Parents can't keep up with their neighbors. What about the neighbor's children? What about the children of colleagues? What about other people's children? Always educate children in this way, and children will have great rebellious psychology.
There are more only children now, which affects parents' judgment. If there are as many children at home as before, parents will feel that every child has a way out in all aspects and their mentality will be much more peaceful.
4. Parents should be able to judge the basic situation of their children, such as language expression, attention length, memory ability, judgment ability, hands-on operation ability, independent opinions, intelligence, strengths, willingness to cooperate with others, perseverance, intelligence, and what they like to do.
This is the basic situation of their children!
Parents should also understand their family situation and social requirements, their own genetics, family economic ability and the requirements of social development for talents. In other words, it is necessary to understand the basic quality of children's internal factors, their own preferences, and the social factors of external families, and then teach students in accordance with their aptitude, set goals, and carefully cultivate them, so that children's abilities can be cultivated and become useful talents!
Children can become a happy person, which is a great goal! Children's personality, intelligence and physical characteristics are important characteristics besides children's morality. The same child will have different concepts about different educational methods; On the contrary, different children have different educational methods for the same education.
Therefore, parents should decide according to their children's situation.
Only by knowing the situation of children can we better locate children. Knowing children is the premise of teaching children. Only by accurately grasping the moral quality of children can we educate children well!
After having a correct understanding of children, we can teach students in accordance with their aptitude. All excellent parents have a plan for their children's education and follow the steps. Only by teaching students in accordance with their aptitude can we cultivate excellent children.
Every child has his own bright spot. As parents, we should know our children, their advantages and disadvantages, tap their potential, teach them in accordance with their aptitude, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and believe that every child can become a success.