The first trick: grab her stomach, as the saying goes, grab his stomach, and grab his people, which is very useful for her husband and more useful for her mother-in-law. When watching TV, I can often see that my mother-in-law likes to say in front of her daughter-in-law, "Hey, I am old and have no appetite. I don't know what to eat." At this time, you should ask your husband, your father-in-law, what your mother-in-law likes to eat best, and then take her mother-in-law out for a big meal with her own salary or private money. Maybe she will say that you are wasting and can't keep the house. You can confidently answer her, "In order to make my mother-in-law eat well, I would rather eat almost as much as myself and save money for you to enjoy!" My mother-in-law must be very happy when I hear this. Besides, her mother-in-law has a short mouth and eats your big meal. Although she won't praise you at home, she won't say you are wrong in front of others, will she? It's easy to take my mother-in-law to a high-end hotel or a snack once or twice a month, but the effect of easing the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most obvious. The second trick: teach my mother-in-law to play computer. I believe that computers are more popular at home now, but for the older generation, what computers can do and bring is still not well understood. At this time, you can teach her to simply use the mouse, open the webpage and click on the webpage, scenery or video she wants to watch. If your mother-in-law's education level is high enough, you can apply for a QQ number for her, plus the numbers of her son and daughter. How to pronounce is of great help to the mother-in-law who misses her son and daughter. Although the process is a bit complicated and takes a little long, you need enough patience. But is the relationship between your mother-in-law and your wife much better? Her free time has finally passed, so she won't always look down on you. Just a reminder, remember to buy a pair of reading glasses for your mother-in-law, so that she can watch the computer conveniently and show your concern. The third measure: shopping women like shopping, which is a natural hobby, so do the elderly like it? The answer is yes, no matter what age, women will never forget to dress themselves up. My mother-in-law used to be young, she loved to dress up and wore fashionable and beautiful clothes. Now they are wrinkled and out of shape, but there are still cosmetics and clothes suitable for them. You take them shopping, choose suitable clothes and shoes for them, dress them up, they are in a good mood, and it is harder to take care of their children at home and do housework. Moreover, proper shopping is equivalent to exercise, which is good for health and can reduce the occurrence of various diseases. We can have a good chat when shopping. Maybe you have the same preferences, then the bridge of friendship will naturally be built. The fourth measure: gossip. All girlfriends have the same topic, that is, other people's gossip, saying that people are long and short, saying that you and I are little secrets. At home, you can cook with your mother-in-law and listen to her talk about who gave birth to the child and who quarreled. She must be happy to respond to her appropriately, feeling that the old woman is not talking to herself at last. Speak well of your father-in-law in front of your mother-in-law, speak well of your husband, and give an example of how your husband loves her mother-in-law. This sounds sweeter than honey to my mother-in-law. A daughter-in-law as smart and sensible as you is no better than her daughter! After the above actions, did you succeed in becoming girlfriends? Now mother-in-law wants to please her daughter-in-law. If you please your mother-in-law, your family life will be perfect. Her mother-in-law will be willing to babysit, cook and clean for you. Her husband will also praise you for being a good wife and discerning, and your good reputation will spread quickly among relatives. How can I become best friends with my mother-in-law II. First, the mother-in-law's ability should not be underestimated. The initial argument was because I bought spring clothes for my daughter. In the shopping mall, my mother-in-law insisted on taking size two, whether it was clothes or shoes and socks. Her reason is that the price of children's clothes is too outrageous, and the villain grows up with the wind. They can only wear it for two more years if they buy a larger size, which can reduce the cost of childcare. I can't help crying and laughing: clothes need to fit to look good! The mother-in-law from an accounting background is angry: a child who doesn't understand beauty and ugliness will be happy in new clothes! As if to prove what grandma said is true, my daughter has been cheering and can't wait to put on that new suit. Long sleeves are like water sleeves in costume dramas, and pants are dragged on the ground, especially those empty shoes, which make her stumble. I am very anxious to tell my mother-in-law: from tomorrow on, my daughter can skip the activity class. My mother-in-law looked surprised. I said that my colleague's son was injured in the game because his clothes and shoes were too big. Now he is still in the hospital! The mother-in-law looked worried and picked up her daughter in a panic, asking the waiter to change the right number immediately. I stood by, grinning. I won the game by luck. But the contradiction began, and it came out like a line, which really caught me off guard. I promised my daughter a lovely Barbie doll for her birthday, but my mother-in-law shook her head again and again after seeing the price and couldn't tell me anything. I tried my best, but she remained unmoved. Looking at my daughter's red eyes, I was extremely depressed. After returning home, my mother-in-law went to the tailor's shop and asked for some cloth. She sewed a rag bag and red silk peppers for her daughter. My daughter is still in tears, but she grinned. Finally, the grandparents and grandchildren were like a family. Before going to bed, they actually sewed a doll with a bulging face, a red mouth and a cute little hat. The daughter was so happy that she kissed the doll again. In the second game, I lost convincingly: the DIY ability of the older generation should not be underestimated. You see, my daughter is usually obsessed with TV, but now she doesn't even watch cartoons. Under the guidance of her mother-in-law, she embroidered the doll's skirt with dignity. Looking at the childlike petals, my heart suddenly warmed up: it is a blessing for the younger generation to have an old man at home! Second, don't worry about communicating with her. Just when I was glad, new troubles suddenly struck, and my mother-in-law wanted to teach her daughter arithmetic. At first, it was just an oral question and answer, suitable for all ages. But within two days, she praised her granddaughter for her cleverness and began to leave homework for her children: fifty additions and subtractions every day. The little man with open fingers became more and more confused, and tears fell down one after another. In this way, the mother-in-law also plans to let her daughter sign up for an early English class. I quickly stopped my mother-in-law's "talent project" and she didn't listen. This time, neither mother-in-law nor daughter-in-law will give in. I said that it would be counterproductive to pull out the seedlings, and she said that pampering would destroy the children; I said that it is the age to play, and she said that children should not lose at the starting line; I said I would be tired of learning, and she said I couldn't succeed without suffering ... The more we talked, the more anxious we became, and the louder we became. My daughter thought that my grandmother and I had quarreled, and she was so scared that she burst into tears. In desperation, I had to get through to my husband and make the first call for help. After dinner, my husband asked me to turn on the video. First he praised his mother, saying that she was the biggest hero in the family. Mother-in-law was as happy as a child, and her husband suddenly turned around and said homework. He first affirmed his mother's good intentions, and then euphemistically expressed his thoughts. Strangely enough, my husband copied all my views intact, but my mother-in-law accepted them gladly. Not convinced, I quietly asked my husband on QQ if my mother-in-law was eccentric. He smiled and said, you are too impatient. When you speak, you are tit for tat. Even if you are right, it is unacceptable. When there is another argument, I always smile and have a gentle tone. I try to learn from my husband and communicate with my mother-in-law in time. Sure enough, when they were talking and laughing, all the filth vanished.