First, why do children steal things?
23-year-old children sometimes see things they like and often take them back to play with themselves, but this is not real theft. The real theft usually happens between the age of 6 and adolescence. Some children aged 5 to 6 or 10 to 12 steal from others, which is of little value. Sometimes he has something at home, and maybe he doesn't even know why he wants it back. If you want to know how to educate children, you must first understand the winter when children steal things:
1. There is no concept of ownership
Children often have a self-centered psychological prominence. As long as the things around you are what you like, shout to others: "this is mine, don't move!" " He sees that others have something he likes and wants to keep it for himself. Moreover, they often can't distinguish the concept of "ownership" and take their own things and what others have and like for granted. Sometimes children may have the idea that even other people's things, "I just want to play with them", just like stamping their own toys, don't need to tell others, and the result is "stealing"
I hope to get what I don't have.
Some children know that it is wrong to take other people's things at will, but when they see that others have something they like, they always hope that they can have it, but their parents will not buy it, so they have to "steal" it to satisfy their wishes without being discovered.
luck
Sometimes children know it is wrong to steal from others, but they also remember to take advantage when people are not looking. Will think that just secretly take one, will not be found. For example, Dongdong found many building blocks when he went to a friend's house to play, and he liked them very much. I thought that so many would not be discovered by my friends, so I naturally "brought" some home.
Show your courage.
Some children are always willing to show their courage among their peers, so they try this adventure of stealing to prove that Bai Ji is very courageous and brave. However, he may not know that his "brave" behavior is wrong.
Step 5 imitate peers
Maybe the children around you steal and let them imitate. That's why they steal. These all need to communicate with children more, or observe children and their friends more, because children have no own judgment, so they always imitate others.
Never do this when you find a child stealing;
1. Beat and scold without asking why.
Label a child
3. Ignore children's self-esteem
Children can be guided by fairy tales and children's songs.