2, set rules for children: four-year-old children, what parents can't tolerate most is their behavior, such as rude and unreasonable words, disrespect and even fighting with other children. Parents must educate their children to be polite, live in harmony with their children, and formulate relevant disciplines and rules for their children to abide by. If the child does as required, try to give the child some small rewards, and if the child violates the relevant requirements, give corresponding punishment.
3. Cultivate children's independence: children should cultivate good independence when they are four years old. Parents should let their children do what they can, such as walking, eating and sleeping independently, which can basically be said to be self-care. Then you can start to overcome your child's dependence. For example, in some games or simple learning, it is best for children to find ways to solve problems independently. After that, the child's personal ability will be significantly improved and the child's independence will be further stimulated.