I think the growth of children is more influenced by family than school.
Parents are the most important enlightenment teachers for children, and their words and deeds play a decisive role in the formation and development of children's thoughts, morality, behavior and values.
In the family, children received the initial moral education, living habits and social skills. Families can also give children love, care, support and a sense of security.
Therefore, family plays an irreplaceable role in children's growth.
First, the family is the first place to educate children, and the personality foundation of children aged 0- 12 has been laid.
There used to be a saying in the education circle: family education is the infiltration of personality, and children are you. This sentence is recognized and circulated because children are at the peak of their imitation ability at the age of 0- 12, and the closest people they contact are their parents. Parents' attitudes, behaviors and thinking about things will be branded in their subconscious and will affect their lives unconsciously.
/kloc-children after 0/2 years old have a relatively clear "self", and they will form their own preliminary judgment on the outside world. This kind of judgment, if they get a good family education before, will make them have a clear bottom line and will not be influenced by others or the environment. In other words, good family education can lay a good personality for children, and children are not bad.
Therefore, from the perspective of the influence and construction of children's personality foundation, family education has a greater influence.
Second, family education is relatively fixed, and teachers who come into contact with school education are mobile.
Many words and deeds of teachers will have an impact on children, but the probability of indelible impact is very low. Often it is something that inspires the child, or some words or actions deeply hurt the child. But in reality, there are many teachers who follow the rules, and their influence on children is often negligible.
On the one hand, in our current school education, almost every grade is upgraded, and we change teachers. For children, teachers are mobile. On the other hand, teachers are more responsible for imparting knowledge. Although we always say "teaching and educating people", there are not many teachers who can really "educate people".
So from this perspective, family education has a greater impact than school education.
Third, family education provides children with more growth nutrition than school.
It is true that with the rapid development of social economy and the state's emphasis on education, our school provides more and more educational resources for students, such as libraries, laboratories, literary societies and so on.
However, the rich educational resources provided by schools are always less than those provided by families to children. Especially in the compulsory education stage. Family education can also help children go out regularly to broaden their horizons, give them love and companionship, and give them a three-view education of positive energy. These are the advantages of family education.
Perhaps family education is not as good as school in imparting knowledge, but it will have a far-reaching impact than school education in terms of habits, thinking and attitude towards life.
So, this is why I think family education has a greater influence than school education.
Fourth, compare the time from the beginning.
Family education is earlier and deeper.
They have been dealing with their parents every day since their children were born. Parents will continue to help them develop various abilities and life experiences, and learn to climb, sit, stand and walk, all of which are important components of education. After all, these skills are accumulated by children from scratch.
It is no exaggeration to say that family education began before the child was born.
For example, the prenatal education that parents give their children outside their stomachs, the thoughts and thoughts of mothers, and even the big and small things that they experience every day are all education in other ways.
This is something that school education can't compare with and catch up with. After all, the earliest time limit for receiving school education is the 2-year-old early education class. The gap between these two years can not be easily surpassed in a short time. This is also a measure!
In fact, both family and school are an important part of children's growth. Which part will produce the butterfly effect, or it needs the close cooperation between parents and schools.
Conclusion:
Generally speaking, both family education and school education are very important. If we have to compare, family education will really have a greater impact on a person's life.
For children's growth and bright future, please pay attention to children's early education, especially family education!