I saw this story in Tik Tok the other day! This is definitely a story that subverts the three views. Aunt Li, the mother in the story, said: "The most regrettable thing in my life is to train my son too well!" This also leads to a kind of torture from the depths of the soul.
What is the purpose of educating children?
This is a retired old couple whose wife is suffering from advanced liver cancer. Aunt Li hurriedly called her son in Germany, hoping that he could come back and take his wife to the big city for a check-up, but her son said
I hung up the phone in a hurry, and then Aunt Li remembered that she wouldn't buy a high-speed rail ticket at all! Call again, no one answers! So aunt Li had to go to her nephew's house in the west of the city and ask him to help buy tickets.
When my nephew heard that my uncle was going to Beijing to see a doctor, he returned the high-speed rail ticket he had just bought and decided to drive the old couple to Beijing.
My nephew sent Aunt Li home, and Aunt Li was also sad from the heart. Coupled with his wife's illness, after returning home, Aunt Li hid in the toilet and cried, and then told her the decision of his wife and son. He sighed silently!
At this time, the old couple fell into endless regrets. They regretted that their son was trained too "excellent"
It turns out that the old couple are retired teachers, and they are well aware of the importance of education, while their son, commonly known as "someone else's child" since childhood, has never cared about learning and has always been among the best, and Aunt Li is also willing to invest in education. The old couple sent him to all kinds of Olympic math classes, remedial classes and housework rain or shine, and never let him get his hands on his studies. As for his son, he didn't let Aunt Li down. The salary is also considerable! Those years were the most glorious days for Aunt Li. Aunt Li's parents often compared their son with her sister's two children, saying that they just couldn't help the mud on the wall.
Now, it is the mud in everyone's mouth, taking good care of Aunt Li!
The story is far from over. After her son graduated, Aunt Li sold the house in the city, and all her savings helped her son buy a house in Germany. They went back to live in an old house in the country. When the villagers saw it, they all joked that "you old couple are going to Germany to support the elderly." Aunt Li also smiled very reserved. In fact, she was looking forward to that day, so she began to urge her son to get married every day!
But it was not until Aunt Li's daughter-in-law was pregnant that her son told them that he had been married for two years! My son wants to go to Germany to take care of his daughter-in-law, but he disagrees, saying that they are old ideas. It was not until her granddaughter was born that Aunt Li and her wife went to Germany. As a result, his wife stayed there for half a month and came back, feeling sick all over.
Aunt Li stayed in Germany to look after her children. It was at this time that Aunt Li knew that her son's salary looked particularly high in China, which means that she barely spent enough money here and the cost of living was high. Her daughter-in-law is also very polite to her, so polite and indifferent!
Aunt Li is also very helpless when talking about this. Until the granddaughter was two years old, the daughter-in-law sent her to a kindergarten similar to early education and politely invited Aunt Li to return to China! At this time, Aunt Li also knew that the young couple did as the Romans do abroad, and their living habits and ideological conditions were very different, so they could not get along with Aunt Li at all! The old couple don't welcome Aunt Li to disturb them.
After more than ten years, my son always comes back twice, and every time he looks in a hurry, like going on a trip, but his daughter-in-law and granddaughter never come back once. At that time, Aunt Li felt that it was a good thing for her son to be promising, and she could not hinder her son's development just to keep him around. But now that his wife is ill, Aunt Li is completely panicked. What if something happens to Aunt Li?
Accompanied by her nephew, Aunt Li came to the hospital in Beijing with them. At this time, she is very lucky. Luckily, her nephew came with her. Aunt Li has a headache just looking at the crowded people in the hospital, not to mention registering online to pay for medicine. Really confused. Finally, his wife was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, and his son left in a hurry for three days. His wife was skinny after radiotherapy and chemotherapy, and the doctor served the last course. The treatment is over. Aunt Li cried again.
My son finally came back, but what he did after he came back made Aunt Li desperate!
Under aunt Li's pleading, my son came back for two days, and the phone calls came one after another, and something went wrong at work! Early in the morning of the third day, Aunt Li left, furious: "If you have money, you will know that making money is as important as your father's life." You are looking forward to your father leaving these two days, or you will regret coming back these two days, right? " At this moment, Aunt Li regretted it even more. She regrets that her son is so tall and so far away that she can no longer be their support.
The two nephews, fearing that Aunt Li was exhausted, took turns to keep vigil. They are also self-employed, and the less they open the door, the less they earn! Aunt Li was so grateful that she could only give them money, but they were all rejected, saying that this was what they should do!
Aunt Li's wife finally left. Before he left, he forgot the door hopefully, knowing in his heart that he wanted to see his son, but he was doomed to be disappointed!
Finally, with the help of two nephews, Aunt Li arranged a funeral for her wife. When her son came back, her granddaughter and daughter-in-law still didn't show up. At the last dinner, her son said: He is watching the scenery abroad, but actually he has to earn money to support his family, which is as difficult as at home. Ask two cousins to take care of Aunt Li. Aunt Li is extremely depressed, but there is nothing to worry about!
Later, Aunt Li moved in with her sister, and her sisters stayed with her all the time. Two nephews also brought the family over for dinner on weekends. Aunt Li envies the fireworks in the room. When she is old, she is afraid of loneliness.
A few years later, Aunt Li's sister died, and her son's family of three came back to attend the funeral. It was at this time that Aunt Li was completely desperate!
Yes, neither my daughter-in-law nor my granddaughter came back when my father died. Why did my aunt go, and all three of us came to show our filial piety so actively! My son is a little embarrassed.
This time, my son came back to live in a hotel in the county. Because his daughter-in-law dislikes him, it is not easy to call him. A few days later, news came from the village that he was going to be demolished. Aunt Li's house is just within the scope of demolition, and with the ornamental trees behind it, the compensation is considerable. Aunt Li went to the village Committee to find out that her son and the village director were high school classmates and knew the news of the demolition several months ago! They are jumping for money! Sure enough, after the demolition documents come down, Aunt Li can be assigned to three suites. My son had the cheek to tell me whether he could ask for money instead of a house. If he wants to invest in a project, give it to him first!
At this time, Aunt Li has been beaten to pieces! When parents need you, they push from pillar to post. Over the years, my nephew has taken care of me. If you need money, put in a good word! Finally, under the notarization of the village Committee, Aunt Li left three houses, two for two nephews and one for Project Hope! Under the intransigence of Aunt Li, her son and family left without saying a word, and Aunt Li finally moved to a nursing home with her own pension!
It is said that "the thread in the hands of a loving mother makes clothes for the body of a wayward boy". From small to large, raising children can be said to be heartbreaking, but the failure of education can only lead to a bleak dusk! As parents, we should know when our children are young. What is education for? Give him the ability to make money and run away? Or gratitude, filial piety, love!
Of course, I think there is no conflict between morality and making money. On the contrary, home and everything, family environment is the best feng shui. Good personality will also bring us good luck at work!