Yaya mother has mixed feelings in her heart. She finally got it back, served it delicious and delicious, and coaxed it for more than two hours before her mother hugged it. Bao Xiao's grandmother told Yaya's mother that the baby became more and more stubborn and began to lose his temper, which was not easy to coax. Grandma's words made Yaya's mother start to think carefully about how to cultivate her baby's good character, so that they can gain something in every exploration on the road to growth.
As the saying goes, as you sow, you reap. You sow love for your baby, and he will reap love.
A baby is like a blank sheet of paper. If we praise him, he will become confident and go forward bravely. We encourage him, and he will become brave and make continuous progress; If we comfort him, he will be happy and be kind to others; We will stay with him, and he will remain modest and make continuous progress.
What kind of personality we give our baby, he will have ideas about how to look at things. So, how should we gradually cultivate the baby's good character?
Cultivating creativity
A report by the American Academy of Pediatrics shows that what children really need for healthy development is better play time. And you don't need to be disturbed by adults at this time.
When the baby needs it, the mothers can find some early education games to play with the baby. When the baby doesn't need it, the mothers can try to let go, let the children concentrate on doing their own things, and let the children have more room for innovation. If you play with other friends, you can also enhance their social skills and coordination skills. So mothers can relax and do what they like.
Montessori education: creating a children's world where children can "be themselves" by themselves. In April, I sent a cold welcome to Dong Jun, and passed through Tomb-Sweeping Day in Grain Rain. The golden wind warms everything up. Flowers are fragrant, and spring birds still sing.
Master the right to choose
The Guide to Learning and Development for Children Aged 3~6 issued by the Ministry of Education points out: "Preschool children are in the stage of curiosity, exploration and preparation for learning. During this period, we should guide them to observe, explore and discover the problems in the surrounding environment by using various senses.
Ma Bao should find a balance between "letting go" and "protecting". Babies are very curious, and the constant exploration of new things will make their brains develop rapidly. When they show curiosity about colors, musical instruments and engineering vehicles, parents should let them explore for themselves and help them develop and improve their brains as soon as possible.
For example, take the baby outdoors, with parents standing behind, and let him go for a walk or do something interesting; Go to naughty castle to play with the baby and watch his interaction with other friends. It will appear when there is a dispute. Let them observe the beauty of life with their own eyes and taste the taste of various ingredients with their own mouths; Touch things around with your little hands and listen to different sounds with your ears.
Montessori education: Respect children's choice of rest, or watch other children play, don't interrupt him, and don't force him to do other things. In April, I sent a cold welcome to Dong Jun, and passed through Tomb-Sweeping Day in Grain Rain. The golden wind warms everything up. Flowers are fragrant, and spring birds still sing.
Hug them every day
Tell them "I love you"
The American Academy of Pediatrics put forward: "Our kinship with our parents is one of the most important relationships. We need to eliminate fear and avoid violence in this loving relationship. Beating and cursing can't solve the problem, it will only increase the child's aggression and aggression.
If the baby does well, you can encourage him with rewards; If they don't do well, they should choose to reflect on themselves by thinking on the wall, and then teach them how to keep a clear head when things get worse.
In the face of children's mischief, treasure mothers should patiently guide how to correct and appease their children's emotions in time. Hug them every day, say I love you, make them feel needed, and keep a soft heart in an environment with enough security.
Since Bao Xiao began to learn to speak and watch the Wang Wang team, he would tell me "Spider King, Scared" and "Xiao Li's Ash Rescue"; When you pass by the construction site, he will tell you to "dig and dig with an excavator"; Seeing other children eating, he would say "Popsicle, ice cream, delicious". The more ya ya's mother listens and interacts with her baby, the more she talks.
/kloc-before the age of 0, Ma Bao communicated with children, changed the way of speaking, emphasized what the baby didn't understand, treated himself as a baby, spoke some baby languages, and communicated with the baby with short words and sentences; /kloc-After 0/year old, he will use some verbs and say you, me and him, but the baby's "baby language" is likely to be understood only by the mother. When the pronunciation is not correct, the mothers should never laugh at the baby. First of all, they must positively affirm his pronunciation, then correct him and encourage him with correct pronunciation.
Of course, if you are a talkative mother, maybe your baby will start to transfer to his father's ability to imitate language ~
After investigation, the team of experts from the University of North Carolina found that there was too much communication between mothers and children. When the mother's vocabulary is greater than the baby's imitation ability, the child will turn to imitate the father's language to master the vocabulary.
The baby's hands-on ability is far stronger than we thought. In the process of children's growth, treasure mothers can make some lists appropriately and let children do some housework by themselves.
Before the age of 3
Let children learn to put toys, throw garbage or choose clothes and shoes to wear the next day.
After 3 years old
Learn to wash socks and handkerchiefs with the help of adults, or help your mother clean the room and make the bed together.
A survey by the Chinese Academy of Educational Sciences shows that children who do housework do better than those who don't.
Accompanying children to do housework can not only enhance their practical ability, but also cultivate their sense of responsibility.