The essentials of 0-3-year-old baby dialogue, parents' education is very important when the baby is young, and the baby's psychology is different at different stages, so as parents, we should give guidance when talking to the baby. Let's share the essentials of the conversation between 0-3 year old babies.
0-3 years old baby talk essentials 1 3 months: the baby is silent and the mother keeps nagging.
In the neonatal period, babies usually express their feelings only by crying with their mouths closed, but newborns are very sensitive to sounds, so they also need to talk to their mothers.
Babies are usually born about a month before they can distinguish human voices, but before that, mothers should always talk to their babies and constantly stimulate their language nerves. This kind of stimulation not only helps the baby's development, but also stabilizes the baby's mood.
How to talk to the baby
During this period, the mother can't communicate with the baby. Even if the mother doesn't want to talk to herself, at least she will take the initiative to talk to the baby when changing diapers.
When the baby is hungry, wets the bed or is unwell, he will express his feelings by crying. For the baby, this behavior is equivalent to a language.
In daily life, mothers should often talk to their babies, such as "Did the baby wet the bed?"? Is it hard? Mom will help you change diapers right away! " "ouch! You suck! Eat more and grow up quickly! "
4- 12 months: babble, talk to children in appropriate language.
Once the baby learns to "eyah", it will often make a sound. Children with faster development will start to pronounce "ah, oh, oh" and other sounds from 2 months after birth, and gradually learn more complicated pronunciations such as "mom, snoring, dad".
During this period, the baby likes to make all kinds of sounds, and the sound is relatively loud. It is also a pleasure for mothers to talk to their babies in the voice of "eyah".
How to talk to the baby
If the baby makes a "eyah" sound, the mother can respond with words such as "mom, dad". At this time, the baby's "eyah" sound may be just an unconscious behavior, but it may also be an expression of his own thoughts. Anyway, the baby is waiting for his mother's reaction.
1-2 years old: the baby speaks with overlapping words and the mother uses sentences to guide.
During this period, the baby has a strong independent spirit and can correctly understand the meaning of "no" and other languages. If the baby doesn't drink soup, or just stirs the soup with his fingers, even if the baby's' actions are timely, it is easy to make people laugh, and he should say' no'. Laughter is also a form of dialogue. If the mother laughs, the baby will mistakenly think that the mother is appreciating or affirming her behavior.
How to talk to the baby
During this period, babies often use phrases to express their ideas. For example, when you are hungry, you will say "hungry, hungry", and when you want to eat alone, you will point to the tableware and say "rice, rice". At this point, the mother's reaction should be: "Are you hungry? Want to eat? " "What's the matter? Do you want to eat it yourself? " "ah! It turns out that chopsticks fell on the ground! Thank you for reminding mom. "
2-3 years old: mothers and children can ask each other questions.
During this period, babies can form short sentences with two or three words and often ask "why". Before the baby is 2 years old, his attention is poor. Although he can talk to others, it won't be long. After the baby is 2 years old, he can have a long conversation. When the other person thinks about the problem, the baby will know how to wait patiently.
If you talk to your baby at a simple and slow speed, you can have a long talk about the theme. When the baby organizes the next sentence, the mother should not say, "Do you think it is very interesting?" "What do you see in the yard?" And other ways to urge your baby. During this period, the baby begins to learn how to talk to the whole orange, so it is necessary to start properly.
In addition, the baby will often ask "What is this?" "Why?" For other questions, at this time, my mother must give the correct answers in the language she saw there. By the same token, the baby can learn how to communicate with others when the mother asks her questions.
Key points of talking with infants aged 0 to 3 II. Avoid using baby language when talking to babies.
When the baby can babble, parents will be very happy and learn to talk to him in the baby's voice. It's actually wrong. Parents should avoid using children's language when talking to their baby, but should seriously use the right words to talk to their baby. For example, many parents will say "eat meat", which is quite unwise. Why do you avoid talking to Baoyu?
For the early education that parents attach importance to, early language training is a very important part of early education, and parents also attach great importance to this part. However, many young parents are inexperienced and often learn to speak in children's language from their babies. Actually, this is not good. It is very important to talk to your baby seriously and formally and avoid using children's language when talking to your baby.
First, when parents teach their babies to speak, they should not only teach "children's language".
Babies' babbling before pronunciation is called children's language. At this time, young parents saw their children's eagerness to speak, so they taught them something like "Wang Wang" and "Gu Dong Gu Dong". Although this teaching method is lively and interesting, conforms to children's characteristics and contributes to the development of children's thinking in images, it is easy to ignore the cultivation and development of children's abstract thinking. In fact, for children, it takes almost the same time to remember "dog" and "barking", while the former is a language that will be learned sooner or later, and the latter is a language that will soon be abandoned. Language. Therefore, in order to fully develop children's thinking ability, parents should pay attention to combining rational vocabulary with perceptual vocabulary when teaching children to speak, so that children can learn to use correct pronunciation, which is useful and important for future language development.
Second, parents should talk to their babies more.
The baby is one year old, and the hearing ability is basically formed. During this period, the more meaningful sounds are delivered to the baby, the more sensitive the neurons responsible for hearing in the baby's brain will be. In addition, some studies show that the number of words that babies learn depends largely on the number of words that mothers say to their babies. Therefore, we found that some babies talk late and some talk early, largely because parents with children talk to their babies.
Although we know that the newborn baby really can't understand what adults say, we can't ignore that the newborn baby has a strong learning ability. For example, a mother always smiles at him and says, "Baby, I'm a mother." "Baby, this is milk. You are hungry. " When dressing and nursing the baby, talk to the baby and tell him, "Mom is changing your clothes. Is it cool? " Stretch your arms, raise your head "and so on. It is often said that this kind of content will be gradually understood by babies, which is very beneficial to the development of children's language ability in the future. With the time of talking to the baby, these language information is stored in his mind. When he 1 year-old, he may be called "dad, mom" and fully understand what adults mean. So you should talk to the baby more.
Parents must avoid using their children's language when they learn to speak, which is not good for their baby's future language development, and of course will hinder their all-round intellectual development. The language development of the baby's speech is also divided into several stages, from the beginning, to a word, two words, and then to a complete sentence. All these require parents to pay special attention to the way and method of the child's speech and guide the child's language development according to the actual situation of the child.
Avoid using baby language when talking to your baby.
Event 1: Don't talk to your baby in "children's language"
Many parents think baby's milk is funny. Talking to your baby in the way he/she talks is not conducive to his/her pronunciation and language development, but will make him think that the wrong pronunciation is correct and it is not easy to correct it in the future. For example, say "eat" as "qi".
Event 2: Good baby praises.
Don't be stingy with your baby's praise, pay attention to the specific things you praise, not the general praise. For example, if a baby eats well today, he should say, "The baby eats so fast today! Mom really likes it! " And so on, instead of just saying "the baby is a good baby", it will help strengthen the baby's good habits and behaviors and know what he has done right. But you can't just praise and not criticize.
Event 3: Don't criticize children in front of children and guests.
Children also have self-esteem. If they always say "My baby is not good at all" in front of guests. ""My baby is not as clever as you! "It will make children lose confidence in themselves and cause bad psychological hints. Criticism of the baby should also be told to the baby alone, on the matter, rather than turning over old scores.