Children's emotional separation stage
"Kindergarten teachers always react: children are introverted, refuse to talk, and don't like to play with other children. Many years ago, a friend was very upset. Once there was an open class in the kindergarten class, he still didn't want to play with the children in the kindergarten. As soon as kindergarten classes begin, parents are allowed to accompany their children for half a day. During the break, all the other children get together to play, only his son hides and plays with building blocks quietly. His son wants to play with the toys in my son's hand. My son is not prepared to share them, but he always refuses. Do you think the child is so normal, especially how he should get along with others? It is necessary for parents to give him proper guidance. Because of the law of social development, children must go through this stage, there will always be a process of "separation" between children and parents, and children will always go through the stage of emotional separation.
Parents should guide their children correctly.
At this stage of the child, you will find that he refuses to share anything with others, even his mother can't get what he has. There is nothing in his room, and all the old electronic equipment is piled up from the garbage. He doesn't take part in any activities, and their self-awareness is not clear. For adults, interaction and communication with children can be strengthened. It is normal for two to three-year-old babies to be self-centered and not like sharing. You can't force your baby to share, but guide them slowly. Under normal circumstances, if adults guide them well, children's feelings of grabbing toys will soon disappear and they will be with other children. It has been observed that if parents give their baby's things to others, the baby will start to show reluctance and even cry. Yes, this is the action of New Year greetings ~ "Find a playmate for the baby of the same age. If there are children of similar age among relatives, you can let the baby play with other children under the supervision of adults, and you can also exercise his interpersonal skills, such as going to early childhood classes or community activity centers, so that the baby can experience and adapt to peers. This is the early social skills.
Not all children like to play together.
No matter adults or children, they will always find a suitable mobile game to guide participants to try to command the role to lead the drum circle. Many children start from this age and have the opinion of a good friend. From many friends, he knows who can play with him. Generally speaking, children over 4 years old have real social needs, and the types of games corresponding to different age groups are different. It is also the process of children playing together from one person, which follows the law of children's physical and mental development and conforms to their age characteristics. Although age is only a rough division, teaching children in accordance with their aptitude will guide the healthy development of their personality. The baby suffers from autism, and will become unsociable among children. He likes to play quietly by himself, whatever he likes, and doesn't like to join in the fun and stay alone quietly. On the other hand, we adults, some people just can't.
Guide children to integrate into the group
Therefore, it is very important for parents to guide their children. Children will have different performances at each growth stage, and parents should carefully observe and guide them. Kindergartens should be as close to home as possible, so that children will feel more secure and have the courage to interact and play with others in kindergartens. To guide such children, we must start with guiding them to integrate into the group, let them participate in group activities more, and let the children be infected by the vitality and happiness of the students around them and become active.