultivating children's optimistic and positive spirit and the spirit of not giving up in the face of setbacks.