? 1, parents should teach their children basic manners.
In study and life, let children obey the rules and know the basic etiquette. When studying at school, observe classroom discipline; When playing with classmates, learn to be tolerant and modest; ? For example, in life, table manners include taking plates and chopsticks lightly; Be modest in picking up food, and use public chopsticks to pick up food; ? Don't talk when the food in your mouth is not chewed, so as not to spill the food; ? When crossing the road, we have to wait for the green light to pass and take the zebra crossing. We have to tell our children: "zebra crossing is not the starting line, there is no need to race against time";
? 2. Develop good reading habits
Many people will wonder why reading can have a good "culture". The so-called "belly of poetry" means that every time we read a book or a story, we are experiencing other people's lives. With our own limited experience, reading is one of the main ways to broaden our thinking and horizons. Only by studying hard and holding an inclusive attitude can we not interfere and blame other people's lives. ? "Well frogs can't talk about the sea and summer insects can't talk about ice" is telling us that the narrower our knowledge and the shallower our experience, the more we feel that we are telling the truth, while summer insects only live in summer. If you talk to it about winter ice, you can't understand it. Only when children read more books can they be open-minded in the world, save themselves and speak and do things more sensibly.
3. Teach children compassion and learn to respect others.
In the usual communication with everyone, a reader's mother told us that for some time, her children have always liked to pull their mother's hair, and children will laugh when they see the helpless expression of adults; Babies in MengMeng don't beat their children's little hands hard, just think that children are too young to understand, and take "plucking" as an interesting activity.
Then we told her that the next time your little guy pulls her hair, you should pretend to be serious at once, and then you must tell her, "You hurt Mommy, and Mommy is very sad now and doesn't want to play with you." Play by yourself. " Then put her down, look her in the eye, and let her play alone for two minutes when it is safe.
Whether she understands it or not, you can do it. Children are smarter than we think. They can sense our emotions. After trying this for two or three times, the baby will no longer pull other people's hair casually.
This example tells us that when children are very young, we can slowly shape their character and tell them to respect everyone and every profession; Career is not easy. Respect everyone, whether they are old people or children younger than themselves; Whether it is a courier or a takeaway brother, respect every profession.