A few days ago, I took my son to the streets. Keep watch? The child who walked in front suddenly ran, and the adults next to him quickly caught up. It turns out that the child just wants to pick up the garbage in front, and the mother of the child scolds loudly after seeing it. You still pick up garbage, and you are short of food and drink at home, so worthless? The child didn't seem to hear his mother's words and sent the garbage into the trash can himself, but his mother scolded him anyway. You are a false positive. These were cleaned by sanitation workers, so don't throw them away. I don't know where these strange habits come from.
For adults, what they can't do in their inherent thinking is bad habits, such as making noise while eating, such as being impolite, such as wasting. However, these inherent thinking imposed on ignorant children seems to be a bit of a fuss. For young babies, some habits are not bad habits, and may also help them develop themselves better. Therefore, parents must not stop these habits.
First, tear the paper.
The development of children's movements is from big to small. When the baby is interested in tearing and pulling paper, it means that the baby has begun to develop fine movements. At this time, parents must not interrupt their children and let them enjoy themselves. Think about it. Preschool classes need tens of thousands of trainings, which can be realized at home for only a few dollars. It's a real bargain.
With the growth of age, drawing paper has lost its appeal to babies. It seems more interesting to tear the paper into small pieces. The baby will be particularly excited to see the whole paper torn into various shapes by himself. Parents can properly prepare different materials and colors of paper for their babies to enjoy? Practice? Time. It is worth noting that the habit of caring for books must be cultivated from an early age, and tearing paper does not tear books.
Second, naughty
It is children's nature to be playful and naughty. Children who are energetic and idle can only waste their energy on playing, but parents can't understand this kind of play and think that children are simply angry with themselves. The clothes that have just been folded are in disorder as soon as they turn around. The toys that have just been packed have not been able to rest quietly in the toy box for 3 minutes, and they fell to the ground without mercy.
When the body moves, so does the brain. On the surface, children are naughty, but in fact they are developing their own abilities. Research shows that naughty children can achieve great things when they grow up.
Third, selfishness.
Children, don't be so stingy, okay? 、? Little brother, will you give your toy to your brother for a while? Parents always want their children to be generous, but they ignore the law of their development. /kloc-After 0/year old, children's self-awareness begins to develop. At this time, children will show selfishness and don't want others to touch their own things. Parents don't have to worry, this is just the law of children's development, and this law will last until about 6 years old.
In the meantime, parents should not force their children to share their belongings. You can let them know what sharing is through picture books and stories, give them encouragement after sharing, and let them share from the heart.
Fourth, talk more.
Mom, why do the stars only appear in the daytime? ?
Mom, look, the little ant is moving. They work too hard! ?
Mom, I love you, okay?
Mom?
Ah! Our baby is really annoying. It's too difficult for me to ask questions after my ass every day! Many parents have experienced the stage of children asking questions from east to west. They seem to have endless words and questions. Most parents will choose to perfunctory things, but in fact, this has seriously hit the enthusiasm of children.
A talkative child must be lively and outgoing. If parents can guide their children correctly at this time, their language ability, thinking ability and social skills will not be bad, so what about now? Coping? Be full of love when talking about babies, and don't hurt their self-confidence and curiosity.
Some strange and even bad habits of children are actually special ways for them to explore the world and develop themselves. Parents need to understand and respect them, and don't regard the normal development law as bad habits. Maybe these bad habits are helping them? Little master? Become smarter and better.