Soong Ching Ling once said: "In the final analysis, children's personality and talents are most influenced by their families, parents, especially their mothers. When children grow up, although society has become an environment to exercise them and schools also play an important role in the development of teenagers, it is the family that leaves an indelible mark on a person. "
Some senior parenting psychologists have suggested that children's inner world is rich and colorful, and they all have their own voices. Parents should first listen patiently in order to truly understand their children's thoughts and feelings, and then deal with their physical and psychological problems and changes in a timely manner. Only with this foundation can parents and children communicate well.
Secondly, parents should know that they can't take the place of their children, and they can't make decisions for their children themselves. On the contrary, they should give their children enough confidence to make the right choices for themselves, which will help them build up their self-confidence. What parents should do is to be good at discovering and praising their children, guide them to face failure correctly and be their comrades-in-arms in the face of setbacks. Third, overindulgence will make children become willful, selfish, rude, disrespectful to their elders and careless to their partners. As parents, we should teach our children to act independently, think consciously, and cultivate their self-reliance and problem-solving ability.
Finally, parents are role models for children, and children are parents' mirrors. Words and deeds such as quarreling in front of children will affect children. Therefore, parents should set an example for their children in words and deeds to help them grow up healthily.
Doing early education at home, the scientific system is the most headache for parents. How to educate children in all aspects with the help of auxiliary tools, just parent-child games is not enough. Some early education machines on the market, such as the Little Genius Early Education Machine, do early education through parent-child interaction with children and children's own game interaction, from intellectual development to habit formation, as well as emotional intelligence training that modern society attaches great importance to. The author believes that this kind of early education machine can help parents to carry out early education to a certain extent.
Seeing the old at the age of three, seeing the old at the age of seven, early education can be early, because it is very important, early education with parents and children, and returning to the family is the real early education.