For example, children beat people, and sometimes they play the game of police catching thieves and Altman playing monsters. Some parents feel that as long as they do the action, they will be beaten if they touch it; Some people think that as long as children don't cry, they will be fine; Some people think it's okay not to go to the hospital. My son and his preschool classmates especially like Altman. Once after class, two people played together. At first, they just chased each other, then they started to shine, and then they started. They punched and kicked, and the other side obviously hit hard. My son pays more attention to keeping his distance.
Another child's grandmother is addicted to playing mobile phones. I asked my son if it hurts. He said it didn't hurt, and they were both very happy. I let them continue to play and comfort themselves with outpatient accident insurance. Finally, don't panic, there is no problem. When they arrived, they went home happily for dinner. If I change husbands, the child's grandmother may want to experience what Ann Zu Er is like. Another example is grabbing toys, which generally makes children feel very weak. No matter how hard they try, nothing will come of it. At most, they can't cry. In fact, the accident happened in an instant.
The situation is just out of control for a while, and every parent has different standards on whether to intervene in everything. Maybe I read a few pages of parenting books today. If I want my children to be independent, I will interfere less. Maybe I just hit someone else's child yesterday, or was hit by someone else's child, so I should get involved more.
Playing with friends is not a bad thing. Children have their own social circle when they grow up. Parents don't need to interfere with their children's friends, but they should tell their children the way and attitude of making friends.
As parents, we should manage what we shouldn't and don't mess around. Generally speaking, we should ensure the children's three views are correct and teach them to be kind and have backbone. Dare to resist when you are bullied, and don't be impulsive when you treat others. Small problems allow children to make their own decisions and give suggestions, but they don't force their children to do anything, respect their wishes, and as parents, actively communicate with their children. If the communication is not smooth, don't be angry with the child, so it will be more difficult to communicate in the future. You should get to know the child step by step.