The teacher's experience of holding a parent-teacher conference 1 It's the first time to attend a child's parent-teacher conference, and I'm a little nervous and expecting. It is also the first time to communicate with the teacher. At first, I was disappointed Although both teachers praised the child at the meeting, I just said that the child was practical and unhappy. This is not what I thought. The child is lively at home, but I know he must be introverted and timid at school, so I want to talk to the teacher after the meeting.
In the communication with teachers, my heart is getting more and more proud. The teacher said that when it comes to this child, I only know that it is a child with good grades and I don't have much impression. This half semester has changed a lot. I found that this child is actually quite comprehensive, with good grades, drawing and writing. Now I take an active part in school activities. The school held a sports meeting and won the first place in the whole grade, as well as a spiritual civilization award. Because she was the first person in the grade to write and read the manuscript, the teacher said that other students were playing and eating when writing the manuscript, and Liu wrote quietly there alone, which spoke highly of her children. Also asked me to give a message to the child, the teacher likes her very much.
I think the teacher's words are very important:
(1) Where do you put the child and what height will the child be;
(2) Now primary schools feel that their grades are almost the same, and junior high school and senior high school will be much worse;
(3) Take part in all activities, dare to try, and you will gain something;
(4) If you don't do it, you will never know how to do it. If you don't succeed, it won't be bad there. If you succeed, you will improve your child's self-confidence.
I remember when we asked parents to hold parent-teacher conferences, I didn't know what it was like. Now I know that when children are approved by teachers, parents will be happy to attend them. If the children are not enough and the teachers don't approve, parents will feel humiliated. It's really good to know your parents' goodness only by raising children.
Teacher's experience in holding parent-teacher conference 2. I was invited to attend the parent-teacher conference of kindergarten middle class. After listening to the speeches of Director Cao, Mr. Yin and Mr. Han, two middle school teachers, I have a deep understanding and benefited a lot.
As a parent, I deeply feel that I have many shortcomings, and as a mother, I feel deeply guilty. As parents, we usually pay more attention to the details of life such as whether children eat well, sleep well enough and get sick. In fact, parenting is promising. After listening to the explanations of three teachers, I feel that children's education should start from scratch, from hanging a small towel, picking up pieces of paper on the ground to greeting teachers, to learning to play with other children, having simple communication with adults, listening and so on. All these require our long-term guidance and repeated demonstrations to achieve results and strengthen a behavior habit of children. I deeply know that I am not as good as this. When something happens, you are impatient and not calm enough. Once the child dawdles, I will get impatient and help the child. In fact, this is all wrong. For example, after getting up every morning, wake up the child immediately and let him wash his face and brush his teeth. The child is still sleepy and dawdles. In order to catch up with the time, he will make them for the children one by one. Every time, I have to force my child to do it because he has to do it himself. Now that I think about it, I really didn't do well.
In addition, no one is perfect, and any child will have shortcomings in one way or another, but as parents, we should not get angry or even fly into a rage. After all, they are still children. What we need to do is patiently persuade, practice, encourage imitation and praise in due course. Good children are boasted, not scolded. I know this very well. I don't want to go to kindergarten for a while every day. Later, I reflected this situation to Mr. Yin. After that, the teacher patiently educated me every day and found out the reason why I didn't want to go to kindergarten every day. I went to kindergarten happily the next day, and never said I didn't want to go to kindergarten. The reason is very simple, that is, I hope to hear the teacher's praise and determination. A teacher's smile, a teacher's comforting words and a teacher's gesture are unparalleled for a child. If you fall, tell him that you are really strong every day, get up in tears and try to be a little man. Of course, "appreciation" should be moderate, timely and appropriate. Blind praise will also make children feel conceited and complacent, while blind criticism will also make children feel inferior.
When Han was in kindergarten, I found that he was really more sensible. I know how to help my mother wash dishes and mop the floor. Although I got covered in water and even hit the dishes, I was still happy from my heart. My son is really sensible. In the teaching process, the teacher's exaggerated body movements can stimulate children's interest in learning imitation. This method is especially effective for children every day, because every time I learn children's songs, I will sing them with my hands, and I will remember them deeply and won't forget them easily. It also lightens his learning burden, cultivates his happy learning mood and improves the learning efficiency. Because children's own action language can directly reflect the rich and varied actions in children's songs. This teaching method is hoped that teachers will continue to carry forward.
As a parent of this kindergarten, I see the teacher's bright spot, love and patience from my children. I realized the children's nostalgia and love for kindergarten. Every time I joke about changing kindergartens, my son will say that I like our teacher and am a good friend. It can be seen that as long as the teacher pays love, every young soul will feel it. The teacher's love has been affirmed by the children. As a parent, I want to thank all teachers for their selfless love for their children. As a mother knows her children best, the biggest disadvantage every day is timidity and fear of meeting strangers. I also hope that the teacher will encourage and guide her children to become generous and lively sunshine boys.
I am deeply touched by this parent-teacher conference. I hope that more such parent-teacher conferences can be held in the future, so that parents can better understand their children's situation in kindergartens and let their children thrive in a relaxed atmosphere.