How to help children overcome their fear of difficulties

Foreword:

Quote a passage from the Origin Family:

"Parents are the biggest fate of children. Whether we want to admit it or not, family background is like a brand engraved in the depths of the soul. First, it affects personality, then it affects attitude towards life, and finally it may affect life. "

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Growth is a subject for parents.

We are the product of the original ecological family, and we are an important part of the children's original ecological family. The original ecological family has a profound influence on a person. If you want to jump out and get greater growth, you must learn and learn again, break through cognition and wake up.

On Sunday morning, participating in the offline activities of the elite family education club was the theme parent-child communication sharing meeting of Teacher Changfeng. Paying attention to children's growth and how to improve their resilience are compulsory courses for every parent.

Although it is Sunday, many parents come to study and grow together for the growth of their children.

What impressed me the most and moved me the most was a pair of 2 1 month-old baby horse fathers. It can be seen that dad's work is very busy, and he still needs to answer the phone to arrange work in class, but in order to participate in children's education, he still participates in family education.

From the exchange and sharing, we know that both husband and wife have to work during the day, fearing that they don't have enough time to participate in the company of their children. Some parents are anxious about parenting, for example, children talk late and sometimes are timid. Aware of the lack of companionship time, they are exploring how to better understand children and improve the quality of parent-child companionship.

Maybe it's novice parents, who are usually anxious and helpless about their first child. We are also experiencing problems brought about by different stages of children's growth. Accompanying children's growth requires parents to improve their cognition and keep learning.

The mother of a graduate girl gave such advice, "In a family, the emotional stability of the mother is the most important. Dad just needs to love, respect and understand mom. Mother's emotional stability is the best for children and families. "

Seeing the parents of this 2 1 month-old child, the general feeling is that this is a happy baby. Parents have been awake since they were 0-6 years old and realized the importance of family education and parent-child companionship. Many successful parents mostly lament that they missed their children's most precious time from 0 to 6 years old, and they need to invest more time and energy to study and make up for it later.

Only love education and pay attention to the growth of children aged 0-6 15. There are 8 early education campuses in Ningbo. Dr. Shan is an education expert I have ever met. He has advanced educational ideas, advocates and practices "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" and loves them. Because of the same idea, I studied and grew up with Dr. Shan.

After communicating with parents and teachers, parents gradually opened their doubts. Fortunately, they contacted Dr. Shan at the scene. For the parents present, most of them are already in junior high school, and the second one is in kindergarten or primary school, and they are all continuing their studies.

The mother of a graduate girl said, "It is better to spend more time studying family education and scientific parenting."

Afraid of the critical point of difficulty

Everyone's fear of difficulties has a critical point, and they grow up in fear of difficulties.

Teacher Changfeng led everyone to play a game. Everyone stood side by side in a row. After listening to the teacher's explanation, every link can be competent. Take a step forward and have the following four tasks:

1, chatting with acquaintances

2. Chatting with strangers

3, impromptu speech in 100 occasions

4. Improvised speeches on thousands of occasions

Many people began to be afraid of difficulties and stopped. The teacher pushed forward, and after being pushed, they felt that hundreds of people could challenge and try. Some parents took a step forward, but when thousands of people were alone, they were completely flat and did not dare to challenge.

Everyone's fear of difficulties has a critical point, and so do children.

Through the game, I realized this sentence more deeply, and let my parents know that each of us is afraid of difficulties. Sometimes children are afraid of difficulties, stagnation, hesitation or procrastination.

We should stand with our children, face them together, and even give them more time to overcome them. Gradually improve children's courage and strength in the face of difficulties.

How to help children break through the fear of difficulties

Observe the critical point of children's fear of difficulties, freeze, start procrastinating, parents stop, build self-confidence and move on.

Teacher Changfeng once shared a case. For example, first-grade children are required to achieve the accuracy and speed of completion in oral arithmetic. We should be calm and emotionally stable parents. The teacher will give some feedback out of duty, but our parents know it.

Play hide-and-seek with children. When you find a child, shout "the math monster will catch you", and then come up with a simple topic in the game to help the child build confidence and eliminate frustration and tension.

The problem is not to embarrass children, but to make them more confident to do it.

1, accept first, accept your inner rhythm.

2. Facing the fear of difficulties, feel the changes in our hearts.

3. Go forward with your children and face difficulties together.

4. Encourage children to feel and express.

5. Overcome the fear of difficulties and take action.

Every child is unique.

By finding the child's life instructions

Discover the potential of children

Find the inner driving force of children

Let more children live a good life in the future.

Let more families and children have a sense of happiness and value.