I used to think that if there were more children at home, there would be a big family, so that what I could get would occupy more land. A long time ago, it was a nation linked by blood relationship, such as the main family and so on. It's easy to miss a large population and a lot of food, so we will try our best to have children. But it's different now. Everyone lives his own life, and sometimes distant relatives don't contact at all. Then the so-called blood relationship will gradually be looked down upon by us. So, I don't care so much about children.

Moreover, children were born in the past to increase the labor force. When there are many children at home, they can help their parents with their work. Boys go out with their fathers to do rough work, which is the main labor force, while girls can do housework at home. Although the labor force is weak, it is also a good income to get a bride price when getting married. Now it is different from before, and now large machines can completely replace labor. Like working in the fields. There are tractors. Harvesters and the like, farmers don't have to work as hard as before, so there is no need to have so many children.

One more thing, it's too expensive to have children now. You gave birth to him. You must improve it. I have been spending a lot of money since I was a child. In order to give my children a good life, I am also trying my best to earn money. Money is getting cheaper and cheaper. Children need money to go to school, attend remedial classes, start work, and get married and buy a house. As ordinary people, where can there be so much money?

My friend once told me about his friend. His parents used their life savings to buy a house for his children, which is within the Fifth Ring Road in Beijing and covers an area of 80 square meters. I didn't buy a set, but paid a down payment. Lifelong savings, in the final analysis, is the down payment, and other installments will take 20 years. It costs a lot of money, so most people still decide not to have children, which is more troublesome. Besides. It's not like you can't enjoy your old age now. Save some money and go to a nursing home to enjoy your old age when you are old.

So children are basically useless, and now there is no need to pass on incense, because the earth is almost a family.

Besides, the pressure of life is so great now that many people can't take care of themselves. Of course, they won't have children. They are also people who tend to live freely. After all, having children will be greatly bound.

Now women are very independent and can be seen in all walks of life. It is necessary for women to have children, but a large part of them are unwilling to have children because they are worried about delaying their careers.

But in my opinion, I am mainly worried about the trouble of having children, so I still want to adopt one, haha.

However, no matter what the reason, children still have to be there, otherwise how can human beings continue?