Growing up with children, reading experience 1 As children grow up day by day, they begin to pay more attention to their education. Recently, I read a book called "Growing Up with Children", and combined with my personal teaching experience in recent years, I deeply know that educating children is an important event and an indispensable lesson for parents. And the success or failure of education is related to the child's life. Educating children well will not only save their worries, but also cause no burden to society. It is also a commitment to the child's life. But how can we teach children well? This is a question that every parent is considering.
"Love needs to learn, and love comes from learning." In the process of my own education, I gradually realized the profound connotation of this sentence in the dribs and drabs of my own education of children. I agree with it very much and deeply believe it.
How to cultivate children's gratitude for love, so that children can be bathed in the atmosphere of knowing grace, gratitude and knowing how to pay and return from the beginning, combined with some personal experiences and feelings in teaching, I think we can start with the following points:
First of all, parents should not spoil their children too much, interfere too much, and take care of everything for their children; Now they are all only children, and they regard them as treasures. They are too indulgent to let go. They hope that everything of their children can be taken care of smoothly, and their children live a carefree life like an emperor, but they don't know that this will gradually obliterate their self-reliance and lose their personality, which will not only become a burden for their families, but also become a burden for society. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's self-care and self-reliance ability. Don't be responsive, don't be unresponsive first, don't let children get things too easy, and parents can often tell their children about their hard work and hardships in life.
Second, strengthen children's communication with the outside world to avoid children's "eating alone"; Many of our children now are real "family children". They can dominate the world at home, but it's useless to leave home. They lack the ability to communicate with others and will not deal with strangers. This has also become a stumbling block to socializing in the future, and they have gradually become otaku and otaku. Therefore, when children are just learning to communicate with others, don't worry that children will suffer and be bullied in the process. In fact, this is also because children are accumulating social experience, from which they will learn some skills to make new friends and experience in dealing with people. So parents should be willing to let go and practice their true knowledge.
Third, parents are children's first teachers, which play a vital role in children's education and personality development. Especially in the formation of good habits, we should set a good example for our children. If there are old people at home, we should give them delicious food first, give them buy buy gifts and call them often. The power of example is far greater than that of words and deeds. Don't do it because of small evils, and don't do it because of small goodness. Subtle education is more convincing and influential.
I'm just a novice here. I'm trying to accumulate my own experience bit by bit on the education of children. Education has a long way to go. As a child's mother, I will continue to explore and work hard for it, hoping that every child can become the pride of parents.
Accompany children to grow up with reading experience 2 As children grow up day by day, I begin to pay more attention to their education. Recently, I watched Li Zixun's Growing Up with Children. After reading it, I know that educating children is an important event and an indispensable lesson for parents. The book tells us how to educate our children correctly and let us find the right way when we are at a loss. The success or failure of education is related to a child's life. Educating children well will not only save their worries, but also cause no burden to society, and it is also a lifelong commitment to children.
In fact, every parent is also an educator. "Teaching" and "education" complement each other. We educate our children, and their children are educating us. And family education and school education should be harmonious and unified. As parents, we should first be a well-deserved educator and always be a teacher for our children. Whether it is a school teacher or a parent, the purpose of their education is to cultivate children into excellent materials. I never think that educating children is only for school teachers. This requires the joint efforts of parents and school teachers, and it is also the same task for parents and school teachers.
How to educate children well is a problem that every parent is considering. It is mentioned in the article that in the process of education, the most important thing is to create a good atmosphere for children, communicate with them more, become friends with them and guide them correctly. Everyone understands this truth, but a few people can really do it. Nowadays, parents in society are under great pressure from work, family and life. When the pressure cannot be released, it will inevitably bring bad emotions to the child, and the child's young mind will be hurt, but the child is innocent. We should first treat right and wrong, good and bad with a normal heart.
In the process of education, parents should also give their children three gifts of "gratitude, awe and tolerance". First of all, they should help children build a grateful heart, that is, let children learn to be grateful; Secondly, let children learn to be awed and be moved from an early age. Awe is the premise of gratitude and the basic attitude of being a man; Furthermore, parents should help their children understand tolerance from an early age. Tolerance should actually be the quality of the Chinese nation, which is advocated, influenced and given to children by parents since childhood. Whether it is gratitude, tolerance or awe, if children are instilled with such feelings by their parents from an early age, I believe that children will grow up to be excellent and harmonious with this society, and there will be no psychological obstacles and behavioral difficulties. Others also like to associate with him, because he is grateful, tolerant and awe-inspiring. Others get more warmth and happiness from him and are willing to keep in touch with him.
Education has a long way to go. As a child's mother, I will continue to explore and work hard for it, hoping that every child can become the pride of parents.
Learning to grow up with children 3 children are the treasures in the hands of parents. Raising them is not as simple as feeding a grass or a potted flower. Care, companionship, guidance and appreciation are indispensable.
Since I have a daughter, I have lost no time in reading all kinds of parenting classics, hoping that my lovely daughter can grow up happily and have a happy childhood.
I bought a book "Growing Up with Children" from kindergarten last semester. I read it eagerly. Many vivid cases put forward various simple and practical educational methods and skills. I really read it carefully and gained a lot of rational educational ideas. Among them, the article "Enjoy Reading" aroused my soul.
People often say: "books are people's quietest and most eternal friends, and they are also people's most accessible, intelligent and patient teachers."
As a teacher, I know the benefits of children's reading, so from the beginning of my daughter's babbling, I consciously read pictures and stories with my daughter and enjoy them together in warm, happy and loving stories. Up to now, reading every night is our compulsory course. A father who pretends to exaggerate and a mother who tells beautiful stories make her daughter intoxicated with beautiful stories, and she is often attracted by happy and clear stories. In order to read more stories in the evening, the daughter will take the initiative to assume some responsibilities; In order to hear more stories, my daughter would rather agree to sleep alone and other conditions. At first, my mother read to her. When I get familiar with it, I will read it to my little toy friend, and as a kindergarten teacher. Now my daughter has a strong desire to read. When reading, she pointed with her little hand and pointed to the place where I was reading, while enjoying the story and knowing the words. Reading has become an essential thing for her daughter before going to bed and a part of her life. A small bookshelf in my daughter's room is filled with all kinds of exquisite children's books, which is full of scholarly atmosphere.
When I was very young, my daughter only appreciated stories and didn't know how to protect books. Good books often make my daughter fragmented and fragmented. Now my daughter knows how to cherish books, and the books she has read are basically intact. She has successfully told stories and participated in competitions since she was in kindergarten, which made her feel a great sense of accomplishment, but her daughter's favorite story is Pea Flower. After listening to "Pea Flower" for the first time, my daughter was very devoted. When I heard that the pea flower was going to have four babies, and even the dry, dead and blackened powder quietly fell into the soil, my daughter actually lay on the pillow and wiped her tears of sympathy, sobbing and saying, "Mom, the pea flower is too poor." I advised her, "Don't be sad, pea flowers are great." "What is greatness?" My daughter looked at me doubtfully. "All mothers love their children," I said. From that day on, my daughter loved the story of pea flower. The beauty and greatness of pea flowers and the selflessness of beanstalk and bean leaves deeply attracted her. Beautiful stories lead her to grow up. When she is older, her daughter can read by herself. I imagined the beauty of reading this story myself. ......
Although we are not the best, best and greatest parents, we can try our best to realize these little wishes of our children and grow up with them, no matter what changes have taken place in our lives.
Grow up with children and study together. A child is a small sapling, which needs sunshine and care to grow into a towering tree. In the process of children's growth, I always insist that family education is the most important link in all education. Therefore, when my child was very young, as a parent, I attached great importance to the absorption of this knowledge and put it into practice as much as possible. I have read a lot of books on parenting since my child was very young, but what impressed me deeply is this book "Growing Up with Children", especially the two viewpoints in the book, which I agree with very much and have a * * * sound.
The first point is that "parents should learn to show ignorance".
Families should actively share their children's curiosity and learn to show ignorance. When my child was very young, I would play games or read books with him. At the end of the day, I will ask a few questions in the innocent and curious tone of my child and let her be my teacher. At that time, children will be very serious and have a sense of accomplishment. I remember once I asked my child what is the largest freshwater lake in the world? Can you tell my mother? The child said she didn't know, so I acted like I wanted to know. She opened the encyclopedia and told me her answer after a period of searching. I praised her and said that I would often ask her to help me solve problems I didn't understand. I can see that she is very happy.
Personally, I think that in addition to playing dumb, mom and dad have to give up power. Giving up power means learning to give power to children as they grow up. Usually at home, I see her desk in a mess. In order to exercise her good habit of tidying herself, I deliberately said that you can tidy your desk as you want today. You are the owner of the desk, so you must take good care of it. At that time, children will show a positive side. Before going out to play somewhere on weekends, I sometimes say to my children, "Son, I don't know what to bring when I go out today. Can you make a decision? " Children can show willingness every time. After parents learn to be ignorant, their children's enthusiasm and motivation for doing things will be greatly improved, thus getting a good exercise.
The second view is that "children should learn to be grateful, awe and tolerant".
A grateful person will know how to cherish, share and love life. When parents give their children endless love, what they get is their indifference and selfishness. Every parent will feel both surprised and chilling: Who made their children like this? It is the instinct of every parent to love children. For this reason, parents are willing to give everything without asking for anything in return. However, many children take their parents' meticulous love for granted, are self-centered, and do not know how to understand and appreciate. Why did you give love and not get it in return? Maybe it's time for us as parents to reflect on ourselves.
Love is exquisite, and "unrequited love" is not all good. Therefore, we should teach children to be grateful. To this end, when I am with my children at ordinary times, I will lose no time to tell them some short stories. These stories can be some ancient poems, such as weeding, which makes her feel that food is hard to come by, and makes her realize that she should thank her uncle, the sun, the water and the air, so that she can eat such delicious things; Sometimes when children are drinking clean water, I will tell her about the process of making tap water, so that she will realize that clean and hygienic water is hard to come by, and we should be grateful to all those who can let us drink water.
Let children know how to be grateful. I think we can also start from the following aspects:
First, make full use of various festivals. For example, during the Spring Festival, children should be taught to warmly accept gifts from grandparents and other relatives and express their gratitude. No matter how much it costs, let them take good care of themselves after returning home and learn to cherish the affection of others. On Teacher's Day, let children make greeting cards and send them to their teachers to express their best wishes. On Father's Day and Mother's Day, saying a few words of thanks to mom and dad is not necessarily to thank them for how much help they have given them, but to express the little happiness in life.
The second is to praise children in time. After a child has done a good deed, whether it is active or passive, whether it is satisfactory or not, parents should sincerely thank and praise him, then the child will be greatly encouraged. No matter what your child does for you, let your child feel that "thanks to my help, things will be so smooth." Parents' sincerity is definitely the motivation for children to care about others.
Educating children is an important task for the whole family. Our parents need to learn and inherit the excellent wisdom of the Chinese nation. Growing Up with Children is a good book for us to learn a lot. I will study hard for the healthy and happy growth of my children.
Learning to grow up with children 5 Any child is a special existence, a dream of parents, a hope and a continuation of love, but for our young parents, they are also the most familiar strangers.
My daughter Lele grew up day by day, from babbling to chattering, from toddler to running and jumping, I moved forward step by step. Every parenting classic is my best teacher and friend. One day by chance, a friend of mine said to me, "Hey! There is a good book called "Growing Up with Children", look! " Seeing the lovely illustrations in the book, I already like her, just like others say "first impression"!
I held her and read eagerly, just like chatting with a friend. The problems that once bothered me during Lele's growth seem to be solved in vivid cases in the book, and my heart feels like a clear sky after the rain, refreshing and bright!
Reading this book attentively, there are many places that can arouse my * * *. Playing with Children has brought me deep thinking. There is a passage in the book, "If mom and dad are the sky for children, then love is sunshine. Imagine how happy and happy a child will feel when he enjoys the sunshine under the sky and plays games freely. " Lele was not very clingy before she was two years old, and she has been pestering me since she was two years old. No matter whether I am doing housework, cooking or talking on the phone with my friends, she will come and ask me to accompany her and play with her, which often makes me unable to finish housework and chat happily with my friends. I used to be very upset about it. I feel that the arrival of my daughter has completely changed my life, and there is no room for free breathing. But now I understand that the child is growing up day by day, and soon, she will have her own world. Maybe I'll accompany her then, but she won't let me. If she wants me to accompany her, I'll spend more time with her. She is not a potted flower or a grass, and her growth needs love to water it.
The first paragraph in the article, "Enjoy reading", benefited me a lot. "People often say:' Books are people's quietest and most eternal friends, and they are also the most accessible, intelligent and patient teachers.' "When my daughter was young, I often hummed in her ear and told stories I heard when I was a child. When she is learning English, tell her the story in Baby Illustrated. I don't care if she understands. I just want her to get into the habit of reading, although she doesn't cherish books and is often fragmented. Now Lele is a little girl who likes to ask endless questions, and books have become her best partner. From reading Baby Pictorial at the beginning to reading Grimm's Fairy Tales and The Journey to the West now, I think Lele has fully enjoyed reading. The story of sleeping is a compulsory course for Lele. When Lele was about 3 years old, I was telling her "A Day in the Adventures of Piglets". Suddenly, I found that she could tell the story by herself as long as she hinted at my rhythm a little, and pointed to some words and told me "This is fine print". This is the word, which really surprised me at that time. Now my daughter has a strong desire to study. Every month we will take Lele to the Book City, where Lele is completely integrated into the book sea. She will let us read her fresh stories. Sometimes she will sit in the corner with a big colorful story book and tell stories by herself, but she is always shy and will say, "Mom, don't be so close to me, stay away." So far, I haven't heard her tell a story clearly. It seems that I have to work hard to overcome her shyness!
When a child comes into this world, everything is strange and novel. They have a pair of eyes that are always full of curiosity. The first chapter of this book is "Know how to love". I think we should let children feel love first, so that they can love better, just as a philosopher said, "As we love children, children will love the world"! I once saw a picture of a strong man's back. He carefully held a newborn child on his shoulder, as if holding a very fragile favorite. The baby's wrinkled face is in sharp contrast to his father's healthy back. There is a story behind the photo. Because of congenital deficiency, newborn children may face death. His young father plunged from instant joy into endless pain. He told the doctor that he wanted to hug his child. It is this moment that makes all this possible. Someone asked him what he saw from this photo. Some people say it's strong, others say it's dependent, but I think I love it more than any language. A strong back and sloping shoulders are the wings of an angel and the power of love.
Learning from growing up with children 6 "The ultimate goal of education is not only to give people knowledge and ability, but more importantly, to cultivate a happy person by shaping a sound personality." This is the prologue written by the author Dang Wei in the article Growing up with Children. This sentence deeply touched me. Compared with myself, I found that I only did the first half, "giving people knowledge and ability" and neglected the second half. This is also a problem that most parents and teachers ignore. "Shaping a sound personality and cultivating happy people" is well said. Ask our children and our students, "Are you happy?" I'm afraid few people will definitely answer?
Although the slogan of quality education has been put forward for so many years, exam-oriented education has not been divorced from the existing education system. Many of our parents and teachers still hold the baton of "College Entrance Examination" and revolve around their children's achievements. The article says that the two most important things in a child's childhood are play and growth. However, we regard the fun that children should have in childhood as doing nothing. From pre-school, we hope that children can do math, recite ancient poems, speak English, know many new words and speak English. This self-righteous way of educating children is simply to encourage children to learn, which leads to the most direct consequence of "being tired of learning". When is the end?
The author of this article took her riding when she was only ten months old, and began to travel around the world when she was over one year old. She asked her children to cultivate a hobby that can last a lifetime on the trip. Indeed, it is impossible for us to take our children around the world like the author, so that children can have such rich personal experiences and experiences, but it should be possible to cultivate a hobby that can last for a lifetime. Life without hobbies is sad and helpless. When we are lonely, depressed, afraid and sad, hobbies will become a breakthrough to vent our emotions, help us find a quiet inner world and contribute to the healthy development of psychology. However, this preference cannot be based on the wishes of parents. We let our children learn all kinds of talents, whether they like it or not. Anyway, there are eighteen kinds of martial arts that they want their children to master everything, but how many can make their children like it from the heart and stick to it for a lifetime?
Accompanying children to grow up is an indispensable and important job for parents. When children are young, insist on taking them for a walk to see how close they are to nature, know ants and dragonflies, smell the fragrance of flowers and feel the pleasure of treading water in the rain. In this process, children can see and feel for themselves, and that kind of rich and pure young mind naturally pursues goodness and beauty. However, I missed the best opportunity to accompany my children to grow up. I feel really guilty now that I think about it. Now many young parents, like me at that time, use busy work as an excuse to let their parents be their own parents instead of raising children. The doting of the next generation will make children develop many bad habits, and it is too late to correct them. Besides, the elderly are not active, and the children are too energetic to be idle for a moment. How to mediate contradictions? Then watch TV. This is the simplest and most convenient. In this way, watching cartoons for a long time will have hidden dangers in the future. Children who don't live with their parents in childhood are prone to extreme personality, which is not conducive to the healthy development of body and mind.
The author says that life is not a 100-meter race, but a marathon. Education should not be just a science, but an art of life. Be fully prepared before you start. As parents and teachers, are we ready? I missed an opportunity to grow up with me. Now I want to accompany more children to "read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road", so that reading can cultivate children's calmness, and knowledge can determine children's interests and hobbies, and eventually become happy people. Although the evaluation system will not wait a few years to ask our former students if they are happy, it will give you a score on your performance, but as parents and teachers, it should be clear that performance only represents a certain period and stage, and it is by no means the whole of life.
Give the child a heart to fly freely and grow up with the child!