Mom recalled: Now, you can think about it. Has your child ever had the following situations: his mother accidentally fell down, and the child played games without asking if his mother was in pain? Don't ask your little friend if he fell down and cried. Competing with younger children for toys? Like to pull the pet's hair? ……
If there is a similar situation, please be sure to guide your child to learn to sympathize with others and educate your child to learn to comfort and share behaviors. If you miss this education, the following shot will make you regret it!
Camera playback 1: A child's father worked in an oil mining area, and his mother went through hardships to drag him to 16 years old. One day, my mother got enteritis and didn't drink a drop of water. She just wants the children to go home from school to boil water and cook. But before the child got home, he yelled at his mother on the phone: "You are sick and won't cook for me to go home?" I can't cook either! I'll eat in a nearby restaurant and pack you one. I have to watch cartoons at night, so hang up! "/kloc-a child of 0/6 years old should be sensible, but he didn't say a word of greeting, let alone care and consideration, and he was simply indifferent. The mother is lying in bed, thinking about her meticulous care for her child, but she can't get the corresponding reward from her child. Why?
Camera replay 2: There is an old man lying on the street, and many people are watching. It turned out that the old man had a heart attack. The old man asked everyone for help with eager eyes, but the onlookers were afraid to call for fear of touching themselves. But at this time, the old man suddenly grabbed a young man's foot and hugged him tightly, scaring the young man to scream. He also scolded the old man not to mess with himself and not to live with him. Maybe someone couldn't take it anymore and called 120 emergency. 120 when the ambulance arrived, the old man was unconscious. The young man stared at the old man and suddenly burst into tears: "This is my old father-in-law, you have to save him!"
These shots often happen around us, which makes people feel chilling. Indifference and selfishness not only make children have personality defects, but also affect their life-long growth, and also make parents' efforts go to waste.
Avoid methods advocate early family education, and parents set an example. Parents are children's first teachers, and children aged 0-3 spend the longest time at home. Everything parents say and do will affect the growth of their children throughout their lives. This requires parents to guide their children to establish compassion, help their fallen friends up, and tell them that it is right to do so, and it is wrong not to help their friends up. When you see beggars in the street, parents and children should give them material help. When there are donation activities, parents should also take their children to actively participate and tell them that helping others is what we should do and it is a happy thing to help others. In this way, gradually, the children learned to care about others.
Constantly give children correct guidance. Children can't understand the meaning of the words "selfish and indifferent". What they can do is to imitate others, which is an important feature of children's learning. People's behavior tends to be stereotyped, and the same behavior is repeated constantly, gradually forming a fixed neural circuit in the brain, and this reaction pattern will be fixed, which is difficult or even impossible to change. If children often imitate selfish and indifferent behaviors, such as cartoons of mothers who don't let children help the elderly fall, they will be printed in children's minds and gradually form habits and guidance. Children establish unique behavior patterns, which eventually lead to indifference and selfishness. Therefore, parents should give their children correct guidance.
Combine animated images to make children happy to comfort others. Children aged 0-3 are interested in animation and are willing to imitate the behavior of the protagonist in animation. This role model is far stronger than parents' preaching. "comfort him" in "miserable rabbit love paradise"! ","let me help you!