The child's five internal organs are immature, his blood is weak, his spirit is not strong enough, and his courage is not big enough. The view of western medicine is that the development of nervous system is not stable enough, and they are vulnerable to external stimuli, especially those who are afraid.
We have clinically summarized about three categories:
The first category is children with weak spleen and stomach. We summed up six words for such children, that is, "small courage, big temper" and poor digestion;
The second category is children who are uncertain about God, and God floats outward. These children generally look smarter and accept new things faster. There are more such children in society now, because society develops intelligence prematurely and consumes qi and blood, because God feeds himself by qi and blood, and if the brain consumes too much qi and blood, it will not be able to maintain its spirit. At this time, his spirit is easy to drift outward, unable to keep it, easily frightened and impatient.
The third kind of children are children whose stomachs are always cold. For example, the cold is straight, the air conditioner blows on the stomach, the cold blows on the stomach, or the cold runs from the feet to the stomach. For example, children like to play barefoot on the ground in summer, especially when the concrete floor or floor is cold. The cold air directly enters the stomach from the feet, and the stomach gets cold. He is also easily frightened. Why can the cold enter the stomach from the feet? There is a saying that "cold comes from the feet", that is to say, when the feet are cold, the cold can also run into the stomach along the meridians. The stomach is cold, the cold is faint, the yang is outside, and the qi is easy to float outside. This is the child's own reason.
Anything that can scare people, anything that can scare people, can scare adults, and of course it is easy to scare children. Some adults are used to it, and it is easy to scare children. For example, strangers, unfamiliar faces, children have never seen, especially those who are burly and look strong, but they are not good enough. Children are frightened at the first sight of such people. Or where there are many people, such as shopping malls and temples, there are many people and all kinds of people. Maybe a child will be afraid when he sees something he shouldn't see, and he will be afraid. There are also some sudden abnormal sounds, that is, some sudden abnormal sounds. For example, the ringtone of the mobile phone is too loud and suddenly rings, or firecrackers suddenly ring. The child may be frightened, but adults don't think it is necessary to observe the child at this time. The child may have been frightened. Another reason for fear is cartoons. Now some cartoons are too violent, too thrilling or too nervous, which may scare children. There is also an animated cartoon, which may not be afraid when you watch it, but it excites children. This kind of thing that excites the child too much will have the same effect as being scared, which will make his thoughts wander and his spirit uncertain. Another is that the mother is frightened during pregnancy, and the child born will be more timid.
Yang Shen floating outside, uneasy, manifested in several aspects.
The first is sleeping, because sleeping is the process of ecstasy, the process of god's rest, and the process of awakening is the process of man and god coming out. One of the manifestations of frightened children is to lie awake before going to bed, but also to be coaxed and coaxed to stay awake. Seriously, I have to be held by my mother to sleep, and I even have to suck my mother's milk to fall asleep. They are uneasy before going to bed and getting up after waking up, such as making a baby when they get up. This is actually because children are insecure. He has to find a reason and an excuse to let his family give him some comfort and comfort.
Chinese medicine believes that panic leads to confusion and fear leads to anger. In other words, after the child is frightened, the vitality cannot rise and fall normally. When he was sleeping, he came back proudly and returned to the five internal organs. When he wakes up, that is, when he gets up, he will come out with an air, but he can't come out normally at this time. His expression is abnormal, and his performance is fidgeting.
Another performance is that the sleep time is particularly long. Some children fall asleep when coaxed, while others can't sleep when coaxed. Or they get up, some children get up right away and get up when they get dressed; Some children wake up slowly, that is to say, they stay awake for a long time, ten minutes, twenty minutes and half an hour. This is also a lie.
There is also a performance, sleeping and crying at night. When I fell asleep, I suddenly began to cry. I was very scared. It's hard to coax, and I can't coax it out. I just cried hysterically. Because the yin is heavy at night, people fall asleep, and they are also covered with malice. After people were frightened, Yang Shen was scared away. It is impossible to resist these evil spirits at this time, and children are more likely to have nightmares. Or watch more thrilling cartoons, and those scenes appear again when you sleep at night.
In addition to affecting god, it will also affect eating, and people's digestive ability will decline. At this time, some children have a high appetite and can eat well, but they can't digest it after eating, and it is very easy to accumulate food. Eating at this time is mainly for security and satiety. Because after shock, the spirit floats into the stomach, stimulating appetite, but the spleen yang is insufficient, and the five internal organs yang is insufficient, so it can't be digested. Other children are scared, completely scared away, scared outside, have no appetite at all, don't want to eat, and become indifferent. That is, without Yang Shen, whether it is especially edible or especially inedible, the real digestive ability is declining. If food is not digested, it is easy to produce phlegm and dampness, and it is very easy to catch a cold and cough when phlegm and dampness accumulate in the lungs.
The stool is thin, or children under one year old often have green stools, which are thin and green. This is usually just fear. Or the sucker has a nipple, and the undigested nipple comes out. There are also some children who have to pee for one minute and one minute, and they don't pee much every time. There is no problem for you to go to the hospital for examination. Maybe you're scared.
Weaken your courage and weaken your blood. As the saying goes, courage is commendable. Very timid, forming a vicious circle. The less daring, the easier it is to be afraid; The more scared you are, the more likely you are to be frightened. Because Chinese medicine says that God can control qi and essence. There is an idiom called concentration. On the other hand, God is concentration. When your spirit is gone, your qi and blood are gone. So weak qi and blood, weak qi and blood, immunity will decline. It is very easy to catch a cold at this time, and some say that children catch two colds every three days.
In addition, there is another feature. After being frightened, it is easier to get tired because of distraction and uncertainty. As we all know, on the football field, the defender is most likely to get tired. Because his god couldn't keep it, he was led by the other side by the nose. So are children. If his god is frightened outside, he can't keep his god, he can't be his own master, and he gets tired very easily.
I also want to remind you that after you find that your child is frightened, because his immunity is going to decline, if you want to get the vaccine at this time, you'd better postpone it for two weeks until the child fully recovers. Don't worry too much.
This arrogance has not been corrected for a long time. One of the manifestations that make parents feel headache is that their attention is not easy to concentrate, their nature is insufficient and they can't sit still. Some children even run around and jump in class. Because fear leads to anger, after being frightened, people's vitality drops and evil spirits rise. So impatient, very easily excited. Of course, after being frightened, the spleen and stomach can't digest it. God is outside, God is not in the kidney, and the kidney is the root. The kidney is dull and the foundation is not firm. Chinese medicine believes that the kidney is the innate foundation, and the spleen and stomach are the acquired foundation. Both the innate foundation and the acquired foundation are not good, which will affect the growth and development of children, and may be slower than others, even slower than other children. The most prominent manifestations are children with slow convulsion and cerebral palsy. In addition, if the shock continues, after the age of six or seven, it is easy to find that the child's emotional intelligence is not high and he is not generous enough.
Don't dare to speak in front of people, "fear will make you angry", and speaking will make you humble. Because he's not here. Because if a person's yang god is in his stomach and his stomach is full of sunshine, you can see the sunshine. If a person's yang god is not there, he can't see the sun. On this bright day, before I went public, I didn't dare to be afraid or shy. My emotional intelligence is not high enough at this time.
Just cry at night, or suddenly cry when you fall asleep. It's hard to coax. Look at the way he is particularly scared. When he cries hysterically, your child may be frightened.
This kind of shock and heat is also a common manifestation after being scared. Generally, there are no common cold symptoms, such as runny nose, sneezing, coughing, and then a sudden fever, and the fever is particularly high. For example, if you burn it, it will be 39℃ and 40℃ immediately. Usually, once you take the antipyretic, you will be fine now. Or just took antipyretic drugs, and immediately the fever went up again. Maybe this fever, some of them will go down by themselves, up and down, and have repeated attacks. This is also a common and difficult one in clinic. Generally seen in children with poor physique. Because heat shock is more common and serious, I will talk about it in detail.
For example, if a child has a fever, if you suspect that he is scared, you should think about whether he has a history of being scared, such as being bullied by classmates at school or kindergarten, being scolded by teachers, or watching cartoons, especially violent, nervous and thrilling; Or did they move? The children didn't adapt to the new environment because they moved to a new home. There are also some old houses, houses where no one has lived for a long time, or some places. After passing through some dark places, there is a sudden evil wind, and children may be easily frightened. He may have seen some information that he shouldn't have seen. There is a word called "creepy". In some creepy environments, adults are creepy and may scare children. Huangdi Neijing says that "because of cold, the desire is like a pivot, the daily life is like a shock, and the air is floating", that is to say, in that gloomy environment, children are prone to catch cold and suffer from that evil wind, and then they are floating and will be frightened. In addition, we also found that many children are easily frightened before and after Tomb-Sweeping Day, probably because they got some bad information.
Some children cough for half a month, and some even cough for two months. Some have phlegm, and some just clear their throats. This usually happens when children often watch cartoons or play video games on tablets for a long time, and they are nervous or scared. His voice and throat muscles twitch involuntarily, and this cough will be discussed in detail when we discuss Tourette's disease in the next section. I won't discuss this problem in detail today.
Frightening wind means that the child is frightened, has a high fever and has phlegm in it. Heat, phlegm and convulsion are combined. When a child has this sudden convulsion, it is smoking, which is common in febrile convulsions. Because some children have a fever and easily twitch, he may be frightened. At this time, his body is stronger, and he has more phlegm and internal heat. When heat, phlegm and shock are added together, this febrile convulsion is more likely to occur. There is also slow convulsion, which is a kind of congenital weakness, spleen and kidney deficiency, and cerebral palsy children are more common, so I won't explain it in detail.
You should pay special attention, because the factor that scares children is that adults will not be scared, so you may not know. Ordinary old people, who are more experienced, will ask their children if they are frightened, but many young parents don't care. When you find that your child is frightened, you should appease it in time. For example, hug the child immediately, then pat TA, or call him TA's nickname and say "Mom is coming" and "Dad is coming" to appease TA. Which means you have to give him a sense of security. When you hold the child tightly, you will form a tangible protective circle, so that you can protect the child's anger and prevent it from running away. For example, adults usually like to lie facing the wall when they are weak or when it is cold. If the weather is particularly hot, people like bright and ventilated places. So are children. When the child was frightened, Yang Shen was floating outside, afraid of the cold. At this time, if you hold him tightly, you will form a protective circle for the child. If the child keeps crying, don't scold TA impatiently. You should patiently explain to him or distract TA. For example, turn TA's attention to what she usually likes. Divert children's attention, which is what parents should do at the first time.
Because after the child is frightened, the yang is floating outside, and TA is more likely to catch cold. There is a saying called "breath in a gasp". When you are frightened, you catch a cold by taking a gasp. This chill can directly chill your stomach. So are the children. At this time, you can soak your feet in boiling water with pepper, or stick the navel with Ding Guier's belly button, or moxibustion the navel, moxibustion Guanyuan and moxibustion body column. If it is a febrile convulsion of phlegm-heat type, and the child's physique is relatively strong at ordinary times, you can use cicada clothes or rushes to boil water for the child to drink a little, which can play a role in clearing away heat and calming the nerves. If the child is usually strong, but always cries at night, and you think it may be frightened, you can buy some cicada clothes and give them 1-3 grams of boiling water. Generally, it can calm the shock.
The child was frightened and became cocky. At this time, you should let your child do some activities that can calm his mind. Such as practicing calligraphy and guzheng. Because there are many things in China's tradition, her premise is to calm you down. We encourage children to practice calligraphy. Practicing calligraphy does not mean that children can write well, but that they can practice calmness in the process of practicing calligraphy. It allows children to get together and lead their horses. This is more important than writing well. On the other hand, don't develop children's intelligence too early and too much. For example, one or two-year-old children and two or three-year-old children learn a lot in kindergartens or early education classes. Overexploitation of intelligence will consume a child's essence and make him (her) arrogant. Timid children usually watch less TV, watch less cartoons and play less video games. These things will also affect their minds.
Help TA increase the digestive ability of the spleen and stomach. Courage is the spleen and stomach, cowardice, timidity and bad temper. Take some medicine to strengthen the spleen and stomach, and the spleen and stomach will be strong and courageous. Of course, strengthening the spleen and stomach can not only rely on drugs, but also pay attention to diet. Don't eat cold drinks, fruits and other things that hurt the spleen and stomach. Don't often let children eat big meals. If children eat it once, it will damage the spleen and stomach. Diet must be regular, and diet is the first element of strengthening the spleen and stomach. The second is to take medicine.
Don't think this is a trivial matter. There are three levels of TCM treatment, namely psychosis, qi disease and blood disease. God is the highest state, because God can control Qi and essence. In other words, God is the commander-in-chief of human qi and blood. When God is ill, both qi and blood will be ill.
After the child is frightened, the higher the temperature, the colder the stomach. We usually use some drugs that warm the spleen and stomach and restore yang. Excessive use of anti-inflammatory drugs or antipyretic drugs at this time will hurt the spleen and stomach. The child's courage is getting smaller and smaller in the future. In the last section, we sent a prescription, which is Guizhi Gancao Gulong Oyster Decoction. This prescription is very effective for children with fever. Generally, children's fever basically goes down as soon as they soak their feet. Or a small amount, for children to drink.
In addition, it is also necessary to mention that for children with cerebral palsy who are slowly shocked by wind, our current view is that "shock" is uneven and cerebral palsy is not easy to recover, that is, the brain is not easy to recover. These are some of our views. Of course, these are not common, and parents can be an understanding.
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