My baby is now one year and nine months old. As a novice mother, before talking about the topic "Being a mother is bitter", I want to talk about my thoughts before giving birth to a child. In fact, before having children, I was afraid that having children would reduce my husband's love for me and I didn't have time to go shopping for skin care. I have to buy him toys and diapers, and my quality of life will drop a lot because of him. But when he really appeared in my life, I changed my mind.

When he was very young, I was crazy because he had to get up many times at night. But recently, the baby has said a lot and has his own consciousness. Grandma took him during the day, and when I came home from work in the afternoon, he came to me like a bird and shouted "Mom" with open arms. At this time, even if I am tired and bored at work, his smiling face will make me feel bright and clear in an instant. I will take him to the playground for an early education class on weekends. He gradually became my little tail. He will go to work with me to get things and attend a friend's wedding. Every time I hold him more than 30 kilograms, I feel that it is not heavy at all, because this is my world.

I say so much because taking care of children is a very tiring job, but such a small person brings us more happiness.

Before I became a mother, I never thought that I would carry a little guy weighing more than 30 kilograms around every day, nor that I would willingly give all the delicious food at hand to others, let alone that I would get up and feed him milk powder when I was sleepy. Being a child makes me more complete than being a mother. He makes me extremely soft, he makes me extremely strong, he makes me feel a lot deeper for my parents, and he makes me love my job more.

When there is no baby, I go to bed after work and sleep half the time on weekends. Now I want to think about how to enrich his life, bring him new things after work, and let him experience the life that grandma can't give him at the weekend. Of course, I haven't lost myself. My life doesn't revolve around him. I will also buy nice clothes and favorite snacks, but I will be happier with him. After shopping with my best friend, I will hug him and kiss him before he goes to bed, so that I can fall asleep quickly.

"Being a mother is difficult" is really not poisonous chicken soup. Being a mother is really hard, but compared with other hard work, being a mother will bring more happiness I am a novice mother, and I enjoy my present life very much.