What are the factors that affect your baby's optimism? In the face of increasing competition, not only adults, but also kindergarten children are beginning to realize the pressure of life and study. The child's mental development is immature and his heart is very fragile and sensitive. Cultivating optimistic personality helps children to treat life correctly, learn to compete and grow up happily. So, what are the factors that affect children's optimistic personality?

1, congenital personality: in temperament classification, there are sanguine, bile, mucus and depression. Among them, bloody and choleric babies are naturally extroverted and easy to form an optimistic personality.

Babies with mucus and depression are introverted and gentle, and their parents are not easy to perceive their inner world. But it doesn't mean that extroverts are very optimistic, and introverts tend to be negative. As long as the baby's personality is taught correctly, an optimistic personality can be cultivated.

Parents correctly cultivate their baby's optimistic personality. 2. Family atmosphere: Parents are children's first teachers. Children's character is largely formed in the education of parents. If the parents themselves are optimistic, then what the children are exposed to will be more optimistic; On the other hand, if both parents are pessimistic, it is difficult for children to be optimistic.

3. Parenting style: Modern society advocates democratic education, which does not mean that children should challenge the authority of their parents, but grow up in an independent, tolerant and friendly environment. The misunderstanding of early childhood education, many parents' educational awareness still stays in the institutional family era, either too strict or too fond of children.

Parental rearing patterns often affect children's outlook on life. Excessive demanding education methods will make children's thinking mode rigid, afraid to try, insecure, degenerate, temporarily behave well, lack self-confidence or demand perfection.

And laissez-faire care, providing children with the material needs they want, laissez-faire behavior, will make it difficult for children to learn social conventions, willfulness, and do whatever they want.

Shape the baby's optimistic personality

Lead: Optimism refers to a happy and confident state when facing difficulties. It is every parent's wish to have a healthy, intelligent and happy baby. Cheerful and optimistic personality plays an inestimable role in the baby's future growth. So, what should parents do to make their baby have this perfect and charming personality?

Cheerful optimism is not only a psychological state, but also a "charming" personality quality. Long-term research and follow-up investigation have found that optimism plays a positive role in a person's growth.

This is mainly manifested in: optimism can make people immune to many difficulties in life; Optimism can make people healthier; Optimistic people are more likely to maintain a harmonious relationship with people around them; Optimists are more likely to achieve family happiness and career success.

Therefore, in daily life, if parents want to subtly inject this "charm element" into their baby's personality, they must first make the baby happy. Therefore, it is essential to understand the baby's mood and emotional characteristics.

The emotional and emotional characteristics of infants and young children mainly include the following three points:

1, variability

As the saying goes, "Baby face is like June day". Their temperament is extremely unstable and often changes with the change of the situation. Therefore, when the baby is in a bad mood, the most effective way is to induce them to shift their goals to things they are interested in and make their mood happy.

2. Feelings

The baby's mood is easily infected by the people around him. They will be happy with others for no reason, and they will cry with others for no reason. Therefore, parents should always remind themselves to keep a happy mood and infect their babies.

Step 3 be impulsive

The baby can't adjust his emotions well, so he will vent his dissatisfaction at any time, and it is not easy to calm down immediately after the impulse. Therefore, knowing this, parents should not take a strict approach to their baby, but should induce the baby and gradually stabilize his mood.

In addition, psychologists put forward several suggestions worthy of parents' reference:

1 to meet the baby's physiological needs.

Healthy babies are more likely to remain optimistic. Therefore, parents should arrange a regular life according to the baby's age characteristics, and provide balanced and comprehensive nutrition for the baby, ensure that the baby lives in a safe and hygienic environment, try to make the baby less sick, and obtain various conditions needed for healthy growth and development.

2. Meet the baby's psychological needs

On the basis of understanding the baby's psychological characteristics, try to meet the baby's psychological needs, fully communicate with the baby, and establish a good parent-child relationship. Only babies whose psychological needs are satisfied enough can understand and adapt to the changes in the environment with an open-minded and positive attitude.

3. Guide the baby to learn empathy.

In life, parents should pay attention to small things, guide their babies to analyze and think from different angles, and guide them to flexibly understand the development and changes of things. It's a good idea to play interactive role games with your baby.

4. Teach your baby how to relieve stress.

Let the baby experience frustration education and guide the baby to seek ways to comfort himself: for example, through music, exercise, talking, reading, or simply venting.

Encourage your baby to realize that any difficulties and setbacks will get better. Treating things with a negative attitude cannot solve the problem well.

5. Give your baby the right to choose freely

Letting the baby make some choices freely is an important way to cultivate him to form a happy character. Parents can give advice or guidance to their babies, but they can't impose their wishes on them. Babies will find better ways to make themselves happy through their own choices.

6. Create a harmonious environment for your baby.

Being able to get along well with people around you is an important condition for happiness. The premise for the baby to live in harmony with the people around him is to have a good relationship with his parents, who also set a good example for the baby tree through their own practice.

Reference sources: Pacific Parent-child Network, China Early Education Network, Infant Early Education Network.

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