In contrast, some parents are undoubtedly a clean stream under the pressure of high-tempo study. They choose not to let their children go to kindergarten and wait until the right age to go directly to primary school. There is also a certain saying.
1. Child abuse and sexual assault occur frequently, and children are worried about their own safety.
@ Xiaoyaozi: To be honest, I don't want my children to go to kindergarten, especially now that there are frequent incidents of child abuse, which makes people feel scared. Children are too young to protect themselves. If something happens, this family will be finished. I still want to wait, and I am relieved when the child is older.
2. the cost is high and you can't learn anything.
@ Master Xiao: I remember that children go to primary school directly without going through the baby circle, so they are still talented. The emergence of baby pens has increased the high economic burden of families. Now many families complain that tuition fees are too high to bear. And it's just for fun. It's not worth wasting the money.
There are too many children in kindergarten, and teachers can't take good care of them.
@ 中中中中中中中中: I used to be a kindergarten teacher. It is difficult for a teacher to take care of so many students. It is absolutely impossible for every child to take care of them. Children who are young and weak in self-care suffer the most. I plan to wait until my daughter is four or five years old before sending them to kindergarten.
It's fun to go to kindergarten, so it's better to teach by yourself.
@ Tong Tong Mom: I think silly play, going to the fields, unlimited imagination, wide world, study habits, rules and regulations, ideological and moral cultivation, sports activities, mental health and so on are all the most important.
Parents in Jiangxi travel around the country instead of sending their children to kindergarten in order to let their children learn to suffer hardships and experience a brand-new way of life.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with choosing not to let children go to kindergarten or go to kindergarten at night. Kindergarten is not compulsory, and parents have the right to choose. It is not a good thing to regard it as a compulsory choice.
For those children who don't go to kindergarten or go to kindergarten a few years later, parents can't directly adopt the method of herding sheep. It is best to do the following:
(1) Pay attention to language expression
You can try to treat children as adults and attach importance to cultivating children's expressive ability. When he needs something, he will express it directly in words, not by crying or cheating.
(2) Cultivate the habit of independence
In fact, a large part of going to kindergarten is to let children learn to be independent and have the ability to take care of themselves. Therefore, at home, parents should learn to let go and let their children develop good habits of doing things by themselves.
(3) Cultivate social skills
Parents can take their children to travel, go to museums and other places, let them be bold on the trip, and communicate with strangers with parents, such as letting their children learn to order food, which can not only exercise their language skills, but also cultivate their social skills.
Whether children need to go to kindergarten is dispensable. Parents can consider whether to go to kindergarten according to various aspects. Of course, everything is for the better of children, and no choice is perfect. This requires parents to weigh.
So, do you think it is necessary for you to send your children to kindergarten? You can express your thoughts in the comment area and share your parenting experience with everyone.