However, if parents' needs about their children are constantly met unconditionally, it will be counterproductive, children will become more and more rebellious, and the final outcome may be unsatisfactory. Neighbor Xiaolin's child is 5 years old and his name is Xiaoming. Because Xiao Lin's family is very patriarchal, the whole family revolves around Xiao Ming. In order to give Xiaoming a better education, Kobayashi sent his children to an early education class with a monthly tuition fee of 10,000 yuan. Even if Kobayashi borrows money, he should let his children go to a good school.
Nowadays, Xiao Ming is spoiled by his family, and he will swear at the younger generation. The Kobayashi couple are also very wronged. Because they have tried their best to be nice to Xiao Ming, they didn't expect it to end like this.
On this matter, expert Li Meijin said: It is parents' endless doting that makes their children willful and unreasonable. If you want your child to be a useful person, you can't love him too much. Remember that you can't get used to it.
Three unaccustomed. First, children can't get used to laziness, which is a stumbling block on the road to victory. Every laziness lays the groundwork for failure, and victory will only stay on those who work hard. Therefore, when parents find their children lazy, they must help them to correct them and prevent them from forming lazy habits. Second, children can't get used to it without obligation. Many children are afraid to confess their mistakes. This is a sign of no obligation. Children will lie to their parents because of their punishment. You can't get used to such things. Parents should cultivate their children to be brave and confess their wrong ideas. Third, unruly children can't adapt. If parents spoil their children blindly, even if they are not good, they will not be punished, so that children will easily go astray when they grow up.
Anyway, first of all, don't worry about the twists and turns that children can accept. Some children don't feel very painful after wrestling, so they don't cry. However, parents will come to hold their children at once, and the children will start to feel wronged and then cry. In the face of a child wrestling, it only takes a gentle fall. Parents should let their children get up by themselves, instead of turning them into flowers in the greenhouse, so that they will become people who can't face twists and turns. Second, don't worry about what children can do independently. In the eyes of many parents, children are always children and will not be asked to do housework, but in fact, parents can let their children do some simple housework and cultivate their talents.
Finally, I want to say that parents in the world love their children very much, but very few or very few people don't love their children, but they should love their children in the right way, or they will harm their children.