My daughter is 32 months old now. Since 1 year-old, my wife will read her some ancient poems before going to bed every day, and the children will fall asleep after listening to them. Suddenly one day, we found that she had been able to recite the ancient poems she often read fluently. Looking at her lovely appearance, my mother and I couldn't help being surprised at the same time. Up to now, children have been able to recite nearly 50 ancient poems fluently, which has emptied my mother's and me's reserve of ancient poems and forced us to take time out to learn new poems. sorry
From the point of view of adults, it is impossible to understand how children learn these things, which completely subverts our cognition of children. She doesn't learn by rote like us. She is more like a copier. Whether she can understand it or not, as long as it often appears in front of her eyes and ears, she can copy it intact into her mind. Thinking of this, I can't help but sigh that the children's world is really a magical world that parents need to explore. We're the only ones standing on her side.
In fact, on the other hand, this phenomenon is not difficult to understand. Just like learning a language, our mother tongue is like our instinct. Even a person who hasn't studied for a day can speak fluent mother tongue as long as he lives in society. No matter how difficult it is to learn a language, as long as it is our mother tongue, it is easy for us to learn it without even feeling it. This is precisely because we are immersed in the mother tongue environment every day from birth, naturally.
Then why don't we feel anything when we learn our mother tongue? Because learning a language is a critical period, the ability to learn a language before the age of 6 is the strongest in a person's life, and the older he gets, the weaker he gets, which is why it is very difficult for us to learn a foreign language when we grow up, and it is as natural for infants to learn their mother tongue as drinking water. Look! Are our three-year-old children much better than us? So, don't underestimate them, as long as we subconsciously regard them as "little superman", then I believe they will definitely give us a big surprise in return, so act quickly!
As a treasure dad, although it's my first time as a dad, I like reading. I read a lot of books about early education and how to be a good parent, and I also participated in the practice during my daughter's whole growth and explored a lot of experience.
As an irreplaceable role of mother, father must undertake the education of children. In fact, children prefer to play with their fathers, because many fathers are older children themselves, and children can find the feeling of playing better, so as long as I am at home, I must seize every minute with my children and try my best to give them a perfect childhood. The three-character scripture says: it is the father's fault to raise and not teach. At present, there are only many fathers who position themselves as earning money to support their families, leaving their children entirely to their mothers, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of their children.
The children's world is more "copy" and "repetition". Never simply think that children are difficult to learn because they think there are few children. In fact, in the children's world, there is no difference between an "Xi" and a "1". The only difference is which one appears more around them. This is their world, a magical world, so we just need.
A good family environment will make children feel more love and want to integrate into this family. At this time, children will imitate their parents' behavior more efficiently and actively. You will find that if parents smile and say good morning to him when they get up every day, and they will sing, dance and play games with him happily every day, then the child will be like a mirror and give you a smiling face every day. Over time, they will develop a lively and cheerful good character. As the saying goes, "Look at three years old and look at seven years old."