There was a popular saying many years ago:? Don't let the children lose at the starting line? This also reflects parents' educational anxiety. What they are anxious about is not whether their children will lose, but whether they will lose.
Can children really learn the content of early education classes? Even if you study now, can children remember? Do these contents have any positive influence on children's future path?
The answers are all negative. Parents know that children can't learn. Why are they in such a hurry to send their children there? Because they don't want to regret their parents' career.
Being a parent for the first time, no one knows what is right, but it is always right to follow the crowd. Everyone else has sent their children to kindergarten, shouldn't I? Am I worse than other parents?
In the whole social environment, everyone raises children in this way. Should I lag behind others? In case my child is worse than others in the future, will it be because I didn't send him to the early education class?
In the parents' subconscious, they don't send their children to early education classes to let them learn knowledge, but because they don't want to be complained by their children in the future. Because they want to make sure that other children have mine, and they all have the same starting line. Why can't you compete with others when you grow up? That can only say that your own foundation is poor, not that the environment created by your parents is not good.
Parents try their best to follow the crowd and spend money to send their children to early education classes. In fact, they are also transferring their educational responsibilities. They can't educate their children themselves, so they spend money to educate others. In the end, no matter what the result is, I have done my duty as a parent. One day in the future, when I talk about these past events, I can also say loudly: I tried my best. ?
Admittedly, from the perspective of young people, I don't agree with my parents' actions, but when I become a parent myself, will I make the same choice?
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