I won't do it again. Getting married and having children is the choice of most people. However, some people will choose illegitimate children, which will face more difficulties than normal married children. ..... Specifically, the difficulties faced by illegitimate students include three aspects: one's life will be affected by illegitimate students, raising children after illegitimate students will encounter many difficulties, and illegitimate students will be unfavorable to children's growth. 1, my life will be affected by children born out of wedlock. Under normal circumstances, after getting married and having children, you can live a stable life and be guaranteed in all aspects. ..... but born out of wedlock is very different. ...... The most prominent problem brought by having children out of wedlock is unmarried status, which will prevent you from living a normal married life. If you give birth in this state, you will encounter many difficulties in your life, and it is difficult for you to deal with them. 2. The situation of children born out of wedlock will bring many difficulties to raising children. If you get married and have children normally, you can raise children with your lover on the premise of a stable life, so the burden of raising children will be much lighter. ..... But the status of having children out of wedlock will affect your life, and you will be out of sync with your partner in raising children, which is very unfavorable for raising children and will bring you many difficulties. Illegitimate children will affect their education, which is very unfavorable to their growth. The growth, development and progress of children need a good education, which needs both parents to complete. For married couples, this is a natural thing. If it is easy to do, children will get a good education. ..... but the situation of children born out of wedlock is different. Because both parents are not married, there will be problems with their children's education, and their children may also be affected in matters such as enrollment. These factors are unfavorable to children's growth, so giving birth out of wedlock will bring more difficulties to parents and children themselves. If I give you 500 yuan money every month, would you like to have another child? Recently, Shenyang issued the "Implementation Plan for Implementing Active Fertility Support Measures to Promote Long-term Balanced Population Development".

In the scheme, 500 yuan, a local triplet in Shenyang, is given a monthly subsidy until the child is 3 years old.

And the woman's maternity leave has been increased from 98 days to 158 days. The man's nursing leave is 20 days. Couples with children under 3 years old have a total of 10 days of parental leave every year.

During the rest period, wages will be paid as usual, and benefits will remain unchanged.

As soon as this plan was released, it also caused a heated discussion among netizens. Some people say, "It's not bad to have three children." Someone said, "500 yuan a month is not enough to buy milk powder."

Indeed, as far as I know, few friends around me want a second child, let alone a third child.

It's really difficult to raise a child now. In a small city like mine, the monthly salary of two dual employees adds up to about 10 thousand.

Before the child is three years old, if breastfeeding is better, you can save a sum of milk powder money. If you are a child who eats milk powder, 500 yuan is really not enough for a month's milk powder.

Coupled with diapers, children usually wear clothes and eat complementary food. If the conditions are better, they will now give their children early education classes, so the cost of raising children is really not small.

When the children are older and go to school, the expenses will be even greater.

So now I really understand the psychology that young people don't want a second child, and the pressure of life is too great. Forget the triplets.

In addition to money, you need someone to take care of the children. If the elderly at home are in good health, they can also help take care of them. What if both parents have no time or physical permission?

One of the men and women will not work and take care of the baby at home full-time. Some people may say to hire a new moon. I remember I really calculated this account when I was pregnant.

In our small city, it is almost enough to go out to work and earn four or five thousand yuan, but the normal monthly salary is at least about seven thousand yuan. Moreover, hiring people is always less reassuring than taking care of children yourself.

In this way, I have no courage to have a second child.

Of course, for those who are willing to have triplets because of economic conditions, Shenyang's policy of encouraging triplets is still good.

I was born in the 1980s. My mother said that I was fined for having a second child when I was a child.

Now the state encourages childbearing, and triplets not only give subsidies but also extend maternity leave.

Some people say that 500 yuan a month is not strong enough to give birth to a child and drink northwest wind. But I think 500 yuan is not much, but it can also subsidize the family.

Because people who can have triplets must be the result of careful consideration, it is impossible for 500 yuan to have another child just because of this.

If it is implemented, each triplet family will subsidize 500 yuan every month for three years, and I choose to have another one.