Later, the child was out of danger, but the onlookers were worried. It seems that it is also a technical job to ask for a new moon. Please rest assured. When an unprofessional baby suffers, adults feel uncomfortable.
Then please don't ask for a new moon. How can we find a reliable new moon?
First, do you want to invite?
Conditional advice please, money should be spent on the cutting edge, why? Good moons are still in the majority. As long as you choose carefully, you can still find a reliable moon. In this special confinement period, with the care and care of professionals, the family can be much more peaceful.
1. Babies will not suffer.
Although I attended a pregnant class, read a lot of parenting books during pregnancy, and I know a lot in theory, I still don't know where to start, especially when the child was born, I was too delicate to hug him for fear of hurting him. Although the old man raised you, the experience decades ago is really different from the present. ......
If you don't have a new moon, how can you change diapers, burp, wash your ass, take a bath, touch, even assemble pacifiers and take off your clothes? The whole family will be anxious.
It is more reassuring to give delicate babies to experienced nurses who have cared for many children, and they and their families can also learn professional nursing skills from the side. After the second month, the mother recovered and the baby became stronger. The family also learned the skills of bringing up children from Yue Yue, which is much easier.
Before Yue Yuelai, my baby met an unprofessional and irresponsible nurse in the hospital, and suffered some crimes, including rash all over the body, urine crystallization (red on diapers, like blood), and especially crying. And I just became a mother and learned a lot of theoretical knowledge, but I have never practiced anything and have no ability to distinguish.
There are basically nurses in the obstetrics and gynecology department of Beijing Hospital. I used to hear friends say that if we don't hire nurses, Yue Yue will be pushed out by all kinds of people. I thought I would leave the hospital soon after giving birth, so I would use a nurse.
Each nurse has to take care of three pregnant women and three babies, and it is three shifts. Care for more than 65,438+00 hours requires replacement. Don't expect sincere care.
Why does Dundun get a rash? I didn't object at first, because the newborn baby felt more secure when wrapped up, which matched the parenting theory I learned, but it was actually quite hot in May 438+1October. The aunt who swept the floor in the hospital saw it and whispered to me: don't wrap the child. It's so hot that the nurse is trying to relax and stop crying when she is wrapped up.
My baby's urine crystallized because no one breast-fed me, and I didn't breast-feed my baby to drink water after giving birth, so my baby urinated blood because of insufficient metabolism. Every time I asked the nurse to change diapers, the nurse said to take another look, and the nursing staff was indifferent.
Later, I learned that most of these nurses are going to send them to the hospital to practice their hands first. If you can't use them, don't use them In fact, you can ask Yue Yue to take care of them in the hospital.
A semi-professional care worker who didn't fulfill his responsibilities realized the value of professional care for the new moon. After three days of nursing, the rash and urine crystals have all recovered, and I don't like to make trouble when I am well.
After the new moon left, we continued to care according to the way she taught us, and the child was fine in all aspects.
For the sake of children, it is recommended to invite a professional Yue Yue. Of course, the premise is that Yue Yue is really professional, not as lazy and relaxed as the nurses I met. That is the pit baby.
Adults are not bad-hearted.
You will find that many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law broke out in the second month, and even forged a lifelong grudge. Why?
It's not a personality problem, but a special period of confinement. It's not that my mother-in-law is bad, but that my mother-in-law has a good personality and is very kind. However, in the words of friends, "my mother-in-law brought her own black attribute in the second month", and she was mainly thinking about her old man's precious grandchildren, so it was easy to ignore or even annoy her daughter-in-law, even if she casually said, "Is the child with bad hair and pregnant?" "Look at you eating for 5 to 6 months a day. Why is milk still not enough for your baby?" It was unintentional, but who can stand such a few more words?
Not that the daughter-in-law is not good. In the second month, the new mother will have a lot of discomfort, such as laceration, severe constipation, hemorrhoids, chapped nipples, and can't sleep well every two hours at night. No matter which of these things is enough to make the new mother uncomfortable, she will be more sensitive and it will be difficult for her to have a good temper and patience.
In addition, the conflict between the old and new ideas, the mother-in-law will think that she is older than your husband, because she has a great say, while the daughter-in-law is highly educated and advocates scientific parenting, and thinks that many old ideas are outdated dross.
When my mother-in-law first came, the collision between the old and new parenting concepts at home was really obvious. As soon as the old man entered the room, he said why he didn't wear a hat, opposed to drying his ass, and thought that the baby's legs were bent and tied ... I was glad that there were no such conflicts in the next month, and I was glad that there was a high emotional intelligence month to persuade him that he didn't have to come forward himself.
Secondly, taking care of the next month is definitely physical labor. Old people can take care of them for a day or two. After a long time, their bodies can't bear it. Even if the old man is still young, it is very tiring to wait for the next month. If they meet children again, they will feel uncomfortable, and the whole family will be impatient, and it is inevitable to bump into each other.
I am glad that my family invited Yue Yue, and I also listened to my best friend's advice for two months. In the first month, I took good care of myself. In the second month, I followed Yue Yue to study nursing seriously. If you only ask for a month, rest for the first half of the month and learn nursing from Yue Yue in the second half. Whether you want 1 month or 2 months, you should take over by yourself sooner or later and discuss with your family for how long.
My mother was here 10 days before my life, and my mother-in-law came here 10 days after Yue Yue was about to leave home. At other times, it's just the three of us and Yue Yue. It's very quiet and carefree.
Afterwards, I think this arrangement is quite wise. Except for some bad things in the hospital, everything went well.
Second, how to choose a new moon?
In the past two years, the media reported some black-hearted New Year's Eve dinners, and every time I saw them, I was so angry. In fact, Chinese New Year's Eve also hates such people, which has ruined the reputation of the industry. There are all kinds of birds in the Woods, and we have to rely on our eyes to choose any industry.
The best lunar calendar is personally used and recommended by your trusted friends, but it is also the most sought-after one. Unless you book in advance soon after pregnancy, the schedule may not be suitable, so you have to find it yourself.
If you want to find a professional and conscientious new moon, just like recruiting employees, you must first screen out four or five suitable candidates with hard requirements, and then interview them one by one to see if they can get along.
Let's talk about hard and fast rules, similar to recruiting employees, but also depends on age, education, certificates and cases.
1. It is recommended to be 35-50 years old and in good health.
I am too old for my health. Yue Yue works in rows, taking care of the baby during the day, cooking monthly meals for new mothers, doing all kinds of housework, staying up late at night, waking up every two hours, holding the baby to his mother and burping the baby after feeding. People with poor health can't bear it at all. How does Yue Yue's cold and fever, which is too old and weak, infect the baby? It's also troublesome to change people halfway.
It is precisely because I am too old to eat. Although my family is doing very well, I am already actively planning the transformation and planning to start a business to make pure hand-made complementary food.
You can't be too young, even if you haven't given birth.
2. It is best to have a higher education.
This is not a rigid requirement, but it is easier to communicate and talk with a higher education, because Yuezi is really boring, so you can't play mobile phones, watch TV, read books for a long time, and you can't go out. I have to do something. If I have a new moon to talk to, I will be much happier.
3. Look at the certificate, the case and the evaluation.
Certificates: In addition to ID cards and health certificates, there are many certificates of training certification, parenting care and maternal care in Yue Yue industries. The more complete, the better.
Case: If the moon meal is well cooked, you can look at the photos of the moon meal cooked by the last family. If the baby is well taken care of, you can watch videos of bathing, stroking and doing passive sports for the baby. Whether the technique is skilled or not and whether the baby is comfortable can be seen by the naked eye. For example, as mentioned at the beginning of the article, the new moon shivering in the bath will basically not enter the next round.
Previous customer comments: We bought in buy buy according to Taobao comments, and chose a restaurant to order a dish according to public comments. Please pay more attention to the comments. The interaction in WeChat and the evaluation of friends circle are all side proofs. Of course, you may worry that Yue Yue will only cut off those comments that are beneficial to us, and she will say bad reviews?
Here we must solemnly Amway the "Bodhi Fruit" Lunar New Year platform founded by my friend Chen Guo, which was invested by Kai-Fu Lee innovation works. Gao Feisheng, who has always graduated from the Chinese Academy of Sciences with a master's degree, found that there were too many pits when his wife gave birth to a child. She founded Bodhi Fruit with several technical cows, which can be understood as "public comment on the lunar new year industry". It's been 200,000 months, and all customer comments are publicly displayed, so don't worry about one-sided comments. It is much more reliable to screen candidates according to comments.
At the same time, if you want to sign a private bill with Yue Yue introduced by a friend, but you are worried that there is no guarantee, what if Yue Yue receives a deposit by air, or Yue Yue receives a higher-priced order and doesn't come for the time being? My best friend was stood up. She lied about her due date. One minute she said that her family was ill, and the next she said that she had a fracture. She went to find a replacement. "Bodhi Fruit" provides private billing service and third-party supervision service, so it will be much more reassuring if there is a place to find Yue Yue in case of default.
Interested friends can search for the experience of WeChat official account "Bodhi Fruit" on WeChat.
Third, how to interview?
It's time for an interview by screening candidates through tough conditions. At that time, my acquaintances didn't recommend suitable candidates, so I asked Yue Yue Company to bring five candidates to my home for an interview.
First, you should close your eyes. A person who takes care of you and your baby 24 hours a day and is not related by blood will definitely like it. He is good-looking, looks good, and his speech is acceptable.
Secondly, it is a specific interview assessment. First, let Yue Yue introduce herself and learn more about her family, children and previous occupations. The second part is to ask Yue Yue to describe her typical day's work, and to understand and determine what her job responsibilities are. These two processes can basically be seen.
If it's worth talking about, let's talk about the specific content in detail, such as what to pay attention to the moon meal, postpartum rehabilitation, how to care for the baby's navel, red buttocks, jaundice, how to do early education and so on. There are many strategies and interview questions for interviewing the Moon on the Internet, so I won't elaborate.
Here, if you choose the new moon, you must see more. "Shop around", a good friend of mine was set up by the housekeeping company. Because her mother believes in Buddhism, the housekeeping company recommended her a gold medal for believing in Buddhism, and now it has been solved. Later, it was found that it was nearly twice as expensive as other months. Professional or professional, not bad for the baby. But it went well, and I often took care of my friends. The cooking is terrible.
Finally, even if you choose a new moon that suits you in all aspects, you and your family should have a long snack. You can't just let it go. Yueyue only helps to take care of 1~2 months in the initial stage, and the child will always be raised by himself.