You come out from under your arm;

You found it in the garbage;

You are picked out from the rice pile;

Even, you fished it out of the cesspit, so embarrassing!

Looking back at these answers, I can't help laughing!

These answers are typical of the older generation in China.

Relatively conservative, deliberately avoided!

In foreign countries, parents usually answer this question:

You are a gift from God;

Mom has an egg in her stomach. You were hatched by her like a chicken.

Mom is like an appliance, and dad is an outlet. After charging your mother, you will be there.

Compared with China's response, there are more foreign responses.

Innovative and bold

Some!

On the question of unification, when a 4-year-old child asks such a question, I personally think that at the age of 4, he can already understand the meaning of many words, and can understand some, but not fully.

So mom can answer like this

Seed theory:

Dad planted a seed in his mother's stomach. With the passage of time, the seed germinated and grew into a baby, and then the baby was born from his stomach!

Of course, if the child asks in more detail, the mother can explain it according to the child's age.

On this issue, some parents find it a bit difficult to talk about it, so they will take an evasive attitude, but parents should know that children are very curious. Once parents avoid this problem too much, children will be more suspicious and cause excessive desire to explore. The more questions they ask, the more difficult it will be to explain, and even easy for some children to keep exploring, which will eventually lead to.

Precocious puberty, developing in a biased direction.

This is what we don't want to see.

So in the face of this problem, parents don't have to hide it, just say it.

It was born in my mother's stomach.

But when answering this question, there are also some skills:

Parents should take the initiative to educate their children about sex.

For children around 4 years old, it is necessary to impart knowledge and attitude education at the same time, and parents should actively educate their children about the importance of privacy.

Tell the children that we only talk about this problem at home, because it is private. If we talk about this problem outside, it is disrespectful and should be avoided.

Let same-sex parents answer.

If it is a boy's question, let the father answer it. If it is a girl's question, let the mother answer it, so as to avoid some parents' unnatural answers and make the baby more convinced.

Avoid old people answering questions for children and say hello in advance.

Sometimes the old and new views of early education are in conflict. In order to teach early education more scientifically, it is necessary to say hello to grandparents in advance, so as not to contradict parents' answers, so as not to make children feel at a loss.