This is a painful and tangled point for many working mothers. They may go to work, do WeChat business full-time, or do freelance work at home. In short, they are very busy, they may have to travel a lot and have little time to spend with their children.

But they also know that it is important to spend more time with their children, so they will feel guilty inside.

But according to my observation, this kind of psychology is relatively rare among fathers who are also busy at work. Most of them feel that they are busy and hard at work and have made great contributions to their families. Family members (wives) should understand them more.

So I found that women seem to be more naturally trapped by guilt and entanglement.

In energetics, guilt, self-blame and entanglement are all negative energy, which can't make the result better, but consume yourself.

What is the purpose of our accompanying children? It is to make children feel safe and get the love and welcome of their parents, so I think what children need most is the high-quality companionship of their parents, followed by the length of time.

If you can't understand the child's psychological feelings, let's change the scene:

A. My husband is very busy at work and has little time to spend with his wife. Sometimes he goes back very late, but every night he chats with his wife, hugs her, talks about himself and expresses his love for her.

B. My husband is not busy at work and goes home early after work, but when he gets home, he plays games, watches TV and brushes Tik Tok. He doesn't listen to his wife and he rarely shows his love for her.

If you are a wife, which husband do you think brings you more happiness? There is no doubt that this is one!

So actually, children feel the same way.

My suggestion is:

Mothers don't need to feel guilty about this, just spare as much special "parent-child time" as possible every day, and accompany their children with high quality and dedication!

At this time, you should put down your mobile phone and start working. You can accompany your child to read books, tell stories, play games, and do handicrafts. Whatever you want, just be happy.

When you are with me, you must look at the child's eyes intently and listen to the child carefully instead of expressing yourself.

Even if it is only half an hour every day, children will have a full sense of happiness.

Children are actually very easy to satisfy. They love their parents more than their parents love them. Give them full love and attention. They are wiser than you think.

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