No, when Ruby Lin attended an activity recently, she revealed that her daughter spoiled every day and said that she wanted a baby. She naively replied, "Don't you have many dolls?" . But the daughter said that she wanted a real brother and sister.
It never occurred to Ruby Lin that she escaped the urge of others to have a second child, but did not escape the birth of her own daughter.
In this regard, Xinru also admitted that he was a bit contradictory about having a second child. Looking at her daughter, she felt lonely. In fact, she also wants to give her a companion, but "I am an elderly woman now."
After watching Ruby Lin being born by her daughter, I feel funny and realistic.
People can't help but wonder, is it Dabao who has the final say in having a second child?
The answer is certainly not that simple.
What the boss thinks is very important, but it is not the point.
I remember there was a debate in "Seven Overlords": Do you want to get the boss's permission to have a second child?
Debater Xing Yue shared her experience of being a sister twice before and after. She was also a sister, but her mood was completely different.
When my parents gave birth to a second child, they didn't discuss it with her, let alone ask her what she thought. Instead, I told her directly on the day I went to the hospital that I would bring a sister back when I came back.
In her mind, this newborn sister is a "guest" who suddenly came to her house to rob her parents.
Because my sister stole her parents, Xingyue has been thinking about how to send her away every day since then. She will leave her sister's baby basket at the door.
Later, parents finally realized that some decisions can't be made by themselves, and they need the cooperation of their children so that they won't "lead the war."
Therefore, when mom and dad gave birth to the second sister, they not only discussed with them, but also tried to win their consent.
It is this move of parents that makes them feel important at home. They not only agreed, but also made up their minds to take on this important family responsibility.
Because it was a family decision, they decided to bring their sister into this world together.
You see, after consulting with the boss, they will not only agree, but also take responsibility.
So it seems that the boss's idea is very important. It is true that the boss's idea is very important, but it is not the point.
The key is that parents can strike a balance on the second child and give the "responsibility" to the boss, so that Dabao is not anxious.
Every time I see the children of Deng Chao and Sun Li living in harmony, everyone is envious. Sun Li also often shares warm and loving pictures with Xiaohua on Weibo.
In fact, all this is inseparable from the efforts of Sun Li and his wife.
Sun Li once said in the program that before giving birth to her second child, she had been doing psychological construction for Wait, so that Wait had a good impression on her upcoming sister.
I got my sister's name after waiting. When my sister was born, I bought a special gift, saying it was a gift from my sister.
Soon after my sister was born, I couldn't wait to hold her in my arms and say that I would protect her. A pair of small hands can not only pick up a bottle to feed her sister, but also pick up a hair dryer to blow her hair.
When my sister behaves well, she will say to her sister, "Look, because my brother behaves well and is your role model, my sister will get better and better."
In their family, there is no second child competing for favor, and every child can enjoy unique companionship and love. A family of four is particularly warm.
When children can feel love, they learn to love and are willing to warm others with love.
Only the child feels that the love he gets is unique, and he will definitely show us the power of love in the same way.
Having a second child depends on whether there is money in your pocket.
The love for the parents of the second child can be balanced, but what if the money is not enough?
Many people are saying that raising a baby now is like raising a "four-legged gold swallowing beast", which costs a lot of money.
Raising one child is already so expensive, and raising two children is not to sell iron.
There is a scene in the TV series Dear Yourself that really hits people's hearts.
Zhang's mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to have a second child. Besides, she prefers boys to girls, and she is determined to let Zhi Zhi have a second child.
In order to let Zhi Zhi have a second child, her mother-in-law specially made "secret Chinese medicine" for her, hoping that she would "get a man in one fell swoop".
In desperation, Cecilia Cheung shouted to her mother-in-law, "It's not that Liu Yang and I don't want children, but that we really can't afford to raise them …", and then she settled an account.
The salary of husband and wife adds up to 2 1000 yuan, the monthly mortgage is 6 100 yuan, the meal is 3,000 yuan, the car is 1500 yuan, and the daughter's early education kindergarten is 8,000 yuan.
There is also water, electricity and gas 250, telephone and internet charges 150, and bus charges 100, which is 500 again. Monthly fixed expenditure 1.9 million.
I didn't add extra clothes, children's toys and gifts, so I didn't have extra money to raise a second child.
Giving birth to a second child is really not that simple, and it can't be achieved by talking about it.
Raising children is not only eating and drinking Lazarus, but also the responsibility for a new life.
The biggest evil of being a parent is to be born without raising.
Parents must be responsible for bringing a new life into this world.
Effective foreign aid is the greatest confidence in having a second child.
I have heard a saying that mothers who dare to have a second child are real warriors.
On the way to raising a second child, my mother has endless hardships, which only those who have experienced can understand.
And mom dares to fight for a second child. Who gave them courage?
In fact, a large part of courage comes from her husband's full love.
On the first day of the new year, Nana wrote in the Weibo: "I cut my hair short because of the lovely doll in my belly."
Moreover, I made a greeting card with my twin daughters, which all said happiness.
Looking at the happiness and sweetness of the family, netizens can't help but feel that Xie Na is really brave while blessing.
Nana once said that it was very difficult to have children.
In her own book, she tells the inside story of pregnancy. Because of working day and night all the year round, I was told that I had ovarian cyst inflammation in a physical examination. However, during the operation, the doctor found that Nana's tubal inflammation was very serious, and it was suggested to remove it.
After the operation, I finally got pregnant with the baby. I was so pregnant that I couldn't sleep at all. I can't sleep at night, so I go out and sit in the car. I can only sleep for a while when the car goes to the basement. My feet are so swollen that I can only wear men's shoes of size 40.
She hasn't been out of the house since she got pregnant. She is afraid of wrestling or being hit by a bike. She washed her hair once when she was in confinement, full of countless troubles and anxieties.
After such torture, after another two years, Nana, who is nearly 40 years old, chose a second child without hesitation.
The reason why she dares to fight like this is that she only knows that there is someone who will always be her solid backing.
When Xie Na was pregnant with her twin daughters, Jason gave up a lot of work and concentrated on companionship. When she can't sleep well, Jason will accompany her to the balcony in the morning, and the two of them will spread blankets, chat and blow the wind.
After the birth of his daughter, Jason suspended all his work and spent all his time taking care of Nana and the children, because he felt that being with Nana was more important than himself.
If there is a husband, what can a woman ask for?
Zhang Ailing said, "Having children, women pay and sacrifice far more than men. If a woman wants to have a second child after giving birth to a child, the reason is nothing more than love. "
Because of her husband's effective foreign aid, the wife has the courage to have children.
A netizen in Zhihu said: I earn more than 300,000 yuan a year. My wife is a full-time housewife, but it is not me but her who supports this family.
Happiness is never easy to get. Every family with a second child has not only a hard-working mother, but also a warm and responsible father.
On the road of child-rearing, having the support and tolerance of family members is the greatest confidence.
All hardships are no longer difficult, but have the taste of happiness.
No matter whether you have a second child or not, you should respect Dabao.
Willing to have a second child must have sufficient economic strength.
Dare to have a second child, someone must have given support and care behind it.
Every child should be in born to love, not born for life.
No matter what the key is, as long as we decide to have a second child, it is our family's decision, and we must assume the responsibility of a new life.