Children always listen to their parents when they are very young, but one day, parents suddenly find that their baby seems to be disobedient. In fact, this is the first stage for babies to build self-esteem and self-esteem.
Give understanding and respect.
When the baby starts to be disobedient, it is the first step for him to build himself and self-esteem. He did this just to gain room for growth and have the same equal status as you, so don't interfere with his actions easily at this time. When the baby wants to do something by himself at first, he might as well meet some reasonable requirements and give guidance when he needs help. In this way, the baby will feel that you respect him, and the baby whose self-esteem is maintained will get a sense of pleasure and accomplishment, and naturally become an obedient child.
Meet the baby's curiosity and reasonable requirements.
Give your baby enough space to explore independently while keeping him away from dangerous goods. In order to keep the baby away from dangerous things, one of the easiest ways is to provide him with other substitutes, and at the same time set certain rules for him to limit his exploration, because at this time the baby has a vague boundary between touchable and untouchable things.
Provide some interesting toys and articles to effectively attract the baby's attention and enable him to concentrate on activities that can meet the needs of exploration. Try to provide him with more structural toys to put together; Guiding him to innovate the way of playing old toys or using waste as toys, such as rolling old newspapers into balls for football kicks, not only satisfies his curiosity, but also satisfies his desire to operate. He must be very happy.
When the baby puts forward reasonable requirements, especially things that can be solved within his own ability, such as dressing and washing his face, please let the baby do it himself in time, which will make him feel a sense of accomplishment and pleasure, and also avoid the occurrence of "disobedience".