Some people always think that women who don't go to work are raised by men. In fact, doing housework is more tiring than going to work. Now it costs 45 yuan to clean a square glass, and a nanny earns several thousand yuan a month (including food and accommodation). I hope that men will change their views on women and respect them. Housework is also very important.
I can tell you for sure that housework is really worthless, if you think it is money.
Do housework You don't do housework for men, do it for yourself first, okay? Don't you need to eat and drink? Don't you need a clean family environment Do you want to live even if you don't get married?
Just like you got married for a man, okay? Women marry for themselves! Even if you have children, it is for yourself, not for men. Without children, you know marriage won't last.
Don't always take housework as an example. Why don't you try to earn money to support your family?
Doing housework is very tiring, but no matter how tired, there is no pressure. The pressure is on the man who supports the family. Men are really tired when they are tired!
Marriage and family, there must be a master and a second, inside and outside, cooperative division of labor, less care and more pay, so that couples will have feelings, families will be happy and children will feel warm.
It is the most natural, reasonable, long-lasting and stable marriage and family model that men are masters of money.
Women are immoral, incompetent and uneducated. She wants to marry a man, do nothing and enjoy life. She doesn't make money herself, and she wants to take care of the man's money. She can't tell east from west and wants to be the boss. You deserve it! After a long time, men will think about snubbing you, abandoning you and waiting for you to file for divorce!
Men always feel that raising a full-time wife is actually more tiring than doing housework and raising children. I used to ask a nanny to do housework and take care of the children. If a man wants me to be a full-time wife, I am not qualified. I'd rather work by myself and let him do housework and take care of the children. Now my husband and I both have jobs, but he is a little neat and likes to do housework, do laundry and mop the floor. I am only responsible for cooking noodles and fried rice for him and asking him to wash the side dishes. So I admire those good wives, good mothers and full-time wives who have paid so much for their families! [Ross] [Ross] [Ross]
Valuable, very valuable, for an ordinary family, it is simply high consumption and a luxury. If you really want to buy this kind of service with money, it is difficult to buy it at 10000 yuan a month. After all, you married this wife. She is completely different from the nanny. Heart and soul to you, give birth to your children, serve your parents, do housework for you, and make careful plans for you. Try someone else? I need to talk to you about how much it costs to look after children, do housework, buy food and cook, and live in your house. ...
Therefore, if a man has a full-time wife at home, he should cherish it more. You know, she has worked hard day and night for this family, for you, for this family, and she has paid so much. A sensible person should also do some housework after coming home from work to help her share a little.
However, the current situation in our country is that the contribution of a full-time wife is difficult to be recognized by everyone. If you don't go out to work to earn money, you are considered idle at home. Not only will you not be respected by your family, but you will also be despised. Just like the question asked by the subject, although it can make people feel true in a short time, no matter how much money you spend, you can't hire such a comprehensive domestic service.
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But what's the use? I can only pretend to calculate at home. Who will pay for your service when you leave home? It is true that many families hire nannies, but more families can't afford this service and would rather be tired than need you. So in real life, your contribution is basically impossible to achieve. Of course, if you go out to a first-tier city, you may find a good employer who can give you enough money to hire a nanny. Do you find it interesting?
Obviously, with your husband's ability, you two can't be supported at all. He felt too tired. If he wants a good life, he needs you to work with him. Your work is worthless to him, and he can't afford it. You think he gave in because you are good at calculating? Don't dream, being a full-time wife with peace of mind is a dream that most women in our country can't realize in this life. Not many men can support this family alone.
Who wants to go out to work? Under such great pressure, we have to act according to other people's faces, and we won't get the money if we don't finish the performance. How nice it is to be at home, make your own decisions and do what you want on your own turf. Here, I advise some female compatriots to be considerate of your husband. If anything happens to him, do you still want to be a full-time wife? At any time, you can still be independent, and self-reliance is the most ideal living condition. Marriage is not something you can parasitize. Independence and interdependence are the correct ways to maintain marriage. Only in this way can you win respect and your marriage go further and last forever.
I dare not say how valuable housework is, nor how worthless it is. Because there is no substitute line. It's too strong. You should show your value and irreplaceable behavior.
Yes, I have watched many issues of "One Turn to Double". The male guests in the program, no matter how much money they earn, will bosse around their stay-at-home wives, as if they have earned wages and given them to their families, which has made great contributions to raising children and doing housework. Whenever a child is sick, he will simply say, "What can you do if you don't even look up to the child?" Degrade the daughter-in-law's self-esteem and value to nothing.
What is the value of a stay-at-home wife? It's worth taking care of the housekeeper and nanny for a month.
The job of a stay-at-home mother is best expressed by the word "selfless dedication". Even if you go out to work, there are weekends and holidays, but for full-time mothers, it is 365 days a year, all year round.
But that's all. You may be rejected by your husband. I think you are relaxed at home. Isn't it just taking care of a child? It is not easy for him to work hard outside.
Few people try to find out what the work value of stay-at-home mothers is.
I am also a stay-at-home mom, and I have two children. If the boss was taken care of when he was a child, I could go out to work. I have been a full-time mother since I was pregnant with my second child.
From the birth of my second child, it is also an amazing figure to calculate the value of my labor for one year.
Because since the second month, I have been pushing my child to pick up the boss from school every day, without stopping until the second child goes to kindergarten.
The value of the second child from birth to kindergarten;
Childcare: 8000 yuan per month, our boss has a classmate, and both parents are at work. Please take care of your aunt who has a day off on Sunday. It costs 8000 yuan, which is the market price.
Children's tutor: 3000 yuan, I not only have to take the second child, but also help the boss with his homework. Almost every day, I read to my boss with my child in my arms and help with my homework.
Cleaning, laundry and cooking: 30 yuan/hour, 2 hours a day. 720 yuan is a month, three days a week.
If nothing else, the value I actually created in this issue is: (8000+3000+720)12 =140640.
It's amazing, not counting the milk powder money saved by the children, because the second child has been breast-feeding until one and a half years old. If milk powder costs 2000 yuan a month, it will save 36000 yuan.
We have never signed up for an early education class or anything. Mother's company is the best early education.
She can listen to her mother read stories and learn many ancient poems every day. Exercise outdoors for at least two hours every day, rain or shine.
When the weather is fine, I go to the playground to climb high and low with my friends, so I don't need to practice any big sports at all. If it rains, we will wear rain boots and play in the puddle with beautiful umbrellas. Even if it is wet, we will go home and change clothes before coming out to play. You will also find some small animals, such as earthworms, snails and slugs.
These cannot be measured by value at all. This is obviously a high education, and money can't buy it.
But these are all values that working fathers can't see, because they can't be exchanged for equivalent RMB. If you can't see the real thing, there is no value.
They didn't see that a large sum of money saved by their mother was actually a large sum of money earned, which was the wealth of the family that full-time mothers exchanged for their own labor.
Then leave, hire a housekeeper, once a month, and raise it by yourself at ordinary times, which is better than living with a guy who asks such stupid questions.
Man: Nothing, no matter how much you do.