As we all know, it is difficult for children to be quiet when they are naughty, and they will feel uncomfortable later. After having children at home, they have to clean several times a day.

Moreover, you can't just focus on your own business and look at the baby, for fear that you will get into trouble if you don't pay attention to the child.

Many parents always want their little baby to be as sensible and polite as a little princess or little prince, and not to be naughty.

The answer is yes. But mothers don't have to worry too much. As long as it is not ADHD, children can play for health. I don't know. Have you seen the hot cartoon Martha and the Bear? It can be called a cartoon that children and adults will like, and it tells a lot about getting along with parents.

The little hero in this cartoon is a girl named Martha. As soon as she appeared, she gave the audience a strange impression, and the animals around her were scared to hide when they saw the little girl.

Martha loves to sneak up on all kinds of animals in the forest, and then comes to the bear's house by mistake. As soon as the naughty Martha saw the big yard, she immediately let it jump. When Little Bear saw the terrible situation at home, the whole little bear was ill.

Then the adventure story of one man and one bear was opened, and other small animals played supporting roles. Because of Martha's various pranks, she likes to be funny, and then she can pretend to be innocent, which always makes everyone laugh.

To tell the truth, there are Xiong Haizi like Martha in reality, which often makes parents angry and funny. Mi Shaxiong in the cartoon is equivalent to the parents in life.

Like Martha's father, it hates Xiong Haizi Martha and is unwilling to scold or fight. It will also make Martha angry, but no matter how annoying she is, she will eventually clean up the mess with her if she gets into trouble.

When Martha is in danger outside, she will appear to protect her at the first time.

Little Martha is naughty and lovely, and her behavior style often makes the bears nervous. But after reading all of them, I think the story of Martha and Bear cartoons is very instructive.

It can remind adults in reality that it is normal for children to be naughty, and to some extent, playing is healthy. Speaking of which, some parents may disagree.

After all, children nowadays pay attention to learning fancy talents and can't lose at the starting line. Besides going to school normally, I have to attend interest classes or cram schools every weekend, so I have no time to play.

1) The phenomenon of inactivity is becoming more and more serious, which affects development.

Many parents don't want their children to lose at the starting line. What others know, you have to learn at home! For example, you have to go to a cram school for 40 minutes or an hour every day after school, and there are various interest classes on weekends.

At the beginning of class, the children were bound there, sitting upright and unable to move freely. In addition, there are more and more electronic products now, and almost everyone has a mobile phone. Children follow the trend and start to contact electronic products early.

There are all kinds of small videos and cartoons on mobile phones and platforms. Children stare for hours at a time. When the phenomenon of inactivity becomes more and more serious, the physical development of children will also be affected.

When the internet is not so developed, children usually choose to play outdoors. Whether playing with mud or playing hide-and-seek means a lot of exercise. Then, in crazy play, children are not prone to obesity, high blood pressure and other diseases.

After all, "exercise makes people healthy" has been practiced by thousands of people, and exercise can promote and strengthen the regulation of bones and blood vessels.

2) Make children smarter.

If a child is not naughty, he is not called a child. Children are smart only when they play. Just like Martha, you can't deny that people are smart, even though they are crazy and naughty everywhere.

When she comes up with some mischievous ideas, her brain works quickly, which shows that "playing" can promote intellectual growth. Of course, you have to be smart in the right way.

When I was a child, bears were harmless. When I was in primary school, I was sensible, so I had to restrain myself. The scale of this requires parents to master and give some guidance next to their children.

3) Make children healthier physically and mentally.

Art students all know that once you emancipate your nature, you can't restrain yourself, otherwise you can't do anything, and so can children. Playing is their nature.

If parents bind their children's nature, then in the long run, children will become more introverted, feel inferior, and even go to society when they grow up, and may lose many opportunities.

You don't have the courage to seize the opportunity to compete, so let it go at the right age. It can make children more confident, help them be independent and have good social skills. So playing can build children's physical and mental health to a certain extent.

Don't indulge in playing, play to a certain extent.

Xiong Haizi's "bear" has a lovely meaning in it, so you can't indulge blindly, otherwise the child may "go to heaven".

To play, you must have a degree. The rope is in the hands of parents, and the child is a kite. Remember to pull the rope.

▼ Smart parents will also grasp a certain degree if they let their children "play"

① 0- 12-month-old baby

Some people will say, where can a few months old baby play? In fact, newborn babies need more exercise, such as adults helping them turn over, crawl, stretch their hands and feet and so on.

A few months old baby can't let them sleep all the time, otherwise the development speed will be slower than other babies. Proper exercise can make children learn to walk earlier, their limbs will be stronger and their physical fitness will not be too fragile.

② Children under 3 years old.

Generally speaking, children under 3 years old usually stay with their mothers or grandparents. Such a small baby also needs exercise, and parents can't deprive them of time to play games.

About 3 years old is the stage of children's rapid development, and it is also the key period to promote health. For example, it can be sent to early education institutions, and professional teachers can take their children to play.

Children can also learn many skills while playing all kinds of games to develop intelligence and courses to exercise physical balance.

③ Children aged 3-6.

Children of this age are already in kindergarten or preschool, and teachers will let them work and rest at school.

As a parent, you only need to take care of your children from school to sleep.

According to science, children aged 3 to 6 should be active for more than three hours, not always sitting in one place for more than 60 minutes.

You also need to set a time limit for watching your mobile phone, no more than one hour a day. For such a big child, it is suitable to go outdoors for about two hours.

(1) Games that help children's eyesight.

Now, children around 2 years old can play mobile phones or pick up tablets to watch game videos and cartoons. In fact, it is normal for children to play games. Whose childhood was not accompanied by games? However, children have not yet formed a certain degree of self-control, and parents are needed to guide them at this time.

So before they are 6 years old, parents should strictly control the game time. It is suggested that each game should last about 20 minutes. In addition, parents should know that the smaller the mobile phone screen, the greater the damage to children's vision.

Therefore, it is best to let the children leave the mobile game as soon as possible and switch to other building blocks. Building block games can not only help intellectual development, but also have little negative impact on children's eyesight.

⑵ Games that help to develop children's thinking.

From an adult's point of view, many games are actually rubbish. I believe that most people have played parkour games to train people's launching ability simply.

However, some of these games are too rigid, and they always touch the screen. Finally, the agility of the emitting nerve is not well trained, but the more you play, the more addictive you become.

Therefore, if children want to play games to develop their thinking, it is better to take them to practice in life, let them experience the sense of game for themselves and play a real thinking development training in the process.

(3) games that help children's minds.

Those low-difficulty games, it is best not to let children touch them, are repetitive sensory pleasure experiences. In the past, my cousin liked to play the first level of Super Mario, playing every day and unwilling to learn.

Because the first level is extremely difficult and rewarding, it is easy for children to have a sense of accomplishment.

Of course, all online games should be forbidden for underage children to avoid being discouraged by playing things.

Parents should take their children to play some games that are helpful to their minds, learn through playing, and finally achieve the goal of applying what they have learned.

Write it at the end

Martha and Bell are very popular. That's because Martha likes trampoline, climbing trees and playing tricks on her friends in the forest, even though she is naughty and loves to get into trouble.

But from the side, Martha is smart and good at sports, and those naughty things can always cause the audience to think deeply. When the characters in an cartoon are full, people can let their children sit in the right position.

When seeing Martha's ignorance or bad habits and shortcomings on the screen, parents should think about whether their children are the same.

How should we help children correct? On the contrary, from another perspective, whether children should learn from Martha's advantages.

In short, don't suppress children's nature, let them play at the right age!