Second, wait for the child to calm down and reason with the child.
Third, meet the child's reasonable needs, and at the same time have requirements for him. For example, before going to the store, children are required to choose only one thing and watch TV for no more than half an hour.
Fourth, adhere to principles.
Five, can't change at once, it will take some time to have an effect.
For younger children, he has no ability to distinguish right from wrong, so it is necessary to implement simple and effective methods to help children grow up and reason with them, but it is also necessary to choose the right time to get twice the result with half the effort. Don't preach when children are impulsive, it will definitely backfire, especially for stubborn children. The child is easy to accept, and it is necessary to explain the truth to him when his mood is calm and stable. When a child is angry, what parents do is to satisfy him reasonably and refuse him unreasonably. The reason why he will cheat is nothing more than the successful experience of "so that he can achieve his goal" and has formed a certain behavior pattern. Of course, parents, not children, are to blame for this mistake. In fact, what children are most afraid of is not the "beating" and "scolding" of their parents, but the "trustworthiness" of their parents. This is the magic weapon for parents to win. If you keep your promise, the children will not be afraid.
Asking a child to act rationally is something he will gradually do when he grows up. Parents should not give their children the right to make principles (he can't afford it either), and when his thinking is more mature, he will gradually let go and finally let go completely. This is the most conducive to the healthy growth of children. So in the beginning, the relationship between parents and children is actually more like the relationship between boss and employee. The rules are formulated by the boss, faithfully implemented by the employees, supplemented by various reward systems, so that they can exert their greatest potential and create unprecedented achievements.
From my personal experience, children who grow up under reasonable principles and reasonable bottom lines are all children with very stable emotions, mental health and liveliness. Children's behavior patterns and psychological problems must be rooted in their parents. There are no children with problems, only parents with problems.
Six years old is a period of increasing self-care ability and rebellious behavior. In this period, children's independent self-care ability is shown in the form of willfulness. For children's demands, you must meet them reasonably (such as eating, brushing your teeth, dressing and other reasonable protests). ), but you can't unreasonably promise them (such as eating candy before going to bed and watching TV while eating). ). You can make an agreement with your child in advance or in the event of a confrontation, telling your child to keep his word (and parents must keep their promise to your child), and you must stick to the principle the next time the same incident happens. Soft-hearted parents cannot teach their children well.
As long as parents manage their children reasonably, children will grow up healthily and reasonably.