It turns out that even if those gifted mothers work full-time, their value will still be shown elsewhere.
Sister chan chan is a full-time mother and the only one in the community who doesn't require her daughter to enroll in preschool classes. I accidentally learned that she was a master of Beihang University, so I became curious about this high flyers mother. After a detailed chat, I learned that this mother used to be a figure in a foreign company, but the high-intensity work almost caused her to have an abortion and finally had to return to her family.
I was confused for a long time after that. In addition, in recent years, due to the economic downturn, the income of the whole family has dropped sharply, and the expenses of children have increased day by day, which has led her in-laws to criticize her in every way and always laugh at her: it is a waste to study such a high degree at home every day.
Sister chan chan said that even though she was laughed at by her family, she never regretted her decision to return to her family. She was glad that her mother was always by her side when her daughter needed love most. Instead of listening to the in-laws and sending the children back to their hometown.
Daughter, now in the third grade of primary school, has become someone else's child. At the beginning, her in-laws who found fault with her not only kept their mouths shut, but also boasted to everyone: "My daughter-in-law is really high flyers. You can educate your children more! "
Sister chan chan's daughter is in the third grade this year. She is a famous all-around principal in the community. The little girl is not only proficient in guzheng, dance, singing, programming and roller skating, but also has won various competition awards many times in her studies. In the "Flying Flower Order" competition held in the community, one person challenged 10 people and became famous in World War I. ..
Many people envy Sister chan chan for having a gifted child, but Sister chan chan always says in a low-key way that children are willing to work and have little to do with themselves. I have also observed the way chan chan takes care of the baby, and found that she is really not Versailles. It's really easy for her to take care of her children.
The two girls usually do their own things and don't interfere with each other. For example, children practice piano, and sister chan chan practices calligraphy; When the children are programming, Sister chan chan will brush her mobile phone, which looks no different from ordinary families. But this is not the case. I observed that this woman is the kind of person who is super focused.
The little girl is only in grade three. For an unfamiliar dance, she can practice 1 hour a day. For an unfamiliar algorithm, it will give up the opportunity to go out to play.
Before, the two families made an appointment to go to the suburbs to play together. When they picked them up, they found that their mother was ready, but the little girl was gone. It turned out that it was stuck by a question. The child opened the video and asked the competition teacher to give a lecture! After waiting for 40 minutes, the little guy was still writing and drawing there after getting on the bus. The state of complete devotion makes my old aunt like chicken blood.
I have observed that little girl, and her concentration is not as good as that of an adult. This reminds me of Gu Ailing who sleeps 10 hours every day. Similarly, Gu Ailing became the only world champion who successfully completed high school in skiing because of her strong concentration.
The study found that the average person will be interrupted every 3 minutes and 05 seconds, and it takes about 25 minutes to enter the state again. More and more children are diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). This kind of child can't concentrate for three minutes and is often attracted by some unnecessary actions. They are also more addicted than other children, such as teenagers with internet addiction.
Mobile phones, PADs and TVs that can be seen everywhere in life are greatly weakening children's concentration. According to statistics, the average concentration time of 4-year-old children in the early 1990s can reach 12 minutes. Today's 4-year-old children can only reach 7 minutes, and their concentration time is reduced by nearly half.
But obviously, the little girl in chan chan's sister's house has no such worries at all. I've always wondered how a child under 9 can be so dedicated. I went to consult Sister chan chan specially. The first thing she said shocked me.
Chan chan said: "Concentration will definitely become the core competitiveness of this era, and children with high concentration will become leaders in various industries. This ability needs a threshold and takes time to bless, so you must exercise yomi's ability in this area early. "
She made a metaphor, which I think is particularly good, and I will share it with you. She said: children need two kinds of knowledge in learning, one is common sense and the other is empirical knowledge. Just like a complete barrel, general knowledge is like the bottom of the barrel, and the accumulation of daily knowledge and experience is equivalent to the barrel body. A bucket can only be improved if its bottom is perfect. If the bottom of the bucket leaks, no matter how high the bucket is, it can't be stored in the water.
And concentration is the bottom of the bucket. If children want to improve their effective learning, they must first lay the bottom of the bucket. Chan chan suggested that it is best to try to exercise concentration from the age of 2.
Her daughter began to exercise when she was 2 years old. When the child entered the kindergarten, she found that the child learned things quickly and the teacher praised her in various ways. Slowly, my daughter became more and more confident. Along the way, I also gained many fans and younger brothers.
Yomi is 4 years old now, but I find it difficult for her to concentrate on 10 minutes. I went to check the concentration level of different age groups and found that yomi was below average, so I asked the exercise method.
Chan chan suggested that I start with "playing" and take my children to play the games she is interested in. For example: painting and coloring, building blocks, playing with stickers, etc. She recommends sticker games and painting coloring, especially sticker games that test children's concentration.
Sister chan chan gave yomi a set of stickers and picture books for children's concentration potential development training. She said that her daughter had played many sticker books, and this one was her favorite. And suggest that children as old as yomi find time to play for 20 minutes every day.
I read this set of books and found it really targeted. A *** 18 volume, each focusing on cultivating a kind of ability. For example: memory, spatial imagination, reasoning judgment, creativity and so on.
More than 300 different scenes and more than 365,438+000 beautiful stickers, including maze, room layout, item classification, digital games, etc. Let children deepen their daily knowledge reserves during play.
Generally speaking, the quality of attention mainly depends on four aspects: the stability, breadth, transfer and distribution of attention.
"Uncovering stickers" is a great test of children's attention stability and distribution. Children will focus on their hands between tearing and pulling. This will narrow the focus area of the brain, thus forcing the child's attention to be highly concentrated, while exercising the child's fine hand movements.
The classification game in the sticker trains the breadth of attention. This set of books has a classification game of various objects, colors and shapes. Children are classified according to different characteristics, which not only exercises their logical thinking ability and inductive ability, but also enables them to learn horizontal comparison, thus exercising the breadth of attention.
Tear off the sticker from the book, and then find a suitable page to paste it on. The exercise is to divert attention. The process of finding, tearing and pasting can not only exercise the coordination ability of children's hands, eyes and brain. It can also exercise children's attention when switching quickly. After children repeatedly look for stickers, their memory and accuracy will get better and better, and their concentration will naturally improve.
So don't think about concentration, just make up a scene that makes children sit still, and games are more conducive to cultivating children's concentration.
I specially let yomi play with stickers for a while. Not to mention that Xiong Haizi's TV watching time has plummeted, I recommend this set of books to you today, 18 59 yuan, which is really cheaper than thousands of intensive courses!
If your child is between 2 and 6 years old, I really suggest you enter this sticker game book. Eating out less gives children a core competitiveness. This wave is not a loss.