How to solve the problem of children's bad temper and irritability
First, respond to the child correctly and don't play hardball.
? When the child is angry, we should not be angry with the child, we should respond to the child. We should tell our children that we already know that they are angry, and ask them why. Let them express their anger and the children will be much better. We have to find a correct release window before we feel that we have done a good job.
My emotions are not so intense, and neither are the children. We should let our children speak their feelings. Children will think that we already know, and we should have a heart-to-heart talk with them and let them know not to be so angry. Anger is harmful to our health. And most importantly, we should find a solution to this problem instead of getting angry.
Second, practice expressing and controlling emotions.
? This sentence is incomprehensible, that is, let children practice expressing and controlling emotions. Let children practice ways to express and control their emotions. The first is to let children learn to express their emotions and express their feelings. I will feel very good in my heart. I believe that every one of us has this feeling, and children are no exception. But the most important thing is to control emotions, because we all know that we should be the masters of emotions, and we should control emotions instead of letting them control our behavior.
? It is difficult for children to control their emotions because they have not experienced many things and they don't know how to deal with some things. Therefore, at this time, our parents will play a particularly important role. What we have to do is to help children control their emotions and help them recover their emotions. Only when children are calm will they think about solutions and become rational.
Third, teach children the ability to calm down and solve problems.
It's no use getting angry. When we are angry, we should also teach our children to calm down and let them calm down before we can solve the problem. I believe many people understand this sentence, but we'd better teach it when our children are in kindergarten. Because if the child is still in the kindergarten class or when the parents take care of the child, the child's acceptance ability is not too strong. So this method has a certain age stage, and we can teach it when children are three to six years old.
Reasons for children's bad temper and irritability:
First, it is related to the child's natural temperament, which is innate. For example, some people are introverted and withdrawn, like Lin Daiyu, some people are introverted and calm, like Lin Chong, some people are extroverted and calm, like Rainbow Xifeng, and some people are extroverted and impulsive, like Li Kui jy. Children's natural temperament is more impulsive and extroverted.
Second, it may be related to the attitudes of parents and children during their growth. If someone in the family is grumpy, the child is also prone to grumpy.
Third, it is related to the way you punish your child, that is, when the child makes a mistake, skipping rope first and then punishing it will also aggravate the child's mood.
Fourth, children have not learned how to express their emotions correctly and how to express their emotions.
Fifth, it may be related to trace elements in children.
Parents should pay attention to their children's bad temper and irritability as soon as possible. In daily life, parents should give their children a warm and relaxed living environment. There are problems between parents. When solving problems, don't make personal attacks on each other in front of children.